Would a penis pump work?
Q. I've thought of getting a penis pump. I'm not big, between 4.5 and 5.5 and not very thick either. I wanted to know if i use a penis pump and pump it up say just a half inch bigger everyday over a long period of time would it grow to say 6.5/7 and ...
A. 26 September 2013: You are not listening....... (read in full...)
If I'm a lovely guy then why haven't I had one date?
Q. I've had replies from here before but nobody could suggest anything that worked so I'll try again. I'm 37 now and have never been in any kind of relationship in my entire life. No woman has ever been sexually attracted to me and I have never ev...
A. 26 September 2013: What sort of woman are you looking for? Are you being realistic or do you have a very narrow criteria?... (read in full...)
I'm not making as much money so I'm behind on my alimony! Ideas?
Q. i need help, i have recently got married and had a baby with a beautiful 24 year old girl. my ex wife took me for alot of alimony, and i was ok to pay her for the first year she was awarded it for five years. im having difficulties now paying her ...
A. 25 September 2013: Looks like the new wife needs to hit the pavement and find a job. If she cares about you and the well-being of her family that is. Your debts are her debts. Pay the Ex, you owe her.... (read in full...)
Can an affair with a married man ever end happily for the other woman?
Q. Hello everyone. Before I begin, I realize I am opening myself up to a firestorm of very harsh judgment, name calling and comments from Dear Cupid's advice givers and readers. Please do not judge me. We all walk different paths in life and make...
A. 23 September 2013: Okay shut her down.... (read in full...)
Can an affair with a married man ever end happily for the other woman?
Q. Hello everyone. Before I begin, I realize I am opening myself up to a firestorm of very harsh judgment, name calling and comments from Dear Cupid's advice givers and readers. Please do not judge me. We all walk different paths in life and make...
A. 20 September 2013: Hellfire Girlfriend there are more strings in your relationship than the Philharmonic, cut yourself free.... (read in full...)
Moving my boyfriend into the house I own - what is the best way to split the bills?
Q. Hi. My boyfriend and I want to move in together. I own, he rents. If he moves in with me what is the best way to split the bills if we earn about the same but he has child maintenance for 1 child which I don't have. Thanks for the advice....
A. 20 September 2013: What's wrong with 50-50?... (read in full...)
Can an affair with a married man ever end happily for the other woman?
Q. Hello everyone. Before I begin, I realize I am opening myself up to a firestorm of very harsh judgment, name calling and comments from Dear Cupid's advice givers and readers. Please do not judge me. We all walk different paths in life and make...
A. 20 September 2013: Good lord get a grip. Set yourself free from all this crap, the ups and downs alone will send you to an early grave. Way too unsettling! Leave this guy to his cheating ways and his "unhappy" marriage and start looking for someone you can build a ... (read in full...)
I've gotten involved with my friend and he loves me but I don't want a relationship!
Q. I recently left a physically abusive relationship, so I am not dating until I get myself together. In the meantime I did have sex with one of my closest friends, it felt absolutely right and I came which my ex boyfriend rarely made me cum (I...
A. 20 September 2013: So if you don't want a relationship then cut him free, let him go. If you DO want a relationship then what's the problem? I don't get it.... (read in full...)
I've gotten involved with my friend and he loves me but I don't want a relationship!
Q. I recently left a physically abusive relationship, so I am not dating until I get myself together. In the meantime I did have sex with one of my closest friends, it felt absolutely right and I came which my ex boyfriend rarely made me cum (I...
A. 19 September 2013: In other words you are using him for sex. Even though you've said you only want to be friends, you know the depth of his feelings so if you truly ARE a friend you will stop this whole relationship. Cut him totally loose so he can recover and get on ... (read in full...)
Every time I try to talk to the boy I like he runs away!
Q. so there is this boy i have liked for 5 years i think he is really cute.at school i told my best friend(girl) that i liked him she told him and now any time we walk pass each other he stops and stares at me anytime i walk by him and his friends they ...
A. 19 September 2013: I guess he just isn't ready for a relationship yet, and considering your age it isn't surprising. Maybe try talking to him in a year or so.... (read in full...)
Do any penis enlargement creams/pills work?
Q. are there any penis enlargement pills,cream,etc that actually work?...
A. 19 September 2013: Same answer as to your penis pump question. Save your money.... (read in full...)
Would a penis pump work?
Q. I've thought of getting a penis pump. I'm not big, between 4.5 and 5.5 and not very thick either. I wanted to know if i use a penis pump and pump it up say just a half inch bigger everyday over a long period of time would it grow to say 6.5/7 and ...
A. 19 September 2013: No those things are just a scam. It's all about genetics, my man. You just need to learn to use what you have.... (read in full...)
Can an affair with a married man ever end happily for the other woman?
Q. Hello everyone. Before I begin, I realize I am opening myself up to a firestorm of very harsh judgment, name calling and comments from Dear Cupid's advice givers and readers. Please do not judge me. We all walk different paths in life and make...
A. 19 September 2013: The odds are certainly against your having a happy ending. If all he has is a "friendship" tying him to his wife, no children or dependents, and still he doesn't want to divorce her for you, then my guess is he either is not telling you the whole ... (read in full...)
Why does he say he feels no connection ?
Q. My Bf of 1 year says he feels no connection to me. he says he is not my BF. yet we go out, have sex. We started out wrong with sex. He had a cheating GF that lived with him and since then several years of not dating. Now me.. and he says no c...
A. 16 September 2013: You are wasting your time this is, and will always be, a dead end. Cut bait and move to the next pond.... (read in full...)
Any cute ideas on how to ask him out?
Q. I really like this guy who is 2 years younger (hes 15 im 17) and I think I am gonna ask him out. :) he's a total nerd and I find it stinkin adorable! Think like lenard from big bang theory (if you know the tv show) he's a lot like that. He's short ...
A. 13 September 2013: FYI, I know when my son was 15 there would be no way I would have allowed him to go out with a 17 year old. Just saying.... (read in full...)
How do I learn to say no to people, especially my so called friends?
Q. I know this is going to sound weird but I always say yes to people even if i don't want to do it. This weekend I'm going away but i don't want to. These people are supposed to be my friends but they are planning against me. They hate my boyfriend ...
A. 13 September 2013: They aren't using you to be the designated driver are they? I totally agree with the owl, tell them you can't afford to go away and that you will be staying home this weekend. Best excuse in the world because it's true.... (read in full...)
Is it safe to assume he's infertile?
Q. My boyfriend had the snip nearly 3 years ago we have been together now for 6 months..he has said he is infertile but has admitted that he never went back for the test to confirm this..could he get me pregnant or is it safe to say I would have got ...
A. 12 September 2013: Why on earth would he pay for a vasectomy and not go back to make sure it was effective?... (read in full...)
How can I stop the leaking after sex?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but there is this thing thats been annoying me for some time now… Whenever my boyfriend cums in me after sex, it never like stays in me? whenever I stand up I can feel it leak out, especial...
A. 12 September 2013: yeah women have been pondering this "problem" for over 200,000 years.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend believes a threesome will bring us closer but I've heard horror stories about them
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for the past year and recently he's asked me about having a threesome. I'm secure with myself and my sexuality. I'm also confident in our relationship. I've just heard alot of horror stories that follow a threesome ...
A. 12 September 2013: Earlier today you were "leaning toward the idea" now you've made your mind up. I hope it wasn't anything any of us said that convinced you because I think you'll regret this decision.... (read in full...)
Last chance and too shy to make a move!
Q. We have two more days of university and I don't know what to do. I'm quite shy, and I can't even guarantee that we'll have a chance to talk to each other. We're both in our mid-20s and have been studying together for the last year and a half. We're ...
A. 12 September 2013: When you get back, seek him out and tell him you want to make good on your birthday drink offer.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend believes a threesome will bring us closer but I've heard horror stories about them
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for the past year and recently he's asked me about having a threesome. I'm secure with myself and my sexuality. I'm also confident in our relationship. I've just heard alot of horror stories that follow a threesome ...
A. 12 September 2013: I'd like to hear his reasoning on how exactly a threesome would bring you two closer. Please tell us how he explained it to you.... (read in full...)
How to tell my sister the disturbing news about her husband that he is player?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need your advice. I had disturbing news about my younger brother-in-law from a friend who works at the same place and I try to digest it. She says that he is a player and emotional seeker. According to her, she plays games to lead the...
A. 11 September 2013: Sorry but I think you need to mind your own business on this one. If and when your sister comes crying to you, you can be the big sister and lend her your shoulder but in the mean time you would be smart to mind your own beeswax. Trust me on this.... (read in full...)
Funny dating story
Q. When I was in my twenties I went on quite a few dates. I had been meeting guys through the personal ads. I always tried to stay safe so I would take my own car to meet them. I met this guy in the mall and we never talked about what the other w...
A. 11 September 2013: "cough" ... (read in full...)
Body dysmorphic disorder
Q. So my problem is I am ugly....I have spent lots of money on therapy for BDD (Body dysmorphic disorder), but it just seems that a duck is a duck. I am ugly and that's that, but I feel like I'm gorgeous. So I'm a duck that thinks its a swan...any ...
A. 11 September 2013: I wake every morning and am shock at the old lady that looks back at me in the mirror. And I am totally amazed that she follows me everywhere I go, window reflections, rear view mirrors I mean everywhere. I definitely don't feel as old as she looks. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that I've inadvertently become a friend with benefits, and it isn't a label that I like or think I deserve
Q. Hi all, hoping for some impartial advice! A guy approached me on a night out and asked for my number. Was bit out of blur but he was cute so I said yes. He messaged me quite a bit and we arranged to meet for a drink. We were out with our groups of ...
A. 10 September 2013: Relax, don't declare any undying love just yet. Also keep hugging but no sex and see what develops. Things take time.... (read in full...)
Online dating: How long do you wait to ask someone out on a real date?
Q. I have been messaging this girl on a dating website for 3 weeks. How long do you think I should leave it until I ask her out for a drink?...
A. 10 September 2013: Just ask her to meet you at such and such restaurant/bar/shop and let her figure out her own transportation. After the first meeting things will change a bit.... (read in full...)
Why does this man act totally different to this girl when he is alone with her?
Q. There is this guy and girl who have known each other for years. It seems like he embarrasses her with questions when others are there, and drawing undue attention to her. But when with her alone, he barely speaks to her. It seems he has 'stolen' her ...
A. 10 September 2013: Okay here is my final take on this post. We are talking about you and you DO have a crush on this married man. You need to back away, far far away.... (read in full...)
Why does this man act totally different to this girl when he is alone with her?
Q. There is this guy and girl who have known each other for years. It seems like he embarrasses her with questions when others are there, and drawing undue attention to her. But when with her alone, he barely speaks to her. It seems he has 'stolen' her ...
A. 10 September 2013: On second thought why not have HER come talk to us. Since she is the one directly involved?
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Why does this man act totally different to this girl when he is alone with her?
Q. There is this guy and girl who have known each other for years. It seems like he embarrasses her with questions when others are there, and drawing undue attention to her. But when with her alone, he barely speaks to her. It seems he has 'stolen' her ...
A. 9 September 2013: The best bet would be for her to ASK him what the deal is. He's the only one who really would know.... (read in full...)
Why does this man act totally different to this girl when he is alone with her?
Q. There is this guy and girl who have known each other for years. It seems like he embarrasses her with questions when others are there, and drawing undue attention to her. But when with her alone, he barely speaks to her. It seems he has 'stolen' her ...
A. 8 September 2013: You aren't asking for advice on what to do about the situation but what possible reasons there would be for it, right? I get the feeling you have a massive crush on this married man and the "reason" that you want all the aunts to come up with is ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke things off and says he needs person time. How much time does he need?
Q. My boyfriend and i broke up saturday due to me bitching, complaining and naging about everything every day we lived together but he ended up moving out and staying with his friend. he keeps saying over and over that he needs time for his self, i ...
A. 7 September 2013: Honey, you need to address YOUR issues before you can ever address anyone else's. Even I felt a need of space from you.... (read in full...)
Is this a form of verbal abuse or am I being overeactive?
Q. So, I was discussing with my boyfriend how a woman got rescued from being kidnapped. I then proceeded to make a comment that one always needs to be aware of ones surroundings. My boyfriend turned to me and said "No one would kidnap you." I ...
A. 7 September 2013: That would be "Ransom of the Red Chief". ... (read in full...)
Is this a form of verbal abuse or am I being overeactive?
Q. So, I was discussing with my boyfriend how a woman got rescued from being kidnapped. I then proceeded to make a comment that one always needs to be aware of ones surroundings. My boyfriend turned to me and said "No one would kidnap you." I ...
A. 7 September 2013: My husband once told me that if I were ever kidnapped it would end up being just like "The Randsom of the Red Chief". A lovely short story by O. Henry.... (read in full...)
My boyfriends mother won't let her son live. Isn't there a point when a parent has to let go?
Q. My boyfriends mother won't let her son live. She calls us when she's out of town (which is on the weekends)about every hour (up until 4 am!) asking if we are partying, or out drinking. We're both of age, so it shouldn't matter. We don't drink and ...
A. 6 September 2013: I agree, this is not something YOU can fix. It's totally up to your boyfriend to sever those apron strings.... (read in full...)
Online dating: How long do you wait to ask someone out on a real date?
Q. I have been messaging this girl on a dating website for 3 weeks. How long do you think I should leave it until I ask her out for a drink?...
A. 6 September 2013: Go for it, you snooze you lose.... (read in full...)
We really like each other, but he dated my friend in high school? What should I do?
Q. I've known this man since high school. We had casually talked and flirted while in school, and even after we graduated, but nothing ever happened. Then a few weeks ago, I happened to see him on a dating site I was on, so I sent him a message. We ...
A. 6 September 2013: I totally agree with the Aunts, go for it, if your "friend" doesn't like it, tough. Your happiness should definitely matter to her, if she is truly your friend.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to become more masculine!
Q. I'm struggling with my masculinity. I don't feel like I will ever be a "real man". First of I'm short(5'3"/163cm). I've gotten over being unattractive due to my height but I'm struggling with not being considered a man. I don't have an aggressive ...
A. 6 September 2013: Yeah, why didn't you put in your country?
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His wife refused to exit the picture, I broke up with him but wonder if I did the right thing?
Q. Until recently I was in a relationship with a guy who is 11 year's older then me. He had been married before, but the relationship ended when his wife had an affair. We met when we were both out on new year's eve. (His friend knew one of my ...
A. 6 September 2013: Hold firm. When he can show you the legal divorce you have a green light until then keep him at arm's length .... (read in full...)
He finds me boring but wont do anything!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2years and we live together. We will be completely happy and then he will out of the blue comment that he finds my company boring and that its an issue, but if I suggest doing things he doesn't want to. What do I ...
A. 4 September 2013: Tell him that only boring people get bored.... (read in full...)
I know very little about post menopause!
Q. I'm in my late forties, and recently I have been seeing a very nice woman in her mid fifties. We haven't slept together, but the relationship looks like it's heading towards that level of intimacy (I hope!). I assume that given her age she is proba...
A. 4 September 2013: Amen Sage.... (read in full...)
Dating a man who treats me right but who I dont' find attractive enough. Help!
Q. I know this is shallow but I can only get myself to put in an effort with a guy if I find him good looking.. I'm in a relationship with this guy for 4 months,I don't find him all that attractive, he's a pretty decent looking guy but when women co...
A. 4 September 2013: This is one of those "close but no cigar" kind of things. Do yourself and especially him a favor and end it.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to go on holiday with his mate and 2 female friends... without me. Am I wrong to feel this is inappropriate?
Q. Hi, just a quick question as I am really in need of others' opinions. My boyfriend recently asked me how I would feel about him going on a holiday for a week with one of his male friends and two female friends. Is this inappropriate for someone in a ...
A. 4 September 2013: We need the answers to all the questions the aunts have asked to give you some advice.... (read in full...)
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