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writes:Hi all just needin some advice.ive been in a friends with benefits relationship for 7 months now,we have such fun together. Been ten pin bowling and to the pictures together, things that friends should do.i like this. This is ok for me. Recently ive caught him staring at me, holding my hand when we kis or when we go a walk where we cant be seen.( is that normal for friends with benefits to kiss)?all these things and then we both talk and we agree its just sex, but I am picking up on a little more and im not sure what to say or do. Help! I dont want to complicate this amazing thing we have going on. What are the signs for fallin for someone? Should I trust my gut on this? Are we getting too close. Help please.some extra info, I am in a realtionship, he is not, I dont have kids but he does. Help appreciated and much obliged.thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2013): He's not an FWB he's a guy you're cheating with, and in that sense I'm not going to help you with this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2013): Are you cheating? Then he is your lover on a side. People very rarely succeed in long term FWB, because one is developing feelings, or both. You can do it few times, but when you have also friendship going on and you having fun together this is when feelings develop. That's why it's rarely works. Your life is already complicated with one man with whom you have relationship and another who you have your sex on a side. I never knew how people can manage it long term.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 June 2013):
 I hope the relationship you are referring to is the one with your dog.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 June 2013):
 Do I understand this correctly, he is your "guy" on the sly? You also have a BF/husband/fiance?
If so what do you need a "FWB" for?
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