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writes:Hi There People,I Have Just A Quick Question.My Biggest Fear Is Getting Pregnant, But Im SO In Love With MY Boyfriend (and he loves me too :) ) That We Started Having Sex The Problem Is, I'm Getting On The Pill But I Want To Be Safer Than That So I Suggested To My Man That He Can Wear A Condom And Use Spermicide. Then he Said That Spermicide Is Too Painfull For The Girl And It Will Sting. Does It? Because I Dont Think It Should. I Think Its The Fact That I Suggesed Killing Off His Baby Gravy To Make It Safe. We Do Wanna Start A Family Later In Life But Were Stil Too Young. Help Me Please?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (18 July 2007):
 I used spermicide as my only form birth control (after marriage) and was able to space my three kids two years apart successfully then hubby had a vasectomy. My doctor said I was lucky because spermicide is only about 75% effective at least it was way back then ;). I never had any problems using it. Condoms and spermicide should do the trick.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (18 July 2007):
 I have used spermacides and have never had a reaction or found it painful in the least. It is best to use a combination contraception as you and penta suggest. Either condon and pill or condom and spermacide are both excellant ways to ensure that you dont get pregnant.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (18 July 2007):
 Penta is right.
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reader, penta +, writes (18 July 2007):
 I have had a problem with spermicide. It wasn't painful, but every time I used it I had a reaction (maybe I was allergic?). I can't imaging that EVERY woman has that reaction, or it wouldn't sell as well as it does.
I think the combination of the pill and a condom (every time) is safe enough without the spermicide, though. So you can probably compromise on that one and still be safe.
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