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writes:hello all, i am going to be embarking into the world of anal sex starting in a few days and i'm really excited, but also worried!to be blunt i am worried about poo and that i will poo myself!i am also worried about the hygiene of it and any do's and don'ts !!i have read that its not a good idea to eat a lot on that day and that i should maybe wash my anus out with a douche??thankyou so much!!
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather +, writes (8 January 2012):
 In response to male anonymous and anyone in need of some facts, kindly refer to this link:
http://dherbs.com/articles/anal-sex-59.html
for a full and factual illustration of what I mean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2012): Every single one of these similar posts says your anus is going to permanently loosen up if you do anal. For the last time, the anus is NOT a piece of Pla-Doh. It will contrict back to it's normal size in a matter of a few minutes to hours, and will NOT stretch permanently unless something is physically wrong with you.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (6 January 2012):
This is one of those things, like getting blind drunk, taking drugs, etc where curiosity takes control. There is no doubt that the porn industry has hightened this curiosity but I am far from convinced that it has a place in a normal loving sexual relationships. There are many people that enjoy bondage,s&m, walking on hot coals, sticking pins in themselves, etc, and anal intercourse belongs more in this category in my opinion. One thing you will learn is how much you bf cares for you, is he gentle, does he stop if it obviously hurts you. Be aware many guys like to boast about "fu**ing their girl in the ass" like its some kind of trophy, I dont really get that. You may well bleed and that adds to risk of infection, so be smart and look after yourself, and make sure your bf looks after you as well.
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather +, writes (5 January 2012):
As ever, good advice from eyeswideopen.
Further, your bumhole is designed to discharge - not to receive. If continuing with anal intercourse on a regular basis, your 'ring of confidence' will eventually become slack and unable to naturally contain your poo. That's why many male homosexuals have to use a tampon.
As an occasional experiment, fine. But - be warned!
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2012): Don't do it !! It hurts like hell !! I tried it once and will never do it again.... God gave us a vagina, use it! LOL!!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 Sounds to me like a lot of work, worry, and pain when the good Lord provided an excellent penis receptor conveniently located.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 He should wear a condom. Be prepared for the fact that there might be poo. You shouldn't come to a point where you will poo yourself, not if he goes at it slow and you enjoy what is happening. But it will feel like you'll want to poo, because something is being pushed in where things usually go out.. and your body will respond by making you feel like you want to poo. But no poo comes out. However there might be poo in your anus, duh, thats whats usually goes on there. If your boyfriend isn't prepared to face that with grace then he isn't ready for anal sex. Some poo might come on the penis, which is why he should wear a condom.
Although I've had anal without condom a few times and there was no poo. It's just for safety precautions.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (4 January 2012):
 There probably will be poop. Sorry to be blunt, but it's going to get on his penis and such, so you need to be prepared that there's probably going to be some.
Porn actors don't eat for a whole day and douche beforehand, but that's probably not necessary unless you plan to film it.
He needs to wear a condom because the fecal bacteria can give him a nasty urinary tract infection if he doesn't, so a condom is a must.
You need to use so much lube you can't apply anymore. Whenever you think you have enough, add twice that. Unlike your vagina, your anus does not lubricate itself, it also doesn't expand as you get aroused.
I assume you know this, but just making sure it's said, never ever go from anal to vaginal or oral without thoroughly showering.
You should probably put some towels down that you don't care much about/can be washed and dried on high heat. It's not very common for there to be any leaking, but it can happen.
To reiterate, the single most important thing in anal sex is lube lube lube and more lube.
Good luck, have fun.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 January 2012):
 You will not poo yourself.....
you don't douche ANYTHING EVER... not a vagina (EVER) not an anus.
You can if you are that nervous you can probably get a disposable enema at the pharmacy (here in the USA we recommend FLEET enemas)
now for more dos and don't
1. NO contact with the vagina after anal until a thorough washing has occurred by HIM….
2. HE MUST wear a condom ( an e.coli infection is a nasty thing and can kill you)
3. Be relaxed
4. Lay on your belly pillow or two under your hips so your tush is slightly angled up
5. LOTS and LOTS and LOTS of lube
6. He pushes up TO YOU but NOT into you…. YOU control the entry by pushing back.
7. Push back as much as you can and WAIT… and WAIT and wait… as you feel ready push back more… eventually he will enter (this can take a LONG LONG LONG TIME)
8. Once he is past that initial entry you can figure it out from there
AGAIN, bathe well before and after…
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