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female
age
41-50,
*ternalleroze
writes:HOW to survive the jealous ex wife?what i dont understand is also that now she has a bf for the last 2 months , some doctor she has been seeing so she should move on.... not interfere in our lives or our happiness.The kids spent 2 days in 14 days with us , weekends - if they have spent a happy weekend with us she would be jealous and ensure next time they come they are bad tempered and accusing me of being ' the problem '.First she made them beleive i was out for his money , then she came to know i own my business , she said it was a hoaxMy guy is supportive and stands by me but i dont know what this is doing to the kids... and their relationship with him and ofcourse me.If we visit any of his old friends and she gets to hear of it indirectly then she says nasty things about me to them , and ofcourse to my guy that his friends commented about me being dumb , or stupid or i dunno... stuff like tht , which hurts him , he doesnt say anything cos he wants her to sign the divorce papers... she has kept him hanging for a year and a half...!My guy feels terrible that for the moment he is isolated from his friends , people he has know for 25 years , its hard losing that...and his family is distant , but he says they have never been very communicative....How can all this be avoided ?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Thanks for the information It is important for the other aunts to know as well. Since you got involved with him AFTER he left his wife, I certainly can say she sounds like a nutcase. She has absolutely no right to bad mouth you but I don't know what you can do about it. The kids will see her for what she is in time and so will the others. Just keep acting like the class act that you are and wait it out. The proof is always in the pudding so I think you be the winner here in due course.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 January 2007):
Did he leave his marriage to be with you?
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