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writes:Please give me some advice. I have been in love with a married woman for 2.5 years. Although we haven't had an affair, I can't seem to stop thinking about her and hoping that maybe one day she will be available to me. I am considering moving countries to run away from her. Will that help me get over her or will I just be there and even more miserable because she will be so far away?
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (23 August 2007):
 Perhaps moving away will help you get over her because as long as you see her every day at work or where ever, it will be much more difficult to think about anyone else that might be available for you and just waiting for the right man to come along. As long as she is married there is no future there. It would be different if she was in the process of getting a divorce, or even talking about leaving her spouse, but you didn't mention that, so I'm assuming you simply fell in love with her because you were attracted to her. It's time to pull the plug and get on with your life. 2.5 years is a long time to put your life on hold for someone who is committed to another man. I wish you the best. You sound like you have alot of love to give, you just gonna find a great single gal out there somewhere.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 August 2007):
 There is no future with her so you should do whatever you think will help you to forget about her. If that means moving away, then move. If it means staying busy, do it. Time is your best friend. Good luck, Buddy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): Move on. This is a married woman we are talking about. She attached not free for you to go out with. There are many other single girls out there. What i am glad to hear is that you haven't started an affair with her. For all you know she could be happily married and the last thing you need is to be responsible for ruining her marriage. You might be hoping that one day she is available for you but she might not even be interested in you even if she did finish her marriage. I would say moving countries is going a bit too far but changing where you usually go (and where you see her) might help.
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