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writes: Ladies, is it possible for a women to have sex with someone but not want it? Also can a girl have sex with a guy but not know it is happening until it is too late? Because of hurt, alcohol, surprise, and confusion. Can a man just violate a woman so fast she doesnt know it happened? If so what kind of inpact does this have on the women? Reply to this Question
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (11 October 2006):
 To the 'anonymous' in the previous reply - it's a male you are talking to!! (oops?), lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006): is it possible for a woman to have sex without wanting it??? are you honestly asking that question? have you ever heard of the word rape? unwanted sex that is forced unto you? also, yes, a girl can have sex without realizing it's happening until it's too late. sometimes some women are drugged, in which case they are completely out of it and have no idea what's going on. actually, i knew of someone one time who was drugged, raped, and didn't find out it had even happened until a couple of months later when her period didn't come and she realized she was pregnant. then the guy admitted to having had sex with her while she was unconscious. she had NO idea. anyway, it has SERIOUS repercussions on most women. depression, a feeling of a loss of self-worth, being afraid constantly, feelings of inferiority. how would you feel if someone took control of YOUR body (the one thing that only YOU are supposed to have control of) and did with it as they pleased, and you couldn't do a damn thing to stop it? how would you feel? that's probably how most women feel. which is what makes rape so horrible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006):
You are trying to revirginize by denial?
Own up to you own actions.
When you decided to go out and get drunk you know that your judgement is going to be impaired.
Dont be one of these dippy girls who feel free to deny all their actions by saying "thats not me! wheee!"
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reader, snowbird +, writes (11 October 2006):
A woman who is drugged does not know what happened, but it is rape all the same. And men have been charged with date-rape, so it does not go undetected.
If you get a woman drunk and then take advantage it is now also classed as rape.
If a woman says no - SHE MEANS IT...catch my drift??
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 October 2006):
 Did she tell you that she wanted you to stop and you didn't or did she decide after the fact that it wasn't something she should have done? If she told you to stop and you didn't it's a case of date rape if she just regretted it afterwards then it's her own fault. Unless she's comatose she should be totally aware of what's going on.
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reader, Mikey +, writes (11 October 2006):
are you serious?? what kind of question is that? who sit's there and wonders such things? unless... do you have a guilty conscience?
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reader, steemo  +, writes (11 October 2006):
 yes its very posable for a woman to have sex without wanting it and i think a woman always sort of nos in there mind if thay have had sex with someone .. for a woman to have sex and not realize its happing so fast unwanted this can have very stong affects on a woman it can make her not trust men be afriad round men and alsorts of strage thing so go steady lad
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