His family hates me...
Q. Well, here I am again... I have been on here a number of times. Pretty soon you all will know me because I am the 65 year old woman that has been dating a 69 year old man for 3 years and 10 months with no engagement or marriage in the future. He ...
A. 13 October 2008: I think you should dump his wimpy ass and find a real man. This situation is apparently unfixable since he won't/can't stand up to his children. You are right he's become the child. I don't think you'll be able to find any real happiness with this ... (read in full...)
I don't know what words to use to tell my parents I am gay.
Q. Hey everyone, I am 15, gay and proud to be. I am "out" to my friends but not my parents. I am nervous to tell them. Not because I think they will react badly. It is because I just don't know how to phrase it. When I came out to my friends I put it ...
A. 13 October 2008: Or you could say something like, "Mom, Dad, I was at the Doctor's today, and he said I have an inoperative massive brain tumor and have only weeks to live." After they take a big huge intake of breath, you say, "Just kidding, however I AM gay." ... (read in full...)
How do I make sure I don't scare this guy off?
Q. I'm feeling tired of my marriage after 16 years. My husband and I are sleeping in separate rooms - I can't stand him touching me. We do not quarrel/argue that much - in fact, we hardly communicate. Right now, I have a crush on my young hairstyl...
A. 13 October 2008: You are making yourself look ridiculous chasing after your hairstylist. Get a grip and act your age. He knows you are married and is trying to be respectful to your husband as well as you but he obviously doesn't want what you apparently do. If your ... (read in full...)
We are meant to be getting married but he keeps starting fights about how much sex we have. Any advice?
Q. Is there any advice for us???? I have gone from being so very very happy when my now fiance proposed to me 2 months ago to feeling like I just want to cry. Basically we had a huge argument last week which resulted in lots of screaming and shouting ...
A. 13 October 2008: People's sex drives vary. But I have a couple questions. Do you enjoy sex when you have it? If you do, I'm not sure why you would be lazy about it? Do you feel it is hard work? For your marriage to work there has to be more give and take. You need ... (read in full...)
My husband and I have a two week old baby. But I found out he's been hitting on my cousin... What should I do?
Q. I dated my husband for three years we've only been married for a month and have a two week old baby. but he tried to hit on my cousin who is practically my sister. he denies it but i know its true. so what do i do now? do i file for divorce? or stay ...
A. 10 October 2008: Just tell him to knock off that nonsense and then keep an eye on him. Sometimes guys have to adjust to being a married man. Give him a chance but make it clear that you will not tolerate that kind of behavior.... (read in full...)
Why is it hard for parents to let a teenager date?
Q. why do you think its so hard for parents to let a 16 year old date? ...
A. 10 October 2008: I think 16 years is a reasonable age to begin dating however it is never easy watching your child go out the door with some young kid who couldn't possible understand what a precious treasure he is escorting. Parents are people too, and this is one ... (read in full...)
Do women have morals?
Q. I had a Japanese friend who once joked that 'women have no morals!' I can't remember what we were talking about but, having read a lot of forums, here and elsewhere, this is what seems apparent:- Men, when considering cheating on their partne...
A. 10 October 2008: I'm not wasting my time on this thread, I'm just sitting here drinking Fade's coffee and thinking moral thoughts.... (read in full...)
Why am I like this?
Q. When I am on my period, I have an a major urge to clean everything and tidy up. The rest of the month I'm fine, its just when I'm menstruating. Is this normal? Why I am I like this?...
A. 10 October 2008: Well at least your house gets cleaned once a month, whether it needs it or not. I wish you lived next door to me.... (read in full...)
Do women have morals?
Q. I had a Japanese friend who once joked that 'women have no morals!' I can't remember what we were talking about but, having read a lot of forums, here and elsewhere, this is what seems apparent:- Men, when considering cheating on their partne...
A. 10 October 2008: Come with me Fade, I'll buy you a cup of coffee. I know a great coffee shop that caters to women with no morals, I go there all the time.... (read in full...)
In love with my brother in law, while I love my husband as only a friend. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I am in a serious dilema and I need all the help I can get. My brother in law loves me. I hate to say this but I am so in love with him. He tells me he loves me, he is the best uncle to my kids, he lives with my husband and I and my husband is ...
A. 10 October 2008: Yikes what a mess. First you need to completely stop the affair with the brother. Then you need to separate from your husband. Then you need to get a divorce. There is no need to tell your husband that you are in love with his brother but you need ... (read in full...)
Do women have morals?
Q. I had a Japanese friend who once joked that 'women have no morals!' I can't remember what we were talking about but, having read a lot of forums, here and elsewhere, this is what seems apparent:- Men, when considering cheating on their partne...
A. 10 October 2008: What an interesting thread. I see it has attracted the most interesting people. So...what hell are we chatting about?... (read in full...)
Why is my mother so negative and constantly creating arguments with me?
Q. i'm 16 and my mother is constantly creating arguments and acusing me of things i havent done. she looks at me in a wierd way like a face of disgust and i cnt take it anymore. i cant talk to her and i generally dont get on with her anymore. Its ...
A. 9 October 2008: She hates you because you have an illness? What's the illness?... (read in full...)
I'm not ready to kiss or hug my girlfriend. Am I frigid at 12?
Q. Hey! I am 12 years old and I am with a girl in my form. We've been going out for just about a week alone, and I guess I am frigid/shy. I am shy to kiss her or even hug her in the playground. My mates always kiss their girlfriends! What do I ...
A. 9 October 2008: I got a tip for you helperman, this guy is now three years older than you. Check out the date.... (read in full...)
My parents were hippies 35 years ago, but now with my boyfriend, they're suddenly prudes. What gives?
Q. Hi everyone- I'm having a bit of a conflict with my parents in regard to my boyfriend. We have been together for three years and lived together for two. He is 33 and I am 27. Neither of us is really concerned about marriage, we are together and...
A. 9 October 2008: Their roof their rules. You decide whether spending Christmas with your family is worth a couple of nights sleeping apart from your boyfriend. By the way I was a hippie back in the day and when my daughter visited us this summer with her new ... (read in full...)
The girl I'm in love with... I'm nervous about the outcome of talking with her!
Q. I am in love with a girl... her name is Jordan and I had her in a class last semester. She always sat really close to me and gave me "the look". I fell head-over-heels for her, but was always apprehensive about talking to her because of a tragic ...
A. 9 October 2008: What was this tragic event in your life? You might recieve better answers if you explain what is causing this underlaying fear.
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I'm becoming really depressed since my mother passed away, I feel lonely and I want to stop what I am doing wrong but there is no one to help!
Q. OK this isnt a relationship question or anything but... well my mum died 6 months ago.. and im becoming really depressed. Ive been to the doctors about it but they cant do anything because of my age (16) and ive started smoking drinking and ...
A. 8 October 2008: Losing your mother at such a young age is a very painful experience. I lost my mom a month after I turned 40 and I still was walking around kind of numb for months and months. Do you not have any friends you can talk to about your pain? Does your ... (read in full...)
STD from a dog?
Q. I came home from work early and saw my girlfriend at the time uploading videos to the web. When i logged onto the PC i went to check out what she recorded. It seems my ex-girlfriend engaged is sexual acts with my German Sheppard. She literally had ...
A. 8 October 2008: I know, but I like to say "itty bitty doggie dick". There was that story circulating on the internet years ago about the woman who walked down to her basement with her crotch all smeared with peanut butter looking for the dog and found the basement ... (read in full...)
STD from a dog?
Q. I came home from work early and saw my girlfriend at the time uploading videos to the web. When i logged onto the PC i went to check out what she recorded. It seems my ex-girlfriend engaged is sexual acts with my German Sheppard. She literally had ...
A. 8 October 2008: Okay but here you really gotta think size does matter. Shepards are big dogs but they still have itty bitty doggie dicks.... (read in full...)
I like the idea of a threesome but I'm worried I would be made to feel like the "second wheel"...
Q. I have been dating this dude for about 7 months and he and I are both great at exploring new things sexually. Lately, he has been asking me to have a threesome which i am okay with. I love trying new things and I want to have the threesome too....
A. 8 October 2008: Even people who go into a threesome without any doubts have terrible problems after the event. Since you have some doubts already it looks like a very bad idea to me. Tell your boyfriend you just want him all to yourself.... (read in full...)
Does this message mean he wants to marry me?
Q. I just asked a bunch of questions but I want to know the answer to this one. while he was on the plane he sent me a text saying he would miss me and to keep thinking about everything about us and what we talked about. So does that mean he wants to ...
A. 8 October 2008: It means he's going to miss and wants you to keep him in your thoughts. How did you get marriage out of that?... (read in full...)
Single 18 year old girl, completely infatuated with 32 year old married man who feels the same...
Q. I recently moved to a new town for college, and found a new job, etc. I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year because we were fighting a lot and he wouln't do anything with his life. Well, at my new job, I found that I felt attracted to an older ...
A. 8 October 2008: So what are you seeking here? Approval? Do you really expect people to say what you are doing is okay? The guy is married, it doesn't matter one iota whether it's happily or not. You can white wash it any way you want, you are cheating with a ... (read in full...)
He asked me to get breast implants, I refused, but now I can't let go of the worry this has caused me!
Q. My boyfriend asked me to get breast implants early in our relationship, and it tore me apart because I thought he already liked the way I looked. Why get together with someone if you're going to ask them to change? All of my boyfriends in the past...
A. 7 October 2008: He doesn't need a dick implant he's a big enough dick as it is, tell him you like man tits and you guys should go for a group rate. Seriously if he doesn't change his behavior for you why should you change a thing for him? Get rid, I think in the ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to get her to clean up and seek marriage counseling? Is it even worth it?
Q. My wife and I have been married for a little over three years now. We have 2 beautiful children whom we love dearly. She believes I had an affair or multiple affairs and cannot stop dragging this through the mud. She went so far as to have me ...
A. 7 October 2008: I don't really get this...you are filing for divorce but yet you want her to go to marriage counseling???... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a functional alcoholic, what should I do?
Q. Why do I have to pay for my boyfriend being a functional alcoholic? Why do I get called names by him when he is drunk, He belittles me in front of friends, He does not talk to me, he tell mes that he has NO problems and that I am the problem, (he...
A. 7 October 2008: He's a boyfriend not your husband, dump him. If you love him after the horrible way he treats you then you need to look into getting some help for yourself. Once you get yourself straighten out, see if you can find a man who doesn't live in a bottle ... (read in full...)
Is cheating still bad if my bf wont find out?
Q. i love my boyfriend but i want more. he can be quite shy when it comes to even leg touching and he says he wants to kiss me but he always chickens out, and we ave had PLENTY of opportunitites! but there is this guy i like who is prepared to go all t...
A. 7 October 2008: If a tree falls in the woods and there is no one to hear it...does it makes a sound?... (read in full...)
Jerk or nerd - which do I choose?
Q. ok here we go... well im 17 and leaving school soon. i have been going out with a guy in my school since i was in grade 9. but recently i have noticed my feelings for him arent that strong anymore. When we kiss i dont feel anything-at all. And...
A. 6 October 2008: Ask Melinda Gates this question.... (read in full...)
Does it hurt if a man gets an erection and is not relieved by ejaculation?
Q. Hi. If a man gets an erection and it is not realieved by ejaculation. Does it hurt?...
A. 6 October 2008: For the life of I don't know HOW you guys walk around with those things!... (read in full...)
I'm a very shy girl, need tips on first kissing!
Q. ok i have a boyfriend and he wants 2 kiss me and i want 2 kiss him but i dont know how 2 kiss someone on the lips so can someone plz help me!!!how long should the first kiss be(its only a lip kiss)? what do i do with my lips when they meet his? and ...
A. 6 October 2008: Oh I forgot, practice for about 2 years.... (read in full...)
I'm a very shy girl, need tips on first kissing!
Q. ok i have a boyfriend and he wants 2 kiss me and i want 2 kiss him but i dont know how 2 kiss someone on the lips so can someone plz help me!!!how long should the first kiss be(its only a lip kiss)? what do i do with my lips when they meet his? and ...
A. 6 October 2008: Practice what Smiles said on your fist.... (read in full...)
Single 18 year old girl, completely infatuated with 32 year old married man who feels the same...
Q. I recently moved to a new town for college, and found a new job, etc. I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year because we were fighting a lot and he wouln't do anything with his life. Well, at my new job, I found that I felt attracted to an older ...
A. 6 October 2008: Well you are going to have to be really really patient, my dear. He will not be leaving his wife. He will have lots of reasons why he can't each and every time you ask. He is sleeping with his wife. He hugs and kisses her everyday. His wife may or ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt if a man gets an erection and is not relieved by ejaculation?
Q. Hi. If a man gets an erection and it is not realieved by ejaculation. Does it hurt?...
A. 6 October 2008: If it were true you'd see guys curled up in the fetal position littering every street corner. It's one of the oldest ploys guys use on soft-hearted and abeit soft-headed young girls. Never fall for it.... (read in full...)
How do I stop peeing on him at night? It's embarrassing...
Q. I'm having an odd problem. My fiance and I generally sleep in the nude. We're always very close and snuggled up, wrapped around one another. Thursday night, we were sleeping and I was having a bizarre dream that basically ended with me going to the ...
A. 6 October 2008: Just wear some panties, he most likely won't comment on it. If he does I'd probably just tell him the truth. It's really no big deal.... (read in full...)
How do I help him through this? He's married and I love him...
Q. I fell in love with a married man, we are perfect for each other and we have been together for 6 months, he says he is in love with me too. He has not been happy with his wife of 9 years for a very, very long time and planned on leaving her even ...
A. 3 October 2008: Time heals all wounds and time wounds all heels. ... (read in full...)
Did any of you girls find your prince charming after jerks like this?
Q. I have been with this guy that I lost my virginity to for a couple of months. He told me that he was studying to be a lawyer and therefore too busy to have a serious relationship, but i foolishly kept sleeping with him hoping that he will change his ...
A. 3 October 2008: I smooched up quite a few toads before I found my prince. Yours is right around the corner, keep your eyeswideopen. Good name!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is so shallow about my hair...To weave, or not to weave!
Q. Ok so my problem is that my boyfriend is reeeally shallow and this is why. He's creole(blk and french) he's only dated mixed females, he's told me in the past that his preference are females that have "good hair" little breast,big butt and that ...
A. 3 October 2008: Anytime you argue with a boyfriend EVERY DAY, and I don't care what it is about, it's time to move on. Life is too short, yada yada....... (read in full...)
My friend is like a clone of me, it's driving me crazy! How do I put a stop to it?
Q. oh my god!my friend is just like a clone of me and i hate that!she wants to do everything i do!dress the same..wants to become friends with all of my friends,she just has a FAKE personality! if she ever has a problem with someone she asks me to fi...
A. 2 October 2008: Why are you still friends with someone you clearly dislike? Just distance yourself from her.... (read in full...)
I want to have a threesome with my girlfriend and another man. Can anyone tell me of their experiences?
Q. want to do a threesome with my gf and another guy, what do you think ? i already let her have sex with other guys she wanted to do. i think its wicked hot. can everyone plese tell me about your threesome expreiences please ? i need to know if im ...
A. 1 October 2008: Yeah for some reason it ends up me, my husband, and the dog watching it all, apparently we are his favorite porn stars. Uh oh, did I mention porn? ... (read in full...)
We think he's being used but what can we do to help if he won't listen?
Q. so my guy friend is infatuated with this girl he met about a year ago. he insists that he is in love with her and tells her that almost everyday. the thing is that she has a boyfriend. about her real boyfriend, she's "officially" in a ...
A. 1 October 2008: Now is the time to back off. You've told him how you feel and he doesn't want to listen. If and when this all blows up in his face be there to help him pick up the pieces but for now just stop bringing all this up.... (read in full...)
I'm the other woman. Your opinions?
Q. i dont know what my purpose is in asking other people's opinions because i know what what your opinions will be... i guess i want everyone to reiterate what i already know...that cheating's bad...blah blah blah.. anywhooo, here it goes: i current...
A. 1 October 2008: So, that's that...... (read in full...)
Should I get rid of the teacher and the girl or do what she asks?
Q. I'm in love with a girl we schooled together, when i proposed to her she accepted my love, then not so long after she got proposed by her teacher and again she accepted! Now she's telling me that if i want her i must get a car and a mobile. should i ...
A. 1 October 2008: What exactly do you mean by "get rid of"?... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to date an 18 year old guy? I'm 14.
Q. Ok so is it so wrong for a 14 year old girl who loves a 18 year old man be such a bad thing? I feel in love with a man named Daniel and he feel in love with me to, but my mom found out we were together and called him to "talk" to him. Now I am band ...
A. 1 October 2008: If you were my daughter I would do exactly what your mom has done. There is a huge difference between a 14 year old and a 18 year old. Period. Look him up when you are 18.... (read in full...)
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