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writes:I fell in love with a 19 years old girl for 2 months now and we seemed to get along very well. She also loves me. We had an argument lately and she said she wanted to break up with me. I didn't take her for serious but then, I found out that a girlfriend of hers was trying hard to convince her that I was no good for her and that she should go back with an ex boyfriend who just divorced with 2 kids. I then got back to her and things seem to be OK for us now, but ever since that, I feel very depressed, because I don't eat and sleep as usual, and I'm scared at the idea that she could do it again. I cannot concentrate on my job and I call her many times a day just to make sure everything's OK before I can calm down. Please help me find a way because I don't feel secure and happy like before and I have no idea what the future will be like.Thank you
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reader, kewuoygy  +, writes (18 October 2010):
It is an exception rather than the rule that a relationship between a 50+ old man and a 19 year old girl can ever work out. The closest example I can think of is Woody Allen and his latest love. Allen at 56 was known to have been romantically involved with Soon-Yi Previn while she was 22. Unless your 19 year old gf lives on her own, free from family and peer pressure, your chance of having a long-term romantic relationship with her is very slim--not to mention the maturity gap because of the age difference.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Of course she'll do it again, she's only 19 freakin' years old. YOU wonder what the future will be like...think of what she feels when SHE thinks of the future with gramps! Sheesh..we get too soon old and too late smart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): A 19 year old girl is not mature and will be flighty. I'm curious why she is interested in you..... Do you treat her like a princess and buy her things? Does she say I love you on her own, or does she respond to you saying it first? I think you are setting yourself up for some major hurt and I can't understand what you have in common with a 19 yr.old other than a shared level of immaturity.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Sorry if I appear blunt but you are more than old enough to be this girl's grandfather, more than double her age, when she was born you were already in your thirties ....
And it may have escaped your notice during the past 50 years but it takes more than 2 months to fall in love ... its time for a reality check!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): Im afraid there is no future she is 19 yrs old,you are from diffrent eras period
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