2 and a half years without sex and we're married!!!
Q. I have been married for 8 years and for the past 2 and half years my wife and I have not had sex, or had any kind of physical contact or intimacy. We have 2 boys, 7 and 2. The last time we had sex was when the last child was conceived. I have tried ...
A. 13 November 2008: Listen Chris I think you need to separate from her as soon as possible. It might be a wake up call for her but even if it's not this is no way for you to live. Your children will be fine, kids can feel the tension. And like I said before perhaps ... (read in full...)
Why do some guys only want girls for sex?
Q. Do they not know that girls are PEOPLE and not THINGS? What causes them to be like this? Is it in their genes?...
A. 5 November 2008: More like in their pants.... (read in full...)
Is his new girl just a rebound?
Q. i have been with this guy for about 8 months, and we always fought about his smoking habits, and I know more than anything that he loves me to death, we always fight, but this time it was different :S we had a fight and broke up,and that same night ...
A. 5 November 2008: Maybe he doesn't quite feel the way you think he does and he's tired of the continuous fighting. Eight months isn't very long but it sure would seem like it if you guys were constantly fighting. Sounds like you're better off going your separate ... (read in full...)
My wife is mad at me because I'm partying way too much!
Q. My wife is mad at me because I told my friends her pregnancy was easy and says im partying too much. She had a very difficult delivery (it took 10 hours) and was in the hospital for a week. Then one day I home from work (which is very stressful) ...
A. 5 November 2008: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-have-a-newborn-at-home-and-all.html
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2 and a half years without sex and we're married!!!
Q. I have been married for 8 years and for the past 2 and half years my wife and I have not had sex, or had any kind of physical contact or intimacy. We have 2 boys, 7 and 2. The last time we had sex was when the last child was conceived. I have tried ...
A. 5 November 2008: I think you are doing the right thing and I hope you find a place real soon. You deserve some happiness especially after what your wife has put you through.... (read in full...)
We have a newborn at home and all he does is party!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years living together for 1 year and we just had a baby about three months ago. When we our son was born it was a very difficult delivery I was in the hospital for about to 2 weeks. When I finally came ...
A. 5 November 2008: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-is-mad-at-me-because-im.html
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Forming a relationship with a church-going lady?
Q. Susan(32) is a woman I met last year (September 2007) and we went out for a couple of weeks in Early to mid June. The dating started when a mutual friend suggested I ask Susan out as Susan had told her she found me attractive. We dated a coup...
A. 5 November 2008: Yep, if she would rather go to the movies with some friends than meet up with you I'd say the writing is on the wall.... (read in full...)
This guy in my class, does not like me, but I like him, should I ask him out?
Q. hi people. im 11 and i really like like a guy but he doesn't like like me. i want to ask him out but im kind of shy. he sits next to me most of the time in 1 of our classes. and i dont want to ask him out and make him feel awkward about me. does ...
A. 5 November 2008: Teachers should really assign more homework, kids have way too much free time these days.... (read in full...)
She wants me to stick my finger in her and I need female advice on how to do it!
Q. My gf recently shoved a finger up her anus as she approached her climax. Now she'd like me to do it and I'm embarrassed to say I'm not too sure what to do. I blushed when she asked me and we didn't talk about it. I wouldn't want a finger up my ...
A. 4 November 2008: It might rather difficult for you, you know, kind of like patting the top of your head while rubbing your tummy sort of thing.... (read in full...)
Should I text his girlfriend and tell her what he said?
Q. Ok, I was dumped back in the summer by my ex who I loved to bits for another girl. At first, I was so bitter that I would email her telling her stuff about him, bad stuff like his worst habits and things like that. I wanted her to see him as a ...
A. 4 November 2008: I'd leave it, you won't be sparing her any hurt one way or another. Plus he may decide to commit to her then you'll look foolish.... (read in full...)
If your boyfriend thinks you are cheating while you're not, how do you make him believe you??
Q. how do you tell your boyfriend that your not cheating on him,when he thinks you are?...
A. 4 November 2008: Okay get your Ken and Barbie dolls out and have this conversation:
Barbie: "Ken why don't you believe me when I tell you I'm not cheating on you?"
Ken: "I don't know, I guess I'm just stupid and immature."
Barbie: "That's right, you are, ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my girlfriend in a good way that her facial hair bothers me a lot?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years and love her very much, but she kind of has a lot of facial hair and it really bothers me. I haven't said anything over the years because I don't want to hurt her feelings and ultimately it doesn't keep me ...
A. 4 November 2008: Maybe give her a smooch then giggle and say that her moustache tickles?... (read in full...)
Should I text his girlfriend and tell her what he said?
Q. Ok, I was dumped back in the summer by my ex who I loved to bits for another girl. At first, I was so bitter that I would email her telling her stuff about him, bad stuff like his worst habits and things like that. I wanted her to see him as a ...
A. 4 November 2008: Are you just wanting to hear that we think he indicating that he wants to get back with you? If so why would you want to?... (read in full...)
What's the difference in between making love and just plain sex?
Q. is there a difference between making love and just plain sex? if so what is the difference?...
A. 4 November 2008: When you truly love someone (and you can recognize true love because you are 21 years or older) and you have sexual intercourse (because you are legal and mature and 21 years old or older)then that's making love. If you have sex any other way then ... (read in full...)
She says she loves me only after one week ! Is this just a ploy ?
Q. okay my girl friend said see loves me and it only been two week we've been together this is my first girl girl relationship and she already want to have sex but her baby moms still in the picture but said they don't do anything what should i do i am ...
A. 4 November 2008: I'm with Boots, "baby mom" "just like a girl want to get in my pants"....HUH?... (read in full...)
I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.
Q. I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My proble...
A. 4 November 2008: Trust me, if you don't like the weather in North Carolina there a very few places to move to that have better. I lived most of my life in Michigan and I moved to NC 10 years ago BECAUSE the weather is so beautiful. Wherever you go don't move to ... (read in full...)
Is this legal in the state of Florida?
Q. Alright, I know a guy who is 18. He is dating a 14 year old girl. The mom knows his age and knows where they are at all times, they are only allowed to see each other in a public setting and have never been alone! They are both Christian and ha...
A. 4 November 2008: I think I'm more concerned about a 41-50 year old man hanging around a teenage boy.... (read in full...)
Feeling low after ending my affair
Q. Hello all- I am a married mom of 4 and recently broke off a 2 year affair. I have been reading through alot of the post and it seems alot of people are having the same issues. I am just feeling really down in the dumps today. I know its going to be ...
A. 4 November 2008: Stay away from him, you can't trust yourself, besides you know it's over, just hold that thought as you leave work and go home to your husband and kids.... (read in full...)
Neither of us is wiling to jump in first. So what do I do?
Q. I feel so pathetic coming to a website to blab about my life’s miseries to millions of strangers, but I made this account and I might as well go on with it. Well it all started last year in my Math class. I had this male teacher who was a ...
A. 4 November 2008: Go ahead...you can keep him company in the unemployment line.... (read in full...)
I just feel so used, hurt and basically broken.
Q. I am having a very hard time, two days ago something happened to me, which I just never imagined would happen. I had been with my boyfriend for only about six months. We got pretty serious straight away- not sexually but emotionally. He seemed to ...
A. 4 November 2008: Of course you feel used, hurt and broken right now, but each day will get easier. He deceived you despicably. So now you need to pick yourself up and dust yourself off and I really think you should also consider yourself lucky that you found out ... (read in full...)
I'm 21 he's 57, is the age gap too much?
Q. Hi, I am a 21 year old female and I recently met a guy off a dating site and we really have hit it off big time - sexually and spiritually! He's so considerate, loveable and all-over gorgeous and I may be falling in love with him. Trouble is, he's ...
A. 4 November 2008: As long as you realize you won't be growing old together then fine. I guess you don't want children either?... (read in full...)
I have a weird family!!
Q. I have a weird family. I don't know if I should call them weird but they are getting on my nerves. The problem with them is that they spend and shop excessively. And we are from the middle class family. They just can't stop asking me for mon...
A. 4 November 2008: If you leave you wouldn't be running away from home, you are old enough to just leave. People can only take advantage of you because you allow it. Your brother will be just fine. And your family isn't weird they are bloodsuckers. Move out and stop ... (read in full...)
Copying GF
Q. Hey all kind of a trivial matter, love my GF lots shes awesome lets me do what i want doesnt winge (much :P) really sexy and i wouldnt trade her for the world, now heres the problem: weve known each other for about 3 years ive liked her for al...
A. 3 November 2008: Not all couples that spend lots of time together pick up mannerisms, My husband of 33 years still drops trousers, socks, shirts, whatever, wherever. And has never picked up on my phrase,"Put it in the laundry basket, Dumbo!"... (read in full...)
Am I making a huge mistake by moving in with my boyfriend?
Q. I am 24 and recently got back together with my boyfriend of 4 years (we had a years break, as i felt the relationship was not progressing). Anyway, since getting back together, he has been making every effort to make things work out, and make me ...
A. 3 November 2008: Definitely do not move in with him. The fact that you have doubts is more than enough evidence that you aren't comfortable with the idea. Your feelings for your boyfriend are unstable at the moment you need to sort those out before you get stuck ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for him to have naked women on his phone?
Q. My husband thinks it's normal for him to post naked women on his phone. I disagree. Help please. ...
A. 3 November 2008: I think it's juvenile and tacky, something a 14 yr old boy would do. Tell him to grow up. I hope his boss asks to borrow his phone.... (read in full...)
I'm very, very tight and am too scared he won't fit inside me!
Q. Help me please! I need your help, it's very upsetting! My verginal area is very, very tight. I feel I am more than ready for sex but am too scared that his dick more than likely will NOT fit! Please give some advice to help me with this! ...
A. 3 November 2008: What the heck is a "verginal area"?... (read in full...)
How do I ask a girl out and ask her to have sex with me?
Q. I am looking for a girlfriend but I have a problem. I am shy and really smart and I have ok looks but I am really shy. How do I ask a girl out that I like and then ask her to have sex with me?...
A. 3 November 2008: You say you are really smart...hummmmm... (read in full...)
I like him but he's married. Am I reading his signals wrong?
Q. Hi all I'm 28yrs old, a full time mum to me gal aged 5yrs old. I kinda like a guy who works in the shop downstairs but he's married with a lil gal. Before I knew he was married, I sent him a note asking if he wanted to meet up for a drink. The...
A. 3 November 2008: "If wishes were horses then beggars would ride."... (read in full...)
Due to his family interference, I'm left with nothing. Now what should I do?
Q. I am 23, my boyfriend is 20, we have been together just over 2 years, and have been so happy. We have done so much together, including go away on holidays etc. A few months back (Aug 08) his family turned against me and from then I was not allowed ...
A. 3 November 2008: He's old enough to make his own decisions and not rely on his family to do it for him. If he keeps up with the I Love Yous I'd tell him to piss or get off the pot. If he does love you why did he break up? Ask him what the point is with sending you ... (read in full...)
I get butterflies when I see him but he's married.
Q. I'm 28 years old, a full time mum to me gal who is 5 years old and I'm in love with a married man who works in the shop downstairs. Whenever I go in the shop he always talks to me, and I feel a stong connection with him, like there's a very strong a...
A. 3 November 2008: "He's married with a little girl so I know I have to be careful" you have to be more than careful, you have to behave yourself with honor and integrity. You have a daughter to raise, be a good example.... (read in full...)
Due to his family interference, I'm left with nothing. Now what should I do?
Q. I am 23, my boyfriend is 20, we have been together just over 2 years, and have been so happy. We have done so much together, including go away on holidays etc. A few months back (Aug 08) his family turned against me and from then I was not allowed ...
A. 3 November 2008: What did you do to turn his family against you?... (read in full...)
What does 'sex is flat' mean?
Q. heya i really need help. what does it mean when someone says "sex is flat" and they say its not your fault. what does it mean ? should I be worried? please help x x x x x ...
A. 3 November 2008: It means your boyfriend is looking for more excitement in the sex department. But I gotta say, if sex is flat at your age I feel very sorry for what it will be like at 40. This is probably going to be a huge problem with all the kids having sex ... (read in full...)
I am so frazzled with my family how do I relax?
Q. Hello- All I have a question or rather looking for suggestions from Moms and famalies. I have 4 kids and husband and work full time. Lately, I have been so frazzled I cant seem to get it together as far as my house my kids school clothes the morn...
A. 3 November 2008: Before you go to bed each night lay out the clothes the kids will be wearing the next day. Make the lunches if you have to. Do as much as you can so that in the morning you can enjoy your morning coffee. As your kids get older and used to the ... (read in full...)
Why do some people constantly disrespect others by trying to force their religeous beliefs on them
Q. This is no doubt going to be a controversial topic but here goes: I am an atheist and quite happy with my beliefs. However I quite happily respect and accept everyone else's beliefs nor do I ever disrespect anyone else's beliefs / religions etc by...
A. 31 October 2008: Tuesday means elections all over USA, DiovanLestat.... (read in full...)
Why do some people constantly disrespect others by trying to force their religeous beliefs on them
Q. This is no doubt going to be a controversial topic but here goes: I am an atheist and quite happy with my beliefs. However I quite happily respect and accept everyone else's beliefs nor do I ever disrespect anyone else's beliefs / religions etc by...
A. 31 October 2008: Religion and politics...nothing winds people up faster. And I can tell you guys that I am sooooooo looking forward to next Tuesday or should I say Wednesday morning...Sheesh ... (read in full...)
Hope I can get an honest answer here!
Q. Hi! hope i can get a honest answer here...i've got a bf and i love him a lot and he loves me the same way. he's very nice and kind. only i'm not used to the kind of relationship he's got with his sister...i think i'm a bit jelous and i'm almost ...
A. 31 October 2008: Of course you are not wrong, this situation is sick and wrong. It also doesn't make ME 100% sure there is nothing sexual going on.... (read in full...)
Why has he left me to go back to her?
Q. It is late at night and I am sitting here not knowing what to think or how to get through this. My partner of 4 years has left me tonight to go back to his wife. He never divorced her but left years ago to have a fulfilling and loving relation...
A. 31 October 2008: Sorry but you made the decision to have an affair with a married man. This is what usually happens, the other woman ends up alone, wondering why he went back to his wife. If you don't want to waste anymore years then it is time to close this chapter ... (read in full...)
How many times do you call your partner per day?
Q. She works at night time and there will be days she works alone in her department. She text for me to call back. It happened few times so I guess she is lonely. I decided to call her everyday during her break time. The problem now is, she do...
A. 31 October 2008: My husband and I work at the same university so we call and email back and forth all day. ... (read in full...)
I don't want sex
Q. me and my fiance and had a baby 1 year ago and since then i havent wanted to have sex or do anything sexual at all! i can count the amount of times we have slept together on 1 hand! my partner was understanding at first but now i can see hes star...
A. 31 October 2008: Yeah, I'd go to the doctor. There are medications to help jump start your libido. Sexual intimatcy is a very vital part of a healthy relationship. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My relationship with my teacher has destroyed all other relationships
Q. Hi, I have a problem that is really getting to me. I am 17 and in a school sixth form. I have a male teacher, quite a bit older. We have grown very very close - although we have done nothing physical, I would constitue what we have as an emoti...
A. 31 October 2008: I TOLD you she wouldn't report him. Perhaps it's because there is some embellishments???... (read in full...)
These rides to work are really pissing me off!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...
A. 31 October 2008: Yeah Baby! You did the right thing and you, your family, and your marriage will not regret it! Keep us posted!... (read in full...)
I want to end this two year affair... NOW!
Q. Hi- I am looking for Advice on a situation that I have been in for 2 years. I have been married for 14 years and only started cheating 2 years ago. I have had many lovers in those 2 years (I know that it's wrong) I have ended all of the cheating and ...
A. 30 October 2008: You don't say you love your husband, do you? Do you have children? If the answer to both questions is "yes" THAT should give you enough strength and inspiration to straighten up and fly right.... (read in full...)
These rides to work are really pissing me off!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...
A. 30 October 2008: I wouldn't give a rat's ass what the people at his work think of me, I'd still insist this whole thing stops immediately. Boo hoo for the 21 year old, she made her bed let her lie in it you better make sure your husband doesn't end up in it. Stand ... (read in full...)
These rides to work are really pissing me off!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...
A. 30 October 2008: Oh yeah this needs to stop now. Put your foot down.... (read in full...)
My relationship with my teacher has destroyed all other relationships
Q. Hi, I have a problem that is really getting to me. I am 17 and in a school sixth form. I have a male teacher, quite a bit older. We have grown very very close - although we have done nothing physical, I would constitue what we have as an emoti...
A. 30 October 2008: Who wants to bet that this young lady is NOT going to report this teacher, she is throughly enjoying any attention she gets from him. It's a massive crush and she will be posting again.... (read in full...)
My relationship with my teacher has destroyed all other relationships
Q. Hi, I have a problem that is really getting to me. I am 17 and in a school sixth form. I have a male teacher, quite a bit older. We have grown very very close - although we have done nothing physical, I would constitue what we have as an emoti...
A. 28 October 2008: This post is very very familiar. And I'm sorry but I think much of it has been embellished by a school girl with a very large crush on her teacher. I doubt that your teacher would be so very stupid to carry on like this with a student. Sorry I just ... (read in full...)
2 and a half years without sex and we're married!!!
Q. I have been married for 8 years and for the past 2 and half years my wife and I have not had sex, or had any kind of physical contact or intimacy. We have 2 boys, 7 and 2. The last time we had sex was when the last child was conceived. I have tried ...
A. 16 October 2008: Awww Buddy, you are right this is no marriage. That fact that she doesn't even let you discuss it with her is a really bad sign. See if she will agree to go to marriage counseling with you, but if not I'm afraid you will have to split the blanket. ... (read in full...)
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