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What does she want from me ? Friendship ? Attention ? Life is too short for these stupid games.

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Question - (4 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2010)
A male Hungary age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've known this girl for a few month now we used to text everyday ( one of her girlfriends told me she liked me and got my number for her)and see each other through our group of friends quite abit, occasionally I'd walk her home, and I really liked her so I decided to tell her.

She just said she wasn't looking for anything at the minute and that she didn't even realize I thought of her in that way, which was okay got knocked back move on.

I wasn't going to text her anymore and wasn't expecting any texts from her but she still texted me like we normally would for a few days then it just started to get less and less and now nothing. Can someone shed some light on why ? I have no delusions of ever getting with her but I liked her as a friend as well and she was fun to talk to.

I don't get why she started texting me after I told her then stopped it a couple of days later ? Why not just stop texting me like straight after and why did she text me first ?

I got a text from her at 2 this morning, just asking what I'd been up to, she hadnt texted me all day but for some reason decided to at 2 in the morning ? She texted me again this morning and i replied later when i wasnt busy. This just adds to the confusion. I was accepting she was ignoring me and didn't want friendship, now it really seems like she just playing a game with me and i life is too short to waste on childish games. Whats peoples views on this ?

All girls this weird or just the Hungarian ones ?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (4 October 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntYep all weird girls end up in Hungary sooner or later. just kidding. I'd just relax and enjoy the friendship such as it is and not read anything more into it. Go ahead and keep looking for that special someone however.

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