What do the girls do to stay true to there new boy?
Q. I have read all the Q and ans for the situation in which the girl is not virgin and her boy is getting mad for that thing. I have similar problem, but in all those posts i have realized that those girls are behaving good and innocent now. I just ...
A. 9 March 2011: "there" should be "their" my 3rd grade teacher is rolling in her grave.... (read in full...)
What do the girls do to stay true to there new boy?
Q. I have read all the Q and ans for the situation in which the girl is not virgin and her boy is getting mad for that thing. I have similar problem, but in all those posts i have realized that those girls are behaving good and innocent now. I just ...
A. 8 March 2011: Some girls stay true to there significant other whether they were virgins or not when they met them AND some girls do not. You've lived long enough to know there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to human behavior.... (read in full...)
Ladies, if you’re with a well endowed man, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect?
Q. Ladies...if you are with a man who is well endowed, what is it, exactly, that gets you most excited about sex with him from a purely physical aspect? If it is his size, what specifically about his penis is the most enticing? Seeing it and looking ...
A. 8 March 2011: You know a day without a penis question is like a day without sunshine for me.... (read in full...)
Sleep talking...
Q. I have been seeing my partner for just over a year now and things are going really well. Our sex life is very good however on approx 7 to 8 occasions after sex when he has fallen asleep he starts to talk. He always says "I love you Julie" (his ex ...
A. 8 March 2011: Sorry but if he has said this that many times I think he's doing it on purpose to upset you. I think you'd better ask him why. ... (read in full...)
I look like a 'porn star' but I want to attract older man, because I am serious inside. Should I tone it down a notch?
Q. I have a question I am a 24year old woman that is attracted to older man mid thirties especially 36 37 year olds. I love the confort of a mature man. BUT i was wondering I am very self conscious and typically look like a always nice and dressed ...
A. 8 March 2011: Sorry but I couldn't get passed the "the big breast lips"... (read in full...)
I lied and told him I was pregnant.
Q. my bofriend and i have been together for the past 7 1/2 months we broke about 4 months now and is not living together anymore but we continue to have sex, i love him so much and want him back more than anything else i know his heart desire is ...
A. 7 March 2011: You have no choice but to tell him the truth. If you lie again and say something like you misacarried then he'll think you had an abortion. Just fess up and hope he'll forgive you.... (read in full...)
A co-worker has a crush on me. Is it my turn to pursue him?
Q. I have a question regarding the game of romance. A co-worker has a crush on me. It used to be that he would just stare at me. Next step was going out of his way to walk past my desk, etc. He knows that I have feelings for him also. We doesn't ...
A. 4 March 2011: Neither of you are married? If not then the only thing stopping your romance would be the fact that office romances can be very tricky. If things go sour it can be a real bummer seeing each other every day. But if you guys are clicking, and you ... (read in full...)
A married man at work wants my attention. I am attracted to him, so I'm struggling with this. How can I stop these feelings, and how do I get him to leave me alone
Q. I am a pretty young woman. There is this man at work who is always trying to get my attention but he has a wife and family. I really find him attractive and think he is a nice person. But I do not want to get in the middle of a marriage or caus...
A. 4 March 2011: Do what DB says, you definitely don't want to go down that road.... (read in full...)
What nicknames do girls give to their vaginas?
Q. hiya. im 17 F. i know its a bit silly but my girl friends and i were talking about what nicknames we call our vaginas and we wanted to know more names. we came up with pussy, fluffy and gina. can you help? ...
A. 4 March 2011: Mylo?... (read in full...)
13 year old boyfriend wears briefs. Does it really matter?
Q. My boyfriend is 13 and he still wears briefs. Does it really matter? He wears ones like these: http://direct.asda.com/george/kid-s-clothing/older-boys/underwear/5-pack-camo-briefs/GEM61476,default,pd.html...
A. 4 March 2011: I checked out the link you gave us and now I have a big question for you, If he's wearing camouflage briefs...how can you see them?... (read in full...)
The most wanted pennis size
Q. female input needed for the best result. What is the pennis preference size irrespective of knowing how to use it or not. I mean the ultimate size you'll wish if your man had....thank u...
A. 4 March 2011: Our second penis size question of the day! ... (read in full...)
Female input needed!
Q. For women only. How would you feel if a guy that you are interested in had 9 inch long penis?...
A. 4 March 2011: Hey where'd my response go?... (read in full...)
13 year old boyfriend wears briefs. Does it really matter?
Q. My boyfriend is 13 and he still wears briefs. Does it really matter? He wears ones like these: http://direct.asda.com/george/kid-s-clothing/older-boys/underwear/5-pack-camo-briefs/GEM61476,default,pd.html...
A. 4 March 2011: How on earth do you know what kind of underwear your 13 year old "boyfriend" wears? PM me your mother's phone number, Missy. She needs a phone call.... (read in full...)
Anal sex resulted in bleeding
Q. Hi my name is alexis im 18 and i had anal sex with a condom but ive noticed that i have anal bleeding wen i wipe my bottom and it hurts after i go to the toilet is this normal ?? im getting a quite worried Please help...
A. 4 March 2011: This is because your poop chute is not designed for sex. If your bleeding persists you need to see a physician.... (read in full...)
My younger GF is jealous of my ex + child !
Q. Hi - where do i start? Ill try to be brief (lol) im over 35, seeing a Young Woman, 22 we get along great, shes not a bimbo, very compatable sexually, shes stunning, adoring etc been together a year and shes living with me most days and at ...
A. 4 March 2011: Oh I get it! This one of those stream of consciousness narratives!
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Wife has banned her husband from talking to me!
Q. There is this married man who has a huge crush on me. Everybody knows it. He used to see me everyday and we would talk within our group of friends and sometimes on our own. I have been told by other friends that his wife did not like that he had a ...
A. 3 March 2011: I would suggest you spend all your energy focusing on your own business and quit pondering on their marriage. Crushes come and go at the drop of a hat.... (read in full...)
I want to see my old friend but her husband won't let her.
Q. OK, I normally post about one situation, but finally I would like to ask something new! I have a long-time friend. We dated when we were in college. This was 16 years ago. We were friends first, then we became romantically involved for a f...
A. 3 March 2011: I read your article: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-myth-of-best-friends-of-the-opposite.html. It makes me wonder a tad about this posting.... (read in full...)
How do I start loving myself and feel worthy? my self esteem is at rock bottom
Q. Will I ever feel good enough is the question. I am nearly 36 and to cut a long story short, I feel pretty worthless and not good enough and not accepted and worry about being judged and people realising this about me. I am fairly sure it stems from ...
A. 2 March 2011: I recommend you keep looking for a therapist who can actually help you. You have some really deep seated anxieties and also sound very depressed. I doubt you can fix this without some professional help but I do think you can overcome all this and ... (read in full...)
Is grinding with other guys considered as cheating?
Q. I have a boyfriend and I have girls night out sometimes. So here's my question: Grinding/dancing with other guys considered as cheating? I mean, i wouldn't want my bf to be upset if i dance with other guys but my gfs tell me it's fine... what are ...
A. 1 March 2011: Personally I think it sounds painful.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's sense of humor.
Q. My girlfriend has mesmerizing sense of humor which can bring out something funny even of the most tense situation . Some time I feel jealous that why I can't match her sense of humor . Though, I'm proud of her having this natural gifted thing but I ...
A. 1 March 2011: If you recognize her sense of humor yours must be just as acute. After all, you have to have a sense of humor in order appreciate one. Personally I love a dry sense of humor. Just make sure you aren't as funny as you look.... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair with a married man who's now in love with me...
Q. I have been having an affair with a married man for nearly a year now, I am a single girl and this just started as a bit of fun, but in the last few months he has been telling me that he is so in love with me . He has been married for a year and a ...
A. 1 March 2011: Yep you totally suckered for the oldest line in the book. Wake up and smell the coffee, Sweet Cheeks. Tell him it's either you or the wife and see him run away as fast as his little cheater legs can take him.... (read in full...)
I can't keep up this secret much longer!!!
Q. Going to keep this as short as possible.. I am a girl that's16 years old and am in a relationship with a 20 year old male. As I am living with my parents, and knew they would be against this we've been in a secret relationship for 10 months. ...
A. 28 February 2011: Does your relationship include sexual activity?... (read in full...)
He's 38, and I'm 21. Someday I would like to have kids, but he doesn't think he wants them. Should I stay?
Q. I am 21 years old and have been with my 38 year old boyfriend for over a year...we live together and get on sooooo well. He never upsets me, treats me like a princess and I love him to bits. The problem is, I would like to have children in the ...
A. 28 February 2011: Sorry but, unless he changes his mind about having kids, this is a deal buster. If you stay in this relationship I'm afraid you'll grow to resent him for denying you children. This is a common problem with age gaps as large as yours. Have a nice ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to take Viagra?
Q. My boyfriend has started using Viagra to have sex with me, in the beginning we used to have sex all the time and there was no problem and now he feels the need to take it every time. Is this because he's not attracted to me anymore?...
A. 25 February 2011: Like I said before, Viagra DOES NOT influence a guy's sex drive, it merely helps to sustain the erection. The desire and motivation has to be there first or the results are nill.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to take Viagra?
Q. My boyfriend has started using Viagra to have sex with me, in the beginning we used to have sex all the time and there was no problem and now he feels the need to take it every time. Is this because he's not attracted to me anymore?...
A. 25 February 2011: How old is your boyfriend? If he is around your age it's mighty strange he would need Viagra at such a young age. He isn't ill or have some other mediical condition? And by the way Viagra doesn't CAUSE erections, it just helps to sustain them.... (read in full...)
He squints his eyes at me and not at others, what does his weird body language mean?
Q. i am a female and whenever i am talking to this (married) man i know, he is looking at me like sun is shining in his eyes. and if he should respond to what i am saying, he looks downwards and nodding. sometimes, he just says 'right, right, right" or ...
A. 25 February 2011: What do you want his body language to mean? Are you crushing on the guy?... (read in full...)
Am I stupid for wanting to wait for him?
Q. Hello. I am in a dielmma and need some advice. I recently connected with my first love through facebook and we got together. It went so well but the problem is now that he is going through a legal nightmare from years ago and is now in jail. He ...
A. 24 February 2011: Well 6 months isn't that long, but I would advise you take it very slowly when he gets released. Make sure he wants to AND stays on the straight and narrow. Best of luck, I wish my husband was a chef, he called me at work to ask how to boil an egg ... (read in full...)
I give her $5000.00 2 days later she splits! How do I get my money back?
Q. I thought I knew her for 5 years! We were together for that amount of time. She (aged 50) asked me for 5 thousand dollars. I gave it to her. 2 days later she split. Does the timing of the two events sound that she had every intention to 'screw' ...
A. 24 February 2011: Well Buddy you have been taken to the cleaners. And from the sound of it, you are willing for it to happen over and over again for a shred of her attention. Fool me once...etc. How all this gets sorted out is entirely up to you. My only advice is ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him my secrets?
Q. My BF and I have been dating for 7 weeks today(2/24/11). And he has decided to tell me all the secrets he has been keeping from me......some of them I'm not very comfortable with but I still love him! Now that he has told me his secrets, I feel a l...
A. 24 February 2011: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-and-my-boyfriend-are-messaging-each.html
So is one of his secrets the fact that he wants to date your friend?
No offense, but I really think schools don't assign enough homework anymore.... (read in full...)
Am I stupid for wanting to wait for him?
Q. Hello. I am in a dielmma and need some advice. I recently connected with my first love through facebook and we got together. It went so well but the problem is now that he is going through a legal nightmare from years ago and is now in jail. He ...
A. 24 February 2011: How long is he going to be in the slammer?... (read in full...)
3 months ago I hadn’t looked at another women in 14 years, now all of a sudden we are planning on leaving our respective partners for each other!
Q. Hi, so this is my story…been married 14 years, have two boys aged 12 and a daughter from wife’s previous relationship aged 20. I thought everything was fine and loved my wife until a couple of months ago, and I am now so confused. I met a girl 2 y...
A. 24 February 2011: Well said Kilcardy. Poster, you should listen closely to him.... (read in full...)
How Personal Bias and Gender Stereotypes can Influence Advice
Q. I write this article knowing full well it will not be received very well by some. I can only hope that this article will still be allowed due to the merits of the argument I am presenting. I have noticed on multiple occasions a prevalent double...
A. 23 February 2011: ALL men like Italian food.... (read in full...)
How Personal Bias and Gender Stereotypes can Influence Advice
Q. I write this article knowing full well it will not be received very well by some. I can only hope that this article will still be allowed due to the merits of the argument I am presenting. I have noticed on multiple occasions a prevalent double...
A. 23 February 2011: I WAS thinking about having Chinese for dinner but Italian is sounding better and better...... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's kids caused me trouble with neighbour but I am afraid to speak out.
Q. I live alone.My boyfriend and his 2 children came to visit at the weekend. Apparently they vandalised and damaged my neighbour's garden and wrote on his walls. He claims to have a witness to this behaviour. I am probably going to have to pay him ...
A. 23 February 2011: This should be the big red flag in your relationship. You need to tell him what his kids did and see how he handles the responsibility for making things right with the neighbor. If he flies off the handle or if he refuses to pay for the damages then ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend ready to make-out?
Q. I am 13 years old and i don't know how to tell if my boyfriend is ready for me to snog him. I don't want to ask but when he kisses me i feel his lips press harder against mine and he opens his mouth slightly, but then he pulls away before I can ...
A. 18 February 2011: Yeah you could try that but I recommend just asking his Mom. Moms know everything.... (read in full...)
Does a full moon affect people's behavior?
Q. dear readers i was just wondering as tonights a full moon what people think about the moon having an affect on peoples behaviour? do you think it is possible? some people claim to feel more in love on this night and some claim to get angry faster t...
A. 18 February 2011: I had a boyfriend in college (who attending a Catholic Boys school before college). He actually thought that the moon was responsible for women's menstrual cycles and we all got it at the same time! Can you imagine what would happen if that were ... (read in full...)
Will my narcissist ex ever want to apolagize to me?
Q. Will my narcissist ex ever want to apolagize to me? My ex left me for someone else a week afer we broke up and told me -he hates me -im a fat mole -His new gf would look more gorgous even if she was covered in manure -Told me hes over me...
A. 18 February 2011: Why on earth would you want an aplology from this loser much less to have him come back? You bet he's most likely treating his new girl just as lousy as he did you. Consider yourself lucky to have escaped.... (read in full...)
I asked my husband to be more romantic and he moved into another room!
Q. i kept asking my husband to be more romantic throughout our 9 years of marriage. 2 months ago he told me that he is too old to change (he is only 38 yrs )and that i should be thanking god for the good life we have. then he moved to another room and ...
A. 18 February 2011: You "kept asking", is that the same as nagging him constantly? Maybe he just got tired of listening to the noise. Just what do you mean by romantic? More sex, flowers, thoughtful cards? A nice sit down CALM discussion with helpful ideas would have ... (read in full...)
Does a full moon affect people's behavior?
Q. dear readers i was just wondering as tonights a full moon what people think about the moon having an affect on peoples behaviour? do you think it is possible? some people claim to feel more in love on this night and some claim to get angry faster t...
A. 18 February 2011: I have a friend who is a psychiatric nurse and she said the wackos really come out during a full moon.... (read in full...)
Wife's libido is higher than mine. What do I do?
Q. What do I do if my wife's sexual rate is higher than mine?...
A. 18 February 2011: Well since she's your wife, a tag team is out of the question. I suggest you buy her some toys she can use by herself in those in-between times.... (read in full...)
Which girl is better?
Q. Girl 1. She is attractive quite popular and seems to be nice enough and I really like her. I have never spoken to her though:( Girl 2. Likes me in that way and is a nice person kind and funny. I don't like her in that way and she is not as p...
A. 18 February 2011: Who cares which one is "better" whatever that means. Go play some football with your pals, you'll have more fun.... (read in full...)
Why do you think I am behaving like this in class?
Q. Im in yr 10 im not very shy, im the least shy out of my friends. But i took geography as one of my options, dont get me wrong i 3 it. But it seems that when ever i go into the class i go into a shell, i never speak unless i have to, i never pu...
A. 18 February 2011: If I were you, I'd tranfer out of his geography class and get into a creative writing class.... (read in full...)
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