Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 5 January 2009: That's just fine but if you think you are truly losing control the anti-depressants can really help. You are monitoring yourself very closely and very well so if you see some serious "slippage" get your butt back to the doc's, okay? The holidays can ... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 5 January 2009: Did the doctor prescribe any medications to help you through this?... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 8 December 2008: Sounds like you are getting a handle on the situation. Like I said before it's a good thing you were so on top of things so you didn't let it spiral out of control.... (read in full...)
I want a baby, but I don't know what my parents would say!
Q. hi the thing is im 18 my boyfriend is 21 i have been with him for 3years and i really want a baby with him i understand the responsibility issue and not just the cute baby side. me and him would but we're both worried about what my mum and dad would ...
A. 8 December 2008: I can totally verify what Tish has said. I'm a grandmother of 6 and I know my husband and I totally enjoy being able to spoil the kids but at the end of the visit we love to go home to our nice quiet home. So do you live with your parents or not?... (read in full...)
I love a married man! I don't expect him to leave his wife, but I suffer so much when not being with him, what can I do??
Q. hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have ben seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...
A. 8 December 2008: I just can't believe how many of these homewreckers say nothing about the pain they are causing the innocent wives and children involved in their trysts with married men! All they talk about is their own pain which they have brought on themselves. ... (read in full...)
I felt my uncle was getting too "cosy" with me... now they want me over for Xmas but don't know if I should!
Q. I was visiting my aunt and uncle for thanksgiving. My uncle was very happy to see me. When I was coming out of the room, he came in and wanted to ask me something. So after we talked, he wanted a hug, so I gave him one. Then he pulled my face ...
A. 4 December 2008: I'll bet you can out run him, anyway at his age I doubt you have anything to really be afraid of. You are kind of a big girl to be worried about this, aren't you?... (read in full...)
I felt my uncle was getting too "cosy" with me... now they want me over for Xmas but don't know if I should!
Q. I was visiting my aunt and uncle for thanksgiving. My uncle was very happy to see me. When I was coming out of the room, he came in and wanted to ask me something. So after we talked, he wanted a hug, so I gave him one. Then he pulled my face ...
A. 4 December 2008: I'll bet you can out run him, anyway at his age I doubt you have anything to really be afraid of. You are kind of a big girl to be worried about this, aren't you?... (read in full...)
The porn and the ex have to go! Help!
Q. I love my husband but he thinks it's nomal for him to contact his ex girlfriend after the hell she put us through. He also thinks it's nomal for him to watch porn by himself while he is married he loves double d's for breast and he likes thick hair ...
A. 4 December 2008: What's his reasoning for contact with his ex? Do they have children together?... (read in full...)
Is he thinking of proposing?
Q. I have been dating this guy for technically a year now. We have been really close friends, best friends, for over 6 years and have been in college during this time. He is getting ready to graduate this fall and I graduate next spring. I have dated a ...
A. 4 December 2008: I hear wedding bells.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's friend
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have 4 children together. He cheated on me once before, a while ago and we've been fine until recently. His friend and I were always close but recently it's been more than that. I'm not and never have ...
A. 3 December 2008: Just knock this nonsense off, show some character will ya?! A mother of four shouldn't be behaving like some horny teenager. Shame on you.... (read in full...)
Even though I'm extra careful having unprotected sex, I still worry something might go wrong.
Q. My girlfriend and I have completely, unprotected sex. We're being really stupid about this (especially me) since I'm already and adult and she's still underage. Condoms are usually a little tight on my penis but, I forgot what the name was, that ...
A. 3 December 2008: There is no such thing as being extra careful having unprotected sex. And once again I have to ask, "where the hell are the parents?!!!"... (read in full...)
My married boss suggested no strings sex, should I take his offer?
Q. Hi,for the last one year i have been attracted towards my Boss. I am unmarried 28 Y female and he is 35 Y married male. He is also attracted towards me. He has asked me for sexual relations with him without any emotional involvement.He never forces ...
A. 3 December 2008: What's a Y female and a Y male? As far as the offer goes, why don't you call the wife and see if this activity will "disturb" her?... (read in full...)
How can one enjoy anal sex?
Q. how can one enjoy anal sex...
A. 3 December 2008: I guess if you take lots and lots of scotch orally you probably would say, I know I would anyway, "Oral sex? I'll pass but you can have my empties do shove up your ass."... (read in full...)
How can one enjoy anal sex?
Q. how can one enjoy anal sex...
A. 2 December 2008: lots and lots of scotch... (read in full...)
I want a baby, but I don't know what my parents would say!
Q. hi the thing is im 18 my boyfriend is 21 i have been with him for 3years and i really want a baby with him i understand the responsibility issue and not just the cute baby side. me and him would but we're both worried about what my mum and dad would ...
A. 2 December 2008: So you say you aren't really worried, you know what you want,then why did you ask for advice? Advice on what?... (read in full...)
I want a baby, but I don't know what my parents would say!
Q. hi the thing is im 18 my boyfriend is 21 i have been with him for 3years and i really want a baby with him i understand the responsibility issue and not just the cute baby side. me and him would but we're both worried about what my mum and dad would ...
A. 1 December 2008: I'm sorry but someone who is worried about what "Mum and Dad" would say has no business bringing a baby into this world. Only people who can stand on their own two feet have any business deciding something so serious and important.... (read in full...)
Is brown discharge normal?
Q. hi, i was wondering if anyone would be able 2 tell me if brown discharge is normal? im 2 scared 2 go 2 doctors:( i also keep gettin tummy aches only when i wake up i get this :( ...
A. 1 December 2008: Where's your mother?... (read in full...)
Pointy boobs and big nipples - is it okay to have boobs like mine?
Q. My boobs are pointy and my nipples are big. I have small boobs already so neither of these things help at all. i have never seen anyone with boobs like mine. I want a boob job but i'm only 16. My boyfriend says they are fine but sometimes when we ...
A. 1 December 2008: I hope when your boyfriend makes comments like that you reply something right back at him involving pencils and dicks.... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend or kiss. I'm 29 and nobody wants me.
Q. hi i was wondering can any one help me . i am 29 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. i never even got my first kiss. i don't know and everyone else does. all but me. every guy i like rather someone else and never me. they reject me in the ...
A. 1 December 2008: If you don't like being over-weight then do something about it. Your self-esteem will get a boost and so will your health, besides it will keep you occupied while you wait to meet Mr. Right at the gym or health food store.... (read in full...)
How can I tell her that I love her?
Q. She's 25, and very beautiful. I'm 32, and not. We met at a summer school being held at a university. I have been deeply and desperately in love with her for nearly two years. No matter what I do the feeling does not fade. I made a clumsy pass at ...
A. 1 December 2008: I think you'd be making a huge mistake if you blurt out that you love her. She'll go running for the hills. Meet up for that coffee and if that goes well ask her out to dinner. And you're right, you never want to come across as needy, that's a big ... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to have a baby bump at 8 weeks?
Q. I am pregnant, my last period was around October.8th so I'm about 8 weeks pregnant right now. My symptoms have got better REALLY fast, tho i still puke at least once a day when i first wake up or at night when i get tired. I thought before my belly ...
A. 1 December 2008: Emily's right, why waste time asking us? Go to a doctor immediately, prenatal care is vital. I CAN tell you that it's entirely normal not to show at 8 weeks, I never showed until I was 4 months along. Make an appointment with a doctor.... (read in full...)
How can I increase my sex appeal?
Q. Good morning. Day one of your advent calendar and it's a shallow question from me. I'd like to have more sexual intercourse with ladies / my lady. Well - I'm a man - that's what we (would like to) do, etcetera! My question is, how does one increase ...
A. 1 December 2008: Most women are turned off by a guy who just wants to get into their panties. Shallow, yeah. Work on your attitude towards the fairer sex but just in case bulk up your bank account.... (read in full...)
The doctor was useless - are there any tests I can get myself to test my discharge?
Q. I need some female advice. I went to see my GP because I have always felt that I am not normal down below, I always have a lot of discharge and I have just never felt normal and this has affected me having boyfriends (I don't) because I feel t...
A. 1 December 2008: Go to a gynecologist. They are specialists on "down below" and will be more able to determine whether you are normal or address the problem if there is one. Nothing to be embarrassed about, they are professionals.... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 1 December 2008: Tell your doctor exactly what you have told us, I'm sure most doctors will be able to address your concerns with many viable options for you to consider. You are fortunate that you were able to determine that something was not right early on, ... (read in full...)
Should I try to ressurect our dead platonic relationship?
Q. I made a friends with a girl, aged 44. I am 49. At first I saw her as a possible girlfriend, but after a couple of dates I realised she wasn't for me: she had too much of a brick wall around her emotionally. She's also a drinker, heavy smoker, and ...
A. 1 December 2008: She sounds like a ill-mannered nutcase, don't call and good riddance.... (read in full...)
He wants friends with benefits but not a relationship - should I go for it?
Q. so about four months ago i met the absolutely perfect guy. perfect! and two weeks later he dumps me for some other chick that ended up being such an absolute female dog. anyways i flipped out on him and threw a fit cause before we even started ...
A. 1 December 2008: You dated for only 2 weeks, that hardly makes him your "EX". The fact that you jumped into the sack with him so quickly makes me think that he thinks of you as easy and has no real respect for you. The whole "friends with benefits" is a bunch of ... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 1 December 2008: You have decided to do the correct thing, it really sounds like you are having panic attacks and it just is focused on your wife, but most likely has nothing to do with her or your feelings for her, more likely it's strain at work, your father's ... (read in full...)
Is he just playing us both?
Q. So it's only been 2 months since my boyfriend and I broke up. He is the love of my life, my first boyfriend. HE means the world to me. I am still very close with his mom and dad. So close that although he is seeing someone else right now, that they ...
A. 25 November 2008: What was the reason for the break up?... (read in full...)
How do I get older women to take me seriously?
Q. Why are older women so reluctant do date young guys? I've been trying to get an older women for two months now I've gotten NOWHERE. I've never had problems getting girlfriends my own age, but whenever I hit on a woman in her 30's or 40's she doesn't ...
A. 25 November 2008: Well keep plugging away, you're bound strike gold sooner or later.... (read in full...)
Are there consequences to having sex 3 times a day?
Q. Before me and my fiance got engaged he was never asking for sex, only when it was the right time, now we're going insane... sex three times a day? Are there consequences to doing it this much? Is there a reason we're in this phase? O_O even though ...
A. 25 November 2008: Lucky you most of us have to work for a living...... (read in full...)
He says he connects with me emotionally but not mentally. What does he mean?
Q. The same guy I have been dating said he hasn't connected with another girl emotionally since 6 years ago with the girl he was going to marry. He told me that he connects with me emotionally but not mentally and he wants to. How should I take that ...
A. 25 November 2008: That is kind of strange, do you guys have different levels of education, interests, hobbies, religions,or goals in life?... (read in full...)
How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?
Q. Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...
A. 25 November 2008: Paralegal not paralawyer... (read in full...)
How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?
Q. Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...
A. 25 November 2008: Well just tell her what you want, you may have to negoiate back and forth. I think if you involved a lawyer or paralawyer it would seem more binding, but that's just me. How do you figure on child support, you pay during the summers and she pays ... (read in full...)
I feel as if I'll never be completely happy in my marriage.
Q. Here's my situation. I am 25 years old. Me and my wife have been married for 3 1\2 years and have a 3 year old girl. Our relationship is rocky at best. I love her but I don't get the same respect from her as I give. I have put up with it for 4 years ...
A. 25 November 2008: I see by your other post that you have decided to end the marriage.... (read in full...)
How should I go about getting divorced with the least amount of pain and what can I expect for custody?
Q. Here's my situation. I am getting a divorce, me and my wife were married in Alaska and lived there for 1 1/2 years, we now live in Ohio and have lived here for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter. I am the only one who works and it has been ...
A. 25 November 2008: I thought there was a time frame involved, are you sure that after 3 years you can just annul and not have to go through the courts?... (read in full...)
Are there a lot of open marriages out there?
Q. Are there a lot of open marrages out there? I should be more clear married couples that don't want to divorce but stay together as friends, parents, and partners ... but not romance or sexual partner. I'm in a relationship like that, I'm divorced ...
A. 25 November 2008: I agree, open marriages are great for the married people but not so great for their "boyfriends and girlfriends". I mean they, the married couple, have security and comfort and the people they play around with have neither security nor the comfort ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live together.
Q. Hi, I've been friends with this girl for 5 months who has a boyfriend. She moved from the east coast out here in the West to be with him for his new job. She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live togethe...
A. 25 November 2008: Does her boyfriend know about you? If she told him about you then maybe he told her never to speak to you again or they are finished and she's listening to him. But if he doesn't know about you I guess she has stopped communication with you on her ... (read in full...)
I feel as if I'll never be completely happy in my marriage.
Q. Here's my situation. I am 25 years old. Me and my wife have been married for 3 1\2 years and have a 3 year old girl. Our relationship is rocky at best. I love her but I don't get the same respect from her as I give. I have put up with it for 4 years ...
A. 25 November 2008: I think you need to separate from your wife, at least until you can sort out your feelings. See if you both are willing to go to marriage counseling. If she won't go then you go. Before you end your marriage you should at least try to fix it first. ... (read in full...)
I'm ashamed that I went through his private conversations.
Q. I have been in this relationship for about a year and a half. He is married but since the start he repeated that he is in hell and is trying to get out. He convinced me to start this relationship by saying that things will be ok soon and that we ...
A. 25 November 2008: Wow newsflash, he's a liar and a cheater and you are still sticking around so you can get more neglect and pain. You must enjoy it.... (read in full...)
Should I leave him because he doesn't love me after 6 months?
Q. I'd be really grateful for any advice you could give me as I'm not sure if I am overreacting. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months. He is 39, I am 34. I told him I was falling in love with him recently and he replied that he was not ...
A. 25 November 2008: You don't sound very happy. I think you probably need to look for someone else.... (read in full...)
I met the love of my life, but he isn't ready to commit yet! How long do you think I will have to wait for him??
Q. I desperately need guidance. My married of 17 years broke up a few years ago and one year later I met this wonderful man whom I believed was the love of my life....he was also part of my past growing up. We clicked instantly, fell in love, healed ...
A. 24 November 2008: Stop calling him. Go to the store and stock up on tissues, you'll be needing them for awhile I'm afraid. You WILL feel better eventually. In the meantime stay busy, go out with friends, do anything you can think of to occupy your thoughts. But you ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm ready for sex?? And why is he acting like this??
Q. i am 13 and i have a boy friend who is 13 to. i dont no wat to do we have been going out sence we were ten and havent broke up once our relation ship has been the best thing that has ever happend to me in the world. well my boyfriend asked me one ...
A. 24 November 2008: Let me bring out my stock answer, "If you are asking this question then you most assuredly are NOT ready for sex."... (read in full...)
Is my online date just playing around with me, or what is going on? Should I agree to meet with him, or not?
Q. My problem starts when i met this guy in a chat room which i frequent often,however after chatting a couple of times,things were starting to change,and we started to connect,of course he told me these feelings will get more serious ,which it ...
A. 24 November 2008: You are so right Teacake. This has been going on for three years and you haven't met? How can you possibly love someone you haven't laid eyes on? We even have people on this site who go on and on about "dating" on the Internet, sheesh that's not ... (read in full...)
I met the love of my life, but he isn't ready to commit yet! How long do you think I will have to wait for him??
Q. I desperately need guidance. My married of 17 years broke up a few years ago and one year later I met this wonderful man whom I believed was the love of my life....he was also part of my past growing up. We clicked instantly, fell in love, healed ...
A. 24 November 2008: I think your relationship sounds a tad one-sided at this point. I guess if I were you I'd back off a bit and not make myself so available to him. If you come across as too clingy you may drive him off.... (read in full...)
I love a married man! I don't expect him to leave his wife, but I suffer so much when not being with him, what can I do??
Q. hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have ben seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...
A. 24 November 2008: You are never going to find happiness with this guy, just misery, and I think you know it. I also think you know exactly what you need to do, for yourself and for his family. He may be truthful to you but he certainly is behaving despicably towards ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live together.
Q. Hi, I've been friends with this girl for 5 months who has a boyfriend. She moved from the east coast out here in the West to be with him for his new job. She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live togethe...
A. 18 November 2008: I think she knows where to find you if she wants to. Just sit back and let her sort this out. It really doesn't seem like she knows what she wants at this point. I think you need to give her some space and time. Wait for her to contact you.... (read in full...)
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