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writes:Hi,I want to know if girls like penis uncircumcised or cirmcumcised? I'm french and in my country we are all uncut. It's about religion and culture, what is it in your country (well about muslim and jew I know) but for others country pls let me know. Is it because of the odors? hygiene? feeling? Thank you all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): OP, you should be happy that you still have your precious foreskin. There are lots of nerve in the foreskin. Women who have been with both cut and uncut men admit that sex with uncut men is gentler and better. Uncut men have more sensitive head because the head is covered most of the time. He doesn't have to be very forceful when having sex and many women prefer that. Some women explain that sex with cut men is like being punched by their dick. The woman who prefer uncut men call themselves intactivist (google if you want to know more). There are a number of men seeking help to restore their foreskin because they prefer to have better feeling when having sex. You should thank your parents that they didn't steal this precious part of your body from you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): OP girls that care about this kind of thing are not worth dating. Just as much as guys who won't date girls with small boobs.
Circumsized is not more hygienic because those of us that are uncut are able to wash ourselves, we just have to do it more often. Funnily enough guys who are cut wash themselves there less but are still prone to bad hygiene too, theirs is just masked because they don't get a smell as soon as we do if we're not clean.
I was raised to wash it as often as I brush my teeth, so 3 times a day and I've never had an issue with smell except for the natural odour that occurs during sex and sexual excitement.
As far as girls are concerned the only ones I met who had a problem with it were American girls but most of those didn't hate it enough to stop me and even if they did my sexual performance would have made them forget about it.
OP penises aren't meant to be pretty, or cute, I don't care whether you're cut or uncut you're not going hang a painting of a big veiny penis on a wall. How many of the great artists in our time have painted penises? Not any really.
If you want to know the general consensus then just think of what we think of vaginas with big labia or a big clitoris. It doesn't really matter to us does it? You may prefer big labia but you're not going to be turned off by a woman who doesn't have them that big.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): I totally prefer a circumcized man. An uncut penis is a real turn off and I have walked away from a relationship because it. I like the feel and the feeling a circumcized penis deliver. It feels more sleek and clean and dynamic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): I think the key is that the girl likes you...because of how you treat her, not your penis.
so far it has worked for me...and I was circumcised by mistake at birth.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (31 January 2012):
 I've only ever been with one man, my boyfriend, and he is circumscised. He is American. I live in Australia though, and the majority of babies here from what I have heard, are not circumscised and it's not a very common thing. It really only exists here within the Jewish community.
I don't care either way. I am against circumscision though because I feel like the child should have a say in what happens to their body, but that right it taken away when they're just babies. It just doesn't sit well with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): I don't know if this is because I come from England, but I've never really understood the big deal about this. Rarely anyone (as far as I know anyway) is circumcised here, (white British) and I've only ever seen a circumcised penis in photo's. I've heard a lot of American's are 'cut'.I also don't know whether it's because I'm unfamiliar with it but I personally don't find circumcised penis's attractive at all, and I've always wondered why people think it's 'more' clean because it's cut as I've always imagined dirt/things going on it more if it's out? Wouldn't it always be sore if it was out, or do you get used to that? Obviously I'm not too familiar with these things anyway as I'm a woman, but that's my opinion on it. I just think it looks kind of scary when it's cut, like it's always looking at you..
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): I've never been with an uncut man. I'm American and from what I know most men I do know are cut. Uncut isn't something I find unattractive but I would be concerned about the cleanliness only because I have chronic UTI.
But what I've heard about uncut is there isn't much of a difference and no girl I've known has made a line crossing preference.
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX  +, writes (30 January 2012):
 I don't judge a guy on his penis~ I'm from England :) My ex was uncircumsized and I gave him oral and handjobs and didn't think anything strange of it; he kept it clean so it was ok. My current boyfriend is circumsized (he's half british half french) and I don't have a problem with that either :) As long as I'm into the guy is the main thing ^_^
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): I think it depends on the girl too. If you've only ever been with 'cut' guys, you may not like an 'uncut' guy because it is different from what you know. Same with someone who has only ever been with someone with a foreskin.
I guess it's down to personal opinion and the ability to adapt to change.
Personally, I don't care what a man has, providing it's clean. I have only ever slept with my current boyfriend, and he is not circumsized. However, he very rarely "smells", and even on those off days, it's nothing unbearable. Of course, I do not have the experience of being with both types of men.
If you feel like being 'cut' would improve your self-esteem, then I see nothing wrong with it. But if you're only doing it for woman-kind, I would reconsider. Do it for you, no-one else.
There may be women out there who prefer a cut penis, but there are also those who prefer a natural one/have no preference...
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (30 January 2012):
 Well, I'm not American so maybe that is why I don't care :)
The thing with circumcising is that in MANY cases the male actually loses certain nerve endings in the process and will therefore "feel" less during sex.
I find it ridiculous to risk and had I had boys instead of girls they would NOT have been circumcised. They would have been taught how to keep the little fella clean.
Speaking from personal experience, 3 of the 4 guys I have been with in my life were uncircumcised and all VERY clean. So if anyone thinks uncircumcised equals unclean they are with a dirty dude who would be unclean no matter what.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (30 January 2012):
 As long as it's clean, I really don't care anyway. It's fun having one of each at the same time, though.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (30 January 2012):
 I have never been with a circumcised man (as I'm British). I don't have a problem with foreskin, it turns me on when my man goes crazy when I lick the soft end. Sure it may smell of urine a little but it is a penus,bits expected!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 January 2012):
 I've only ever been with cut men... truth is i don't care as long as they are clean and they have skills...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 January 2012):
 A few hours after my son was born, the nurse came in and picked him up out of his incubator and told me they were going to "sharpen his pencil". I always thought that was a rather weird turn of phrase and I kind of regretted signing the consent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): I dated a few guys in my teens before I met my husband. I never had sex with any of them, but I did fool around a lot with them. The first 2 guys I was serious with were circumcised. I just assumed being from the USA that all guys were, and actually, about 90% are, but some aren't. Maybe parents weren't born in this country so they bring their beliefs/desires with them. I have no problem with any guy being whatever way he is, but my 3rd boyfriend, after dating about 2 months, we got to the 'fooling around' stage. After his pants and underwear were off, I noticed that his penis was 'way' different from my previous 2 boyfriends. I did touch him and give him a handjob, but I wouldn't go down on him, and we ended up breaking up because I didn't like the way his penis looked or felt. I'm not knocking guys who are un-circumcised, but just like penis size, it's up to the woman to decide what she likes or not. Just like I only like dark haired guys with 'some' hair on their chest, there are women who only like blond guys, or guys who shave down there.
I wouldn't worry about it, in the USA you might have trouble with a woman 'really' being attracted to your penis, but some are more open than others. Being from Europe, I think that you probably have a more 50/50 ratio between circumcised and Not.
Unfortunately, a woman being attracted to your whole body is very important. Don't blame a woman if she isn't attracted to your penis, it's her right to decide. My older sister made a huge mistake and married a guy from Europe who wasn't circumcised. She 'really really' loved him and was going to overlook his penis. Well, guess what, she would never give him oral (nor did I with the 3rd guy I dated), and he started cheating on her many many times. When she found out and asked why, he responded that it was because she wouldn't give his penis proper attention (meaning oral). Now they're divorced and both miserable.
Find a woman who likes you for you, meaning both your body and your mind in totality.
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reader, daniel-fr +, writes (30 January 2012):
daniel-fr is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you " person12345" that actually what I think, I'm uncircumcised and I always wanted my parent did cut me when I was baby, I'm sure it is better for hygien, and I can see that girls actually like it better because of bad smell that the glans can have always covered by the foreskin..If I could do it now I will do, but once you adult it's so painfull ! I have experienced bad smell even I do shower and wash it often as possible, my penis sometime smell and this make me feel shame... I suffer for years about this smell, especially when intimate sexual life, and of course "Oral" ! finaly now I discover a lotion that cure this smell ! cool . but I envie men are circumcised , I'm sure their penis never smell bad, (except those not wash ?)
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reader, person12345 +, writes (30 January 2012):
 In America I think circumcision is pretty common, not only for religious reasons but also hygiene/aesthetics. There is no medical reason to circumcise and no evidence uncircumcised men have higher instances of infections or health problems. It's not a health reason that parents do it. I have been unable to find a reliable number of American men who are circumcised, but it's over half.However, every single uncircumcised guy I've been with really seemed to have trouble keeping it clean down there. One guy perpetually reeked of old urine, as in could smell it from many feet away, and I stopped seeing him after only a few dates. The others all had a funny taste/smell and when that happened it was a pretty big turnoff. I don't care enough that I'm going to make a decision about it or be thinking about it unprompted, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't somewhat prefer circumcised.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): I had it done for medical reasons - phimosis i think its called the doctors here tried creams etc but nothing worked. Nobody seems to care if its cut or not over here
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reader, daniel-fr +, writes (30 January 2012):
daniel-fr is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Honeypie ! That interesting, I though that all american girls like it more when guys are cut" ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): I recently started having sex with my boyfriend an instantly realised he was uncircumcized it has taken some getting use to as all previous boyfriends were circumcized an in all fairness although i love my boyfriend i wish he had been it is just so much better in everyway
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 January 2012):
American (in general) circumcised little boy, because it's believed to be easier to maintain good hygiene, however... There is no medical reason to have it done. Even the American Academy of Pediatrics says so, together with all the other doctor's associations.
I have been with both, and from a female perspective, it makes no difference.
Normally uncircumcised provides extra feeling for the man. ( the added friction from the extra skin)
Honestly, most women won't "judge" you on this, but you you abilities to use your penis in a pleasurable way.
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