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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:HiI think that my bf has something going on at work with his co-worker whom just recently started there. Within 1 month, he knows so much about her already. Also, he's been getting in earlier to work and stays a bit longer than usual. And, when I ask him to get home earlier since he has flexible hours he always has excuses like he couldn't because of meetings or he had a deadline etc. He's been less attentive to the relationship needs and is always doing things that he wants to do. Also, started to say things like " if you don't shut up, i will kick you out" etc.What should I do and how do I go about doing it?? Is there a way I can find out about if it's true or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): from what you say, yes he's cheating on you.been there.if you really want to know get him to invite her round for drinks/dinner and watch them.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 August 2007):
 If my partner said something like that to me I'd be gone in a flash whether he was cheating or not. He sounds like a real jerk. But since you are not asking about that but rather how you can find out if he's cheating I guess you could show up at his work place and have a look see. Of course you could also just ask him. He still sounds like a jerk to me though.
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