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writes:Okay so I really need a Christians point of view because its the only way I can really get an accurate answer. Okay, so ever since I was a young girl, I dreamed of this boy who wasn't to tall, well built, beautiful skin complexion, a gorgeous smile, and the prettiest curly hair, sometimes I would even dream his hair was cut low. Now that I'm older I've had these dreams a few times but not so often.Somewhere betweeon 6-8 months ago I saw this guy at church, my mom dragged me out and I thought he was perfect he sat right beside me and I didn't speak to him. All I remember was him being introduced as a preacher and my mother, eying me, and then me and him continually making eye contact, and I heard God say to me that he was going to be my husband... I never saw him after that :/Its 6-8 months later and I get a message that says "Hi, Im ___ ____, you're rally pretty its nice to meet you." And I reply not thinking much about it, so we start chatting talking about school and our future plans, turns out we will be attending the same school. I thought itd be nice to know someone so exchange phone numbers and everyone knows when exchanging phone numbers you eventually exchange pics.He sent me 2 different pics, one with a suit on and another with some glasses and I thought to myself, wow he looks familiar and he said to me. God told me that you are my wife, and that we will have 2 kids, a boy and a girl. That's when I recognized him! And my heart completely melted after that.I remember making a list of everything I wanted out of my husband, from the looks up to the talent, and he has every single aspect I was looking for ! He told me he loved me from day one, and I believe it cause I feel it too, there is something about this guy! He is the guy from my dreams. He literally is a dream come true.I just want to know, Is it possible for me to love him so soon, its only been a week and a half, and I'm still learning a lot about him. But the more I know the more I fall for him. Also is it possible that maybe I'm rushing into something, I don't have doubts that I love this man, I just don't want to ruin anything because I want him in my life forever. Would God send him to me, and expect me to take everything slow in the beginning because everything is a little fast paste for us, we're already talking about marriage and a future together. And It seems questionable but In my past relationship the guy lied about everything just about so I learn to validate their stories and so far he hasn't lied about a thing. What is going on?!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 June 2013):
 I'm not a believer in love at first sight. I think if this is the guy for you, you should just relax and take it slowly and let things develop over time. Besides that's half the fun of a new relationship sit back and enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2013): hi there!You sounded like a love sick puppy. Joking. But you made me smile. Its like i'm watching a comedy love story .On the other hand, i believe in God, Destiny and Faith.Its too early to tell , what the future holds between the two of you. However I can sensed that you both really like each other.Plus you're still too young.I suggest for you to just enjoy the moment.Don't think about marriage because its too early.Marriage can wait. No matter how long or what might happen between the two of you, if its meant to be, It will be.Whats going on? You like each other. Love? too early to say, but Maybe, Possibly. Love will blossom. But for now just enjoy each other's company.God Bless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2013): I consider myself Agnostic but as far as I'm concerned, I say go with your gut. I'm assuming you have relatively the same values considering your faith, however I would still be slow with the progress. Not cautious, just slow. Good luck!
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