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Is it normal for him to have naked women on his phone?

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Question - (3 November 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *ntinarellajess writes:

My husband thinks it's normal for him to post naked women on his phone. I disagree. Help please.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008):

You tell him Bugs! The little whippersnapper!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008):

You 96!she knows how to have sex!Thank you very much!You need not talk so crudely to a woman.The problem is something else here which everyone else have helped her with.Read the answers.Mind your manners.Keep behaving this way.you are going to remain a bachelor of life.Your behavior is reflecting on the upbringing of your parents.If you don't want people to blame your parents start behaving right now!

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A male reader, ballr 96 India +, writes (4 November 2008):

i think that you should talk to him about what he does and comminucate in the relationship maybe he wanted to spice up your sex life and he wantes more sexual attention from u like give him blow jobs hand jobs and let him have sex with you more often and let him play with ur boobs and ur ass. I think he wants attention from u

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A female reader, Kuroneko Canada +, writes (4 November 2008):

I wouldn't be comfortable with it anyway but I don't think that is unusual for a man to have that...

However, considering that he is MARRIED and your HUSBAND, he should NOT be having those pictures or porn around anywhere. In my opinion, that's not too far from cheating on you sexually.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008):

anonGuy you are going to make a great partner for a lucky lady someday.

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A male reader, anon_e_mouse United Kingdom +, writes (4 November 2008):

anon_e_mouse agony auntI wouldn't have any naked pics of women on my phone especially if it upset my gf. I agree it is tacky and whats the point?

"at least it shows that he's heterosexual if nothing else!" = Rubbish imo.

Shows he needs to grow up more like.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008):

Very immature behavior! I would drop his phone in the toilet where it belongs.

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A male reader, yum yum Switzerland +, writes (4 November 2008):

yum yum agony auntIt is subjective some people will find it perverted and some will think thats normal for a man. However if your husband is married with you it is a bit strange and imature in my opinion.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (3 November 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntI think it's juvenile and tacky, something a 14 yr old boy would do. Tell him to grow up. I hope his boss asks to borrow his phone.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (3 November 2008):

I wouldn't be very happy with my husband if he did that.

In fact I'd be furious and demand it was deleted and not replaced.

Once I'd made him grovel for a day or two then I might give him a nice photo of me to replace it with.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008):

I dare say that if I'd got one of these fancy modern camera phones I'd have a few pictures on it too. Unfortunately mine's as old as the hills and I just use it as a phone and text machine. I'm in favour of the 'KISS' principle - Keep It Simple, Stupid.

I don't think pictures of naked women on a phone are offensive at all - at least it shows that he's heterosexual if nothing else! Womens' bodies are beautiful (in varying degrees) and deserve at least some exposure. 'Offensive' is when the women in question are accompanied by by randy labradors, ponies and horses.

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