My relationship with my teacher has destroyed all other relationships
Q. Hi, I have a problem that is really getting to me. I am 17 and in a school sixth form. I have a male teacher, quite a bit older. We have grown very very close - although we have done nothing physical, I would constitue what we have as an emoti...
A. 31 October 2008: I TOLD you she wouldn't report him. Perhaps it's because there is some embellishments???... (read in full...)
These rides to work are really pissing me off!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...
A. 31 October 2008: Yeah Baby! You did the right thing and you, your family, and your marriage will not regret it! Keep us posted!... (read in full...)
I want to end this two year affair... NOW!
Q. Hi- I am looking for Advice on a situation that I have been in for 2 years. I have been married for 14 years and only started cheating 2 years ago. I have had many lovers in those 2 years (I know that it's wrong) I have ended all of the cheating and ...
A. 30 October 2008: You don't say you love your husband, do you? Do you have children? If the answer to both questions is "yes" THAT should give you enough strength and inspiration to straighten up and fly right.... (read in full...)
These rides to work are really pissing me off!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...
A. 30 October 2008: I wouldn't give a rat's ass what the people at his work think of me, I'd still insist this whole thing stops immediately. Boo hoo for the 21 year old, she made her bed let her lie in it you better make sure your husband doesn't end up in it. Stand ... (read in full...)
Is watching porn like cheating on your spouse?
Q. If your spouse believes porn is cheating and you are watching it are you committing adultery?...
A. 30 October 2008: If your husband/wife thinks viewing porn is the same as adultery then in their eyes you ARE committing it. But the wife/husband who does the viewing may NOT consider it to be adultery so therefore when they view it they are NOT committing adultery.... (read in full...)
I am afraid he wont want to be with me when he finds out my age
Q. i have just started to talk to this boy on msn, and he sounds really nice but he's 16, and i'm 13. I'm worried that he won't want to be with me when he finds out. please help me i really like him...
A. 30 October 2008: How do you know he's 16? Maybe he's 45. Be very careful.... (read in full...)
These rides to work are really pissing me off!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 21 years. He has started a new job and is giving a female co-worker a ride to and from work. He picks her and her kids up in the am and takes the kids to daycare. Then after work around 3:30 he hangs out ...
A. 30 October 2008: Oh yeah this needs to stop now. Put your foot down.... (read in full...)
Do you think he just wants to take things slowly?
Q. I would like some advice!! I was married for 5 years and separated 6 months ago. I have no experience in dating and I met this guy online. I met other guys but the first guy I dated we got on very well. What I found strange is that, we go out for ...
A. 30 October 2008: Are you 100% sure he isn't married?... (read in full...)
My relationship with my teacher has destroyed all other relationships
Q. Hi, I have a problem that is really getting to me. I am 17 and in a school sixth form. I have a male teacher, quite a bit older. We have grown very very close - although we have done nothing physical, I would constitue what we have as an emoti...
A. 30 October 2008: Who wants to bet that this young lady is NOT going to report this teacher, she is throughly enjoying any attention she gets from him. It's a massive crush and she will be posting again.... (read in full...)
Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!
Q. Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...
A. 29 October 2008: On the 6th day God went to the garden to speak with Adam and Eve.
He said,"I have two gifts for you two. The first one is this." And God showed them a penis.
Adam begged and begged to be the one to recieve the penis. He begged so hard that God... (read in full...)
What is up with his touching other women yet not touching me in public?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 22 years. Recently, in the last two years, he has been being a little too friendly to women when we are out in public. He is not a touchy kind of guy and we do have sex on a regular basis. We are both 58. ...
A. 29 October 2008: I'm glad we could help you with this, it sounds like he's seen the the light, men can be so dense sometimes.... (read in full...)
In a mess with a married man
Q. I want to know if married guys who don't have children with their wives ever leave them? The guy I am seeing hasn't had sex with his wife in 5yrs. After they got married she told him she was going through menopause and didn't care for a man anymore. ...
A. 29 October 2008: Of course he loves her and he is still having sex with her. He has no plans to leave her, she is his loving wife. After he leaves you he goes home and gives her a big kiss. They laugh together, cuddle in bed, you know all the things that married ... (read in full...)
Sticky water comes from my penis.
Q. When I get erect, sticky water comes from my penis, is this sperm? I am so much upset with that. Please Help ...
A. 29 October 2008: Brain tissue...hee hee... (read in full...)
I'm afraid other people will believe what they are saying. What to do???
Q. Hi, a group of girls in my college are making my life hell, i was going out with a guy who was in their "circle" and they cant stand me, i dont mean to be cocky but theyr not pretty or anything and i am a part time model and people say that they are ...
A. 29 October 2008: They are just jealous, take it as a compliment and then ignore them.... (read in full...)
How much sex is normal / usual for a couple after 10 years?
Q. I want to know how much sex is normal for a couple after being married for 10 years.Give me realisitic figures please.Thank you....
A. 28 October 2008: Define "normal" when it refers to human sexuality.... (read in full...)
Horrified to wake up to his best mate giving me oral
Q. A few days ago, I woke up to my boyfriend giving me oral underneath the bed sheets (which we ocasionally do) but was horrified to find out after it was over that it was his best mate!! Since his best mate has told me I have to keep giving him what ...
A. 28 October 2008: I just HAVE to change my newspaper subcription.... (read in full...)
My relationship with my teacher has destroyed all other relationships
Q. Hi, I have a problem that is really getting to me. I am 17 and in a school sixth form. I have a male teacher, quite a bit older. We have grown very very close - although we have done nothing physical, I would constitue what we have as an emoti...
A. 28 October 2008: This post is very very familiar. And I'm sorry but I think much of it has been embellished by a school girl with a very large crush on her teacher. I doubt that your teacher would be so very stupid to carry on like this with a student. Sorry I just ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he cant get any sleep when I am in the bed with him
Q. Hi, So I started dating this guy a month ago and I have slept over. It seems he can't get any sleep when I'm in the bed with him. I don't move much nor snore, and I'm able to sleep well. He hasn't had someone in his bed for the past three ye...
A. 28 October 2008: Maybe you move around more than you think. Maybe he is just used to sleeping alone. Ask him what's keeping him awake. You could get twin beds that push together for fun time and pull apart for sleepy time.... (read in full...)
Daughter kicked out!
Q. My husband kicked out our 17 year old daughter for dating a 25 year for the last 6 months. This was his decision. I have 4 other kids, he says it is her or him, either he will leave or she can come back. What should I do? ...
A. 28 October 2008: Okay listen, she is lashing out at you because you are the "safe" parent, she can't do that to her Dad. Let her stay at her aunt's for awhile and try not to contact her too much, maybe the aunt help calm down the situation as well. You then spend ... (read in full...)
He wont contribute finacially and I am drowing in bills!
Q. I am having a problem with my relationship, me and my boyfriend argue all the time. He got sacked from his job 4 months ago. We have been together for nearly a year but he used to work abroad so I only seen him for weeks at a time. Anyhows after ...
A. 28 October 2008: Tell Freddie the Freeloader he either coughs up halve of everything or he moves out. Be firm or you'll end up losing everything you've worked so hard for.... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I love her?
Q. I have been seeing this younger lady for several years. We han not had sex or even kissed. We go out together at least twice a month and we hug at the end of the evening. We to to her place and have coffee and talk. I want to make a move but I ...
A. 28 October 2008: Look at the date...... (read in full...)
Should I make my own porn video for my husband and give it to him?
Q. been with my hubby for 25 years, we were high school sweethearts. Recently I've been thinking about sleeping with my friend, who is a female, and is married herself for about the same time. I've allways wondered what it would be like to sleep wi...
A. 28 October 2008: You are just trying to justify cheating on your husband, and it's not working. If he is not satisfying you in bed because of excessive porn viewing then you need to lay down the law or separate. Do not have sex with your girlfriend unless you decide ... (read in full...)
Why don't people realise how wrong and illusive is their supposed sudden love for a past sweetheart?
Q. What's with that epidemic, of ''hooking up with old lover"" on computer. Why people can't see, how wrong is that? It's a trap, you feel unhappy in your marriage, so you look up, your high-school sweet-heart on line, and you think you are in love ...
A. 28 October 2008: The Internet certainly makes it easier to find those lost loves, so I'm sure there are more people doing just that but whether it's an epidemic I couldn't say. Most of the time I'd guess it's just idle curiosity, but tell me, did this happen to you?... (read in full...)
I'm afraid other people will believe what they are saying. What to do???
Q. Hi, a group of girls in my college are making my life hell, i was going out with a guy who was in their "circle" and they cant stand me, i dont mean to be cocky but theyr not pretty or anything and i am a part time model and people say that they are ...
A. 28 October 2008: There is absolutely nothing that you can do about what they say behind your back, people will believe whatever they want. You just need to realize that they are actually giving you a compliment. Try your best to ignore them with their filthy looks ... (read in full...)
After having sex with me he told me "I don't want to be with you!"
Q. I am 25. My boyfriend ended things almost a month ago. Since then we've pretty much spoken everyday, and on sunday we met up for sex. I know, I know, absolutely terrible idea and I know that now. We had a great night and he stayed the morning after ...
A. 28 October 2008: I'm sure the sisters will understand that you need to see them away from anywhere the brother might be or show up. If they are your closest friends, they will accommodate you with this.... (read in full...)
I recently went through my husbands facebook messages and found out he has been flirting with this gal...
Q. Hi I recently went through my husbands facebook messages and found out he has been flirting with this gal for a long time. It really upset me because the things he was saying to her were too deep for me. I confronted him and he says everyone...
A. 28 October 2008: Then, OH Yeah, this is cheating. No way is this something you should have to tolerate. If he refuses to stop contact with this woman, I'm afraid you will have to take some drastic measures. He's way out of line.... (read in full...)
What is up with his touching other women yet not touching me in public?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 22 years. Recently, in the last two years, he has been being a little too friendly to women when we are out in public. He is not a touchy kind of guy and we do have sex on a regular basis. We are both 58. ...
A. 28 October 2008: I'd tell him to knock it off with this touching other women. If he doesn't one can only hope that some lady with catch him upside his head. Keep your eyes open.... (read in full...)
After having sex with me he told me "I don't want to be with you!"
Q. I am 25. My boyfriend ended things almost a month ago. Since then we've pretty much spoken everyday, and on sunday we met up for sex. I know, I know, absolutely terrible idea and I know that now. We had a great night and he stayed the morning after ...
A. 28 October 2008: He liked the sex, period. When a guy says he doesn't want to be with you, he's being honest and doesn't want to BE with you but will consider SEX with you.... (read in full...)
I recently went through my husbands facebook messages and found out he has been flirting with this gal...
Q. Hi I recently went through my husbands facebook messages and found out he has been flirting with this gal for a long time. It really upset me because the things he was saying to her were too deep for me. I confronted him and he says everyone...
A. 28 October 2008: Give us an idea of exactly what he's been chatting to her about. ... (read in full...)
After having sex with me he told me "I don't want to be with you!"
Q. I am 25. My boyfriend ended things almost a month ago. Since then we've pretty much spoken everyday, and on sunday we met up for sex. I know, I know, absolutely terrible idea and I know that now. We had a great night and he stayed the morning after ...
A. 28 October 2008: If you don't move on then you will be missing out on meeting the love of your life. You will never find the guy who be with you on Sunday morning with cuddles, Monday morning with cuddles, Tuesday morning with cuddles...you get the picture?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wouldn't support abortion if I was pregnant.
Q. Me and my bf were talking about what would happen if i got pregnant. I am 18 and only just started studying and am no way ready to have a baby. So i told him, im not ready for a child, as much as it would hurt i would have to get an abortion. H...
A. 28 October 2008: Why are you worrying about this? Stay on the pill if you are having sex and use a condom, then you don't have to worry about pregnancy. Lots of people strongly believe abortion is wrong. Dump the boyfriend if you are unhappy but I really think this ... (read in full...)
Daughter kicked out!
Q. My husband kicked out our 17 year old daughter for dating a 25 year for the last 6 months. This was his decision. I have 4 other kids, he says it is her or him, either he will leave or she can come back. What should I do? ...
A. 28 October 2008: Where is your daughter staying? Is she with the boyfriend, family, friends, or living on the streets? The first thing you should do is make sure she is safe. Your husband should have used his head but I'm sure in the back of his mind he is worried ... (read in full...)
Sticky water comes from my penis.
Q. When I get erect, sticky water comes from my penis, is this sperm? I am so much upset with that. Please Help ...
A. 28 October 2008: Is your age really 26-29? Holy cow.... (read in full...)
Is there a cure for shy?
Q. Hello, my question is how can I cure my shyness? I am very shy and, my main problem is I just don't know what to talk about. I know it seems weird, but when I see someone I just say hello and I'm really stressed about what I should say next. I kee...
A. 27 October 2008: Part of your shyness is due to your age so that will fix itself down the road. However if you get involved with school activities, sports, clubs you'll start feeling more confident and that will help with your shyness right away plus you'll have ... (read in full...)
I think about my best friend's boyfriend more than I do my partner.
Q. OK THIS IS ALL WIRED I NEED HELP!!! OK so my best friend's boyfriend an I have been having an affair for 5 years now, he's been with her about 7 years, and I been with mine ten years. We both love the sex he tells me he loves it when he's sleeping...
A. 27 October 2008: Stuff and nonsense, I think you know damn well what you should do. You just don't have the guts to do it. And you have kids involved in this quagmire as well. For their sakes grow a backbone and straighten this mess up.... (read in full...)
Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?
Q. hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...
A. 27 October 2008: Are you pregnant or just hypthetically wasting everyone's time?... (read in full...)
Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?
Q. hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...
A. 27 October 2008: Are you 5 months pregnant? If not, why would a 13-15 yr old even be wondering about this?... (read in full...)
Should we have a threesome?
Q. my wife of 8 years is now fantasising about her having me and another man , when we have sex she gets really turned on talkin about taking 2 of us in both holes at once , the talk gets dirtier as we progress , should i give her ,her ultimate and ...
A. 27 October 2008: We get postings all the time about threesomes gone wrong. I suggest you read some of those before you decide. ... (read in full...)
Why don't my boobs match ?
Q. my left breast is smaller then right breast.. please help me out. i am not able to tell my mom i want to recover with this problem ...
A. 27 October 2008: Everybody's bodies is different right side compared to left side. Hold a piece of paper between your eyes and look at them, your right eye is slightly different from your left. Some people even have different colored eyes. That's the way the human ... (read in full...)
I was wondering if agony aunts get paid?
Q. could you please tell me do agony aunts get paid or is it a service they provide for free,thank you....
A. 27 October 2008: Wait just a minute...Am I the only one paying Andrew??????... (read in full...)
Horrified to wake up to his best mate giving me oral
Q. A few days ago, I woke up to my boyfriend giving me oral underneath the bed sheets (which we ocasionally do) but was horrified to find out after it was over that it was his best mate!! Since his best mate has told me I have to keep giving him what ...
A. 27 October 2008: "and I know I should have checked who was giving me oral!"..ya think? ... (read in full...)
I cried on my 18th because I wasn't 17 anymore! So how can I get over my fear of growing older?
Q. On my 18th birthday I cried because I wasn't seven anymore. I've always been scared of getting older, one - 'cause it means I'll have less life, and two - 'cause I'm scared of losing my abilities. I work hard and I've heard that when you become fort...
A. 24 October 2008: I'm 56 and I still manage to get around on my own steam pretty good, hee hee. I'm still smarter than my kids and the dogs. I still have my own teeth and the inner organs are still intact and working (well a couple have gone into early retirement but ... (read in full...)
Can a man and a woman be friends when he finds the woman attractive?
Q. Can a Man and woman truly be friends especially after the man says that he finds the woman beautiful?...
A. 24 October 2008: I think you just might be playing with fire my dear. What EXACTLY do you want from this guy?... (read in full...)
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