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How to keep my new girlfriend from cheating, without seeming over-bearing?

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Question - (19 January 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2012)
A female Australia age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am a girl, with a girlfriend and we have been together for a month and a few days.

I looked at her facebook the other day and a girl she used to have a thing with has been messaging her, and she's been texting her phone also.

To keep my girlfriend from cheating i have been with her everyday, she said she doesn't mind, but it seems like i am suffocating her and she's getting tired of me.

I am very much in love with my girlfriend and i dont want her to feel like she needs to cheat, how do i make her feel like she doesn't need someone else?

And how do i keep this girl from trying to talk to my girlfriend all the time?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (19 January 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntDo you think that maybe your relationship is a tad lopsided? Perhaps you are more committed to it than she is. The only way to truly find out is to let her have the freedom to make her own decisions. Trying to control another person never works out the way you wish. The tighter you hold on the more slippery they get.

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A female reader, thinkb4 Papua New Guinea +, writes (19 January 2012):

If someone wants to cheat, they will. It does not matter what you do, give, or how good or bad you treat them.

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A female reader, coldplaypotter1D-s Malaysia +, writes (19 January 2012):

coldplaypotter1D-s agony auntmaybe you should give her some space but tell her that flirting with someone else isn't ok.

you can also contact this girl maybe...?

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