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*hippy334
writes:Ok this is going to sound wierd and make me sound creepy and like a pedophile. I'M NOT!! I am attracted to a 13 year old girl. I am 17. How do I stop my urges toward a girl this age? I mean I have always dated younger girls but never one 4 years younger than me. HELP!!! How do I get this urge to stop? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): Dude, four years isn't a big age difference, it just seems like it now. So If you still feel this way towards her when she's older, then go for it. Just wait a few years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): I'm in the same boat as you, i'm attracted to this 13 year old girl and im 17. It's hard, but to really get over her and forget her, you need to think about what might happen if you stay with her, read about jail sentences etc.. It made me stop instantly.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): Other than our hidious AOC laws that can get you in big trouble,at 13 she is at child baring age, she is not a child!even though adults treat them as such, 100 years ago in the US the AOC was 10 having sex and babies,times were a lot tougher then than now.
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reader, Chippy334 +, writes (26 August 2007):
Chippy334 is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok I would like to thank ppl for there responses I'm getting over her. I still have feelings for her but i'm trying to see her more as a sister.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 August 2007):
 Sorry Dude but you'd best lay off the jailbait. It only spells trouble for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): Your sick. I'm 17 myself and would NEVER want an relationship with someone that age, I got an sister who's 12 and she's so young...at 16 the age gap dosen't matter but in pre teen years it's an hell of alot. Stay away from her, unless you want to be labled a pedo which is what you be.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (22 August 2007):
 Hey babe, my bf is 21 and im 16 - thats 5 yrs different. The only thing that ppl wil pik up on is that she is 13 and 5 yrs under the consent.. if u rly wanna forget it with her, stay away frm her for a bit.. use hobbies to take ur mind off things.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): I'm sorry but that's not creepy at all. Four years is not a big deal like you think. You might feel as a very mature guy for a girl who's 13 but face it, you are both teenagers and that's O.K. One of my grandmothers was 14 when she married (or ran away with) my grandfather who was 22.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (22 August 2007):
 It may be that she looks more mature or acts more mature for her age but at the end of the day BOTH of you are still too young to have a sexual relationship. (Not saying that's what you had in mind of course) There's nothing wrong with just being her friend though. As the years pass then the age gap won't seem so bad but for now, friendship is all you can have with her.
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