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I received a text from my girlfriend to say "you're dumped", no explanation, nothing, she won't answer my calls. What do I do?

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Question - (22 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I had been with my girlfriend for exactly two months OK things have been a bit rocky from time to time due to her mental health problems that she assured me she was over the worst of them at the begining of the relationship and in that time she has been very quiet with me. I saw her last on Monday and everything went really well. We left on a high note then yesterday I got a text late at night that just said you're dumped. I am severely depressed now I couldn't sleep for any of last night and I can't stop crying I have phoned her to try and get an explanation and texted as well but she is not answering my calls I keep waiting for her to call me but she hasn't done, I just feel so used and spat out especially as she has been chasing after me for the last 2 years and now I am in bits.

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntSorry this happened. It sounds like she is still suffering effects of her condition. All you can do since she is ignoring you is move on from her. If she needs your help i bet she'll be back.

Good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

Did you do something and she found out about it? Such as cheated or anything else with another girl?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (22 August 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntSorry this happened to you. She obviously still has some mental problems after all. What she DOESN'T have is manners and class. You're better off in my opinion and I'm sure when the pain lessens you'll agree.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

I'd just send her a text saying as she hasn't replied she must want space so you respect that but confirm that you still want to be with her... and then just be patient and see what happens, if you never hear from her again you have to move on, but hopefully you will.

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