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writes:I wrote a song for this girl I really like even though she's dating someone else. Should I sing it to her in public or in private at any of the parties this year? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2007): What you first have got to remember is that she's dating someone else, she's not interested in you. If she was then why is she going out with someone else? If you did write her a song (which, i assume, is rather lovey dovey) and sang it to her in public and the person she's dating found out about it or was there at the time you sing it then i'm sure that they wouldn't be thrilled about it. They might even dump her and she'll hate you for her break up. You don't want that do you? Also, don't sing it to her in private. Everyone would probably find out and if the person she's dating dumps her both they and her (the girl you like) will hate you. Or at the very least it will confuse her. Move on from this girl. You are young. Find a girl who's interested in you and isn't dating anyone else.
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reader, stina +, writes (18 July 2007):
 Hi Anonymous,
Unless you want to confuse her and piss off her boyfriend, I would not plan on singing this to her at any point - whether it be at a party or to her in private. If she's involved with someone already, you shouldn't be trying to get with her - that's disrespectful.
What I *would* recommend, however, is recording the song and saving it. If she is ever *single*, then you could sing it for her in person, or just "happen" to have the song with you and play it for her. Maybe while it's playing, you could say "I wrote this for you." She'd probably be impressed either way you decide to do it.
Singing it in person would be romantic, but playing it after recording will say that you've done a lot of work - plus you could add background instruments and make it sound even better. There are lots of computer programs out there that you could use to create the rest of the music if you don't have real instruments- like drums, a bass, guitar, etc. She'll see how much work you've put into it and would probably think it's really sweet. I think she'd be flattered. ^_^
If you end up recording the song and adding additional instruments, etc to it and not playing it for her, it might be a good demo tape/cd. Maybe you could form a band because of the song or even send it to underground, independant and/or new recording labels. (I used to help run a record label and we got a lot of demo tapes. Some we actually decided to pick up and press records and cds for. It's worth a shot!) ^_^
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2007): I think it would be better if you took a wait and see approach. She is in a relationship right now and to have someone other than her boyfriend serenade her (whether in private or in public) would probably cause her embarrassment. It would also be likely to make her feel uncomfortable around you.
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