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writes:OK, I was wondering when is the right time in a relationship to talk about the "serious future things" I mean like: "Move In, Marrying, have kids, etc" ... Like I don't want to freak him out or anything. Soon it's going to be 9 month of being together, and I was planning to do it after we had a Year together. But I don't know, I feel like we are still young to talk about this stuff (or is just me) I'm 21 he 20 ... I know there is no manual on this stuff, but what you guys recommend, any advise? Reply to this Question
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reader, b.me +, writes (22 June 2013):
b.me is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank You. You guys are right, thank you for your answers, it really helped me out a lot. I feel more relaxed and more eager to enjoy the present with him, we still have a hole future ahead... Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2013): If he is the one, he will eventually commit to you without being asked to. Don't push. Guys don't feel safe with a girl who tries to take control of their life and tell them what should be done.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 June 2013):
 You are barely legal and he isn't even there yet. Relax relax relax why not just enjoy yourselves for a couple of years, trust me there is no rush.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (21 June 2013):
 HI
I would not bring this up to him now. You have a whole life ahead of you and there is no rush. 9 Months is barely any time at all, you still have so much to learn about each other. You are right your still to young for this, and believe me when I say you don't even know yourself enough yet let alone your BF. Just take each day as it comes it will happen naturally .
Mandy x
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