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writes:Hey,I'm just another average girl, with just another average life.But my problem is that I'm unconditionally and completely in love with this guy, which is kinda normal.But what's not normal is that now he's a super star and if I named him most people would most probably say I'm joking or whatever. But our families have been friends since forever, and whenever he has time to come home we do get to meet, and I've been in love with him since we were children, before he was soo famous.I really don't know what to do. We're best friends and keep in touch most of the time but he's always being connected to other women, and I really don't know what to do now.Your advice would be valued... :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): Hi,
I'm the original poster.
Thanks for all your lovely advice, it's much appreciated!And like dirtball said that while I may love him we're not in a relationship, which just seems impossible at the moment (but fingers crossed and thinking positively)!
I'm not exactly closing my eyes to other boys either, but it is kinnda hard to notice when a particular guy you happen to have loved since you were in grade 8 is running in your mind.
As for telling him, I haven't been able to yet. I just don't want to ruin what we already have for something I really wish we did!
But it's really funny how our families know how I feel about him, and they often joke about it too infront of him, but apparentely he doesn't care or get it.....
I guess I'm being a little dramatic about it, but I really do love him alot, so please wish me all the best, keep your fingers crossed, and advice will be much MUCH appreciated......
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (20 December 2010):
 No advise here, I'm still waiting for Johnny Depp to call me back....
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (20 December 2010):
I agree with dirtball. Celebrities have a hard time trusting people after they get famous, because many of them are after money or have some other ulterior motive. Many of them say that their family and friends from 'before' keep them grounded. Those women he's connected to don't have that. They wouldn't be connected to him if it weren't for his fame.
So just keep being there, supporting him like you always have been and tell him how you feel when he's in a normal setting (a.k.a. not glamorous.) Whatever you do, don't close your eyes for other guys.
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reader, feelslikeimdivorcedalready +, writes (20 December 2010):
Wow that is so awesome, i wish i knew someone famous. Well anyway love does conquer all, as they say. If i was you I wouldn't jump to conclusions too quickly. You have known eachother since childhood and you have always been intouch. When he comes home he comes to see you, thats a plus. yes, all superstars get female attention, its the business, it sells. Just stand by him as you always have, being supportive but not smothering him. Have you told him or does he know how you feel? Does he reciprocate? i know those are questions as well but its something to ponder and consider.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 December 2010):
 WHile you say you're in love with him, it doesn't sound like you're in a relationship with him. I would say that you shouldn't get your hopes up too high.
On a positive note, I've seen many interviews with celebrities who are married. Many of them marry people from their past because those people knew and supported them before they became famous. There is a feeling among many celebrities that people who attach themselves after they get famous are nothing but leaches. It's the people who were there for them all along that are most valuable to them.
What you should do now is support him as much as you can. Don't get dragged down by who he's dating or how exciting his life may appear to be. It may go to his head, but he will likely come around. Good luck.
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