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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years living together for 1 year and we just had a baby about three months ago. When we our son was born it was a very difficult delivery I was in the hospital for about to 2 weeks. When I finally came home he dropped us off and said that he was going to pick his friend from the airport and he would be back, he did return until about 6 hours later. During my first week at home he left me at home and was parting everyday. When I asked him why he was partying so much his response was that he needed to enjoy his life. What kind of response is that?????? He parties every single week. I am being over protective and controlling?? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 November 2008):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-wife-is-mad-at-me-because-im.html
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reader, xxmissxx  +, writes (5 November 2008):
 you need to tell him he has responsibilities now. i have a baby myself and i know how hard it is to look after on your own, he needs to pull his finger out and help you. im not sayin he shouldnt enjoy his life, every ones entitled to have a little fun, but going out every week (when that babys only just been born) sounds too much, youve every right to pissed of. i think you should sit him down and start giving the ultimatums!
good luck i hope you can sort this out hun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): Your not being controlling at all, he needs to grow up and understand that he now has responsabilities and he doesnt have the right to think he can just go out and party when ever he wants to, and what a asshole remark he made... he told he he needs to enjoy his life, well u should have thought about that 9 months ago. You need to have serious talk with him and try to get him to understand that this isnt right and he cant treat u like this, you have a son with him now and yall our gona have to work together and the partying thing has got to stop NOW.. I hope u can get this worked out, Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): you are not over protective or controlling. he had his chance to enjoy his life but he has a child to take care of now.. that baby is as much his responsibility as it is yours and he needs to grow up and realize that
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reader, plumsrock +, writes (5 November 2008):
 oMG no. he is having what i call a pre-mature life crises.
he is feeling pressured and like he has to do this to feel like he isnt tied down. he is emotionally immature. he cant handle the bed he made and is leaving you to in the process. he cant process how important nor how selfish he is being. lay down the rules. if he cant compromise nor comply, for the sake of you and your child make consequences. if he cant shape up...ship him out. if he is truly sorry or sees his selfishness in this...great. if not, dont give him time of day till he wakes up. you dont have time for this.
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