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writes: hi,i fancy my teacher and he seems to be extremely friendly and chatty towards me and my friends all say he does little things like when we were performing a play, one eye was following me around.how do i tell if he fancies me/loves me/just likes me?and i know you're all going to say its nothing but what if it is something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): you know if a guy likes you you can tell just apply it to this teacher. ive only jsut realised that my teacher has a thing for me and now we've both realised this we're careful to keep the boundaries. i was my teachers favourite student and basically he used to stare at me and always come to our table and talk to me and jsut little things like saying i had the most gorgeous smile etc then one day i was talking to him at the end of a lesson about something i didnt understand and i caught him staring at my chest and no my top has its top button fastened after that day he avoids me most of the time and theres only littel things like only saying hi to me otu of everybody
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): I understand completly.
I don't know why, but older guys are
compelling. Maybe it's the hormones,
but you're not going crazy.
Just leave it as it is,
And if he truly likes/loves you,
He will let you know when it's LEGAL .
Then he won't risk losing his job.
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reader, cottongin  +, writes (22 April 2008):
 you basically can't tell. and you shouldn't make a point of finding out. the situation will get messy. don't let him know you're into him either. don't take severe action. just let it bee and see what happens. if its meant to be, it will surely come together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): i say im in same place he fanceys me bad and the way i found out was that i told him how i feelt
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008): I knw how u feel, i like a teacher and part of me thinks that he likes me 2 but i think that's what we want 2 believe so it makes us happy, but it just makes you more n more sad. If u enjoy flirting with him then thats fine, but if u do jus remember that nothin can happen between u both as he's a teacher and could lose his job, etc. Don't wait around 4 him and just see what u feel as a schoolgirl crush n keep it in, this way u no u wont get hurt, and maybe soon you'l b able to find someone more appropriate to you. good luck and all the best xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): I don't think it's wrong to like your teacher, but you should wait until you graduate before you make your move. If he does like you, he'll be willing to wait until you're "legal". Because if you do make a move on him now or if he makes his move now, he could lose his job. So be smart and wait. The moment you graduate, you should tell him how you feel. That's my suggestion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): I can also say I'm in the same situation.
I would say that there is a 50/50 chance he likes you.
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reader, estc girl  +, writes (12 November 2007):
lol im in the situation where i like my teacher. its funny couse hes my french teacher asd we never speak english, but if i were u and if you like him you should get to know him better and i htink that would answer your questions and if ur lucky hell tell straight forword how he feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): okay... well i am in highschool, and I dunno about you, but the 1st thing I would do is, when he is talking to you and your friends, you ALONE maybe start up a conversation with him. About anything... compliment him, what he's wearing, the AWESOME way he teaches class and stuff like that. Guys ... well the 1's I kno LOVE compliments... See where it goes from there.. if it goes good, then keep it up... if it gets weird and he seems annoyed, then... either stop completely or try something else. It usually works... if he seems like the flirty type... then you be flirty too... it'll totally work, just see what kind of person he's being at the moment and it'll work
~hope it works
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): i think that its wrong i agree you should'nt get involvedwith the teacher dont you watch lifetime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2007): i have a crush on my art teacher but as everyone else says teacher student relationships never work. so just stay away trust me
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 August 2007):
 I wonder what his other eye was doing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): never ever get involved in a teacher/student relationship cos a think we all knw hw that ends all the tym. it neva works hun sorry its the truth so u keep on fancying him as long as ur nt doin nothing illegal or hurtin others. xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): i'd leave it
a student + teacher = its never gd
trust me
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reader, xbubblesx  +, writes (29 June 2007):
 My Gym teacher always flirts with me but i try to stay away but me and him are really close be careful then both of you will be happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): i know, i had a crush on a student teacher i used to have in high school, he wa sonly 4 yrs older then me and i KNEW he liked me.
BUT i didnt do anything, i knew he would get introuble if we did do something.
but!
2 yrs ago i ran into outside of school, hes a full teacher now, and the father of my 1 yr old baby girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): Hey I've got the same problem to although it's my science teacher. HE always seems to be flirting with me alot like walking me to my classes,telling me lpersonal stuff about him and always seems want to spend time with me tahn any other girl in my school. so yes I think he's attracted to you just don't make any kind of move you might get introuble and I don't want that to happen. Just enjoy hanging around him and take in all warmth gives you deep down inside. Well ok hope everything turns out ok. Bye!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007): I have a similar situation. Except he is a PE teacher who is fairly young and I know that there is something he sees in me. I know it is wrong, that is why I am not doing anything about it. Seriously, dont get involved. We all have crushes, and we get over them. When you leave school, you will understand that it meant nothing.
All signs lead to disaster, so why fight the truth?
Even though I know this teacher likes me (its really obvious when someone does), Im not going to do anything about it, it would make me and him look bad.
Take my advice hun, it isnt worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): well i wouldnt get into anything if i were you because he would lose his job and even get sentenced to prison. However if you really want to find out if he likes you, then the only way is to flirt. If he reacts with a good sign he does, but this also means you should feel good but STAY AWAY! if he dismisses it, then he doesnt. Do this at your own risk because if he dismisses it, you could become a laughing stock. So you have 3 choices, Fantasize, Flirt or Stay away. hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): well, the guy could seriously lose his job if anything happens, i know how you feel though, maybe he does. the way to find out if you really want to do this method is flirt with him. any signs back and he does, but i would stay away if he does, plus if he rejects a flirt or takes no notice, you may become a laughing stock. you have 3 choices. Fantasize, Flirt or Stay away. its your choice, hope this helps. x
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 It might be nothing it might be something possibly not what you are thinking, either way it's wrong and nothing good can come of this.
He would lose his job and possibly never be able to do the job he loves again and if you really have feelings for him you will respect that.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (22 September 2006):
 I agree teacher pupil relationships seldom work and there is normally alot more baggage and problems to peel through..
Oh i used to watch it way back then, when it was so much better than it is now... but still cant tear myself away from it, it is aimed at the younger market now and I do think that some of the things it shows such as the teacher pupil relationship, pregnancys affairs etc, can make others see what can actually happen in real life, and can highlight life events, its a pity that alot just look through it. But then I guess it is just meant for entertainment but they are trying to make teenagers aware at the same time.
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reader, bonym +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Actually, its my sister who watches it religiously, I used to watch it back in the day when Luke Morgan and Izzy Cornwell were in it!!! But I do know about Becca the teacher sleeping with Justin who is 15 or 16 right??? Teachers and students getting involved with one another will only ever end in misery. xXx
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (22 September 2006):
Thank god for that Bonym! Im not the only one who wathces it!! lol..
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reader, bonym +, writes (22 September 2006):
*how do i tell if he fancies me/loves me/just likes me?*
I can tell from such a statement that you are perhaps quite young and my dear what you need to realise is that yes you may like this guy, but thats all it can be, he is in a position of authority over you, nothing can happen between the 2 of you and if it did, he can wave goodbye to his career. Perhaps he is just a genuinely friendly guy, I know plenty of men like that, they are ever so friendly but they are not interested in me like that, they are just nice guys.
Haha Wendyg, Hollyoaks is a great example, getting involved with a teacher is a sure recipe for disaster.
Take care. xXx
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Crushes on teachers are very normal. I am sure he does like you, but not in the way you are hoping. This can be a very dangerous situation for him and his reputation could be severely damaged. If you do care about him, leave him alone and dont try to make something happen.
This teacher could lose everything if this went further than just being friendly, I am sure you dont want this to happen to him.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (22 September 2006):
Dont even go there. Its wrong, you know it. Just because you have a crush on your teacher does not mean that he fancies you. Thats what you want to happen. Your fruiends all like a bit of gossip and its all very nice fun banter at school, but in the real world it is probably very unlikely that he would fancy you. He is a proffesional and needs to keep his head focused. Stick to guys your own age its alot less complicated. Besides do you not watch hollyoaks ?? He could get the sack, struck off and not ever be able to teach again.
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