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51-59,
*artley
writes:I have been dating a man for 2 years even though he has a relationship with my children he will not let me meet his daughter, also he can be so loving and then all of a sudden he starts to ignore me, if I finish with him he wants me back. I do not know if I trust him, he is always talking about other women and I feel he would go back with his ex wife in a shot! He is always calling her his first love.
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reader, x_goddess_x +, writes (25 August 2007):
 there is something weird about that why wont he let you see his daughter demand to see her (cuz who says he actually has one)
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 August 2007):
 Oh Baby, this does not sound good to me. He doesn't want his daughter to meet you because he doesn't want his Ex to know anything about you. He doesn't want to muddy the waters in case she might consider taking him back. He definitely doesn't sound like he's over the breakup of his marriage. Did she kick him out? You weren't the cause I hope. You need to find out just where you stand in his affection. Don't settle for second best here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): You are going to have to tell him how you feel and tell him that you want him to stop behaving in certain ways - be clear about what those are. He may worry about how his daughter will behave, perhaps she is not ready to meet you. He may want to keep the door open to his former life. Who know? You can only ask him. Give it another six months to resolve and if it has not, move on. Life is too short to waste on people you don't trust
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