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writes:I have a problem with this guy I've known for a while he's lovely and I'm attracted to him, also he says he's the same with me! Problem is he has a girlfriend and we have chatted a few times they live together too, thing is he always makes way for me if we bump into each other on a night out gradually we have talked more etc and last time things went a bit further, not sex but touchy feely kissing we were both drunk but he wanted as much as me sometimes he messages me on fbook out of the blue I know he won't leave his girlfriend but I want him too or just want to have sex with him I know it's wrong but I know he does too it could have happened last time but we both agreed it wasn't the right time
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 September 2012):
 I second eyeswideopen- what is your question, really ? If you should go to bed with this guy who has a live in girlfriend ?...The answer would be a rather obvious no, based on honesty, self respect and common sense. As you already know ,since you say you know it is wrong, but you want him physically. So what do you want us to say, " go for it " ?
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reader, LoveIsSweet  +, writes (6 September 2012):
Was in a similar situation and I would say don't do this if you can't keep your emotions in check! He's already in a relationship and wants to have sex with you, so don't ever expect more from him and be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2012): think of how the other girl feels ... if y'all like each other as much as you say.. then you need to make him make a choice or find a new man. one who isn't on the verge of cheating........
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 August 2012):
 What are you asking? Permission to cheat? Want us to talk you out of it?
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