Can a man and a woman be friends when he finds the woman attractive?
Q. Can a Man and woman truly be friends especially after the man says that he finds the woman beautiful?...
A. 24 October 2008: I think you just might be playing with fire my dear. What EXACTLY do you want from this guy?... (read in full...)
I can be my siblings' tutor (husband disagrees) or give them into foster care. Should I go against hubby's wishes?
Q. My sister (who's 5) and brother (who's 7) was being abuse by our parents who are now in jail. To a long story short the cops call me asking if wanted to be they'll guardian or they'll be in foster care. I don't want them to live with brunch of ...
A. 24 October 2008: Well we knew he wasn't going to react favorably now didn't we? I guess I'd let him cool down and see if he will be willing to discuss this situation with you. I'm sure everybody he talks to about this will be on your side and tell him to grow up. ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I asked my mum to put in a tampon for me?
Q. Hello, i am quite worried. I have had a period for 2 years, and i wanted to start using a tampon. i couldn't get it in, so i called my mom and she put it in for me. Is that really wierd :S I don't know, i'm just a bit freaked out....
A. 24 October 2008: Heck fire, when you were a baby she stuck a thermometer up your butt to take your temperature, same locale different hole. We mothers are pretty amazing aren't we!?... (read in full...)
Good man...Bad woman....if I go will it hurt her kids?
Q. I have a girlfriend with 3 kids who are not my own. I provide for them in every way, even paying for her school but I don't get any respect from her. The kids respect me more than she does. I really want to leave her but knowing that the kids will ...
A. 24 October 2008: How come she isn't getting a support check from the kids' Dad?... (read in full...)
I was depressed, my best friend moved away and I grew apart from my other friends. I tried to integrate in their circle but they exclude me. How can I try to get them back?
Q. high school came, and things changed, what do i do please help!!! Hi, well in 7th grade i had the funnest time it was "the year" but when i got into 8th it was horrible, i was drpressed, my best friend moved away and me and my other friends grew...
A. 24 October 2008: Friends come and go throughout your life. Get yourself involved in your school's activities, join some clubs and organizations. You will have fun and make some new friends as well. To make a friend you have to be a friend.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he understand that I don't desire sex?
Q. How do I make my husband understand that my desire in sex just isn't what it used to be? When we met quite a few years ago the sex was absolutely great! We practically had sex every day and I even looked forward to it. I must mention here that I am ...
A. 24 October 2008: Tell your doctor. There are medicines now that increase a woman's libido so talk to him/her and get a prescription. Since you loved sex before menopause I'm thinking it must be a chemical imbalance. ... (read in full...)
Why are females more infatuated with their teachers than males?
Q. After reading a lot of teacher/student problems around here, quite clearly it seems that females more than males fall into infatuation for their teachers. Why is this?...
A. 23 October 2008: Judging by the female teachers vs the male teachers I had at my schools I think I have an idea...... (read in full...)
I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.
Q. I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...
A. 23 October 2008: Okay I did it again, it should read Fade YOU...maybe I better quit for the day.... (read in full...)
I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.
Q. I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...
A. 23 October 2008: Fade are lots younger than I, so maybe in your lifetime you'll see a change, I know I won't. I forgot to include the word 'time' after the word "good" on my last answer...see I told you I was old...sigh... (read in full...)
I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.
Q. I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...
A. 23 October 2008: I know it's not fair nor is it right, but how often do you find "For a good call so-and-so" signs in a ladies room?... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 23 October 2008: You guys are killing me here...I'd have better luck talking my husband into letting me paint eyeballs on his balls than getting him to shave his armpits, that's for sure.... (read in full...)
I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.
Q. I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...
A. 23 October 2008: I think the good Dr. is saying she IF she goes through with this, she risking be called a slut, he didn't call her one himself. The Doc, God love him, is a man of few words and cuts to the chase pretty fast.... (read in full...)
Is having a virtual gf, with the intent of meeting her in real life....a good thing or not?
Q. ok,well lets see who can help me, many of you might know what a Vworld is, many might not, here is a link to one of the many www.kaneva.com i want to know, Is have a virtual g/f is a good thing or not? eg: getting ego boost so you can go fo...
A. 23 October 2008: Bunnyman, I think you will have even greater luck finding your "virtual g/f" if you develop a sense of humor...Sheesh.... (read in full...)
I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.
Q. I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and ...
A. 23 October 2008: Listen to the Aunts, don't be foolish and allow this to happen. Nobody wants to be the joke in the boys locker room or the "for a good time call #####" sign in the mens room.... (read in full...)
How to stop flirting with my gorgeous chemistry teacher???
Q. okay so i have a bit of a situation. I have a huge crush on my chemistry. The man is gorgeous and he's awesome which is an added bonus! I'm usually a flirty person with just about everyone. I can't really help it, I'm a natural flirt, but I do it a ...
A. 22 October 2008: What, do you go unconscious when you kick into flirt mode or something? If you really want to stop, then stop. There, problem solved.... (read in full...)
Meds for sex...
Q. Please suggest some medicine by which any lady gets horny and ready for sex?...
A. 22 October 2008: Pizza and beer do it for me.... (read in full...)
How can I set up my wife to meet someone else, so I can go on with the one I love?
Q. I have been seeing another woman for over 20 years. I made a mistake and got married to someone else and I am very unhappy. How can I set up my wife to meet someone else, so I can go on with the one I love....
A. 22 October 2008: Take her by the hand to the nearest and busiest restaurant, bar, intersection, or whatever and say "Honey, pick out any guy you see, any guy at all, and I'll try to get you hooked up with him." Or you could take nude pictures of her while she is ... (read in full...)
Why is it, that middle age men lose their sex drives?
Q. Why is that ,that middle age man loses their sex drive? Are they losing it only with their wifes? Why is that, when they get a new relationship they get it back? So is this their hormones,or just boredom ? Why is that that this is more likely t...
A. 22 October 2008: Maybe he's suffering from erectile dysfunction and is embarrassed about it. A simple trip to the doctors could be all it takes to jump start your love life. It can be a touchy subject with some men but it really shouldn't be and there are a variety ... (read in full...)
Is having a virtual gf, with the intent of meeting her in real life....a good thing or not?
Q. ok,well lets see who can help me, many of you might know what a Vworld is, many might not, here is a link to one of the many www.kaneva.com i want to know, Is have a virtual g/f is a good thing or not? eg: getting ego boost so you can go fo...
A. 22 October 2008: Ease up Bunnyman, don't you recognise sarcasm when you see it?... (read in full...)
Why is it, that middle age men lose their sex drives?
Q. Why is that ,that middle age man loses their sex drive? Are they losing it only with their wifes? Why is that, when they get a new relationship they get it back? So is this their hormones,or just boredom ? Why is that that this is more likely t...
A. 22 October 2008: What's wrong about trying to spice up your sex life? You BOTH benefit from it don't you?! You never want sex to become just routine. What too hard to maintain about buying some sexy lingerie and putting it on? You aren't competing with anyone, you ... (read in full...)
Is having a virtual gf, with the intent of meeting her in real life....a good thing or not?
Q. ok,well lets see who can help me, many of you might know what a Vworld is, many might not, here is a link to one of the many www.kaneva.com i want to know, Is have a virtual g/f is a good thing or not? eg: getting ego boost so you can go fo...
A. 22 October 2008: Yikes, that damn Internet is once again pulling the wool over another poor smuck's eyes, I blame Bill Gates.... (read in full...)
Why are men so distant with a woman who they have been with in the past?
Q. i have slept with him off and on for over 30 years. it has been an off and on thing. he was married now divorced and im married. we have loved each other since we have been 19. i saw him a few weeks ago and found out that he has a new woman in his ...
A. 22 October 2008: Say I have an idea now that you will be having some more free time...why not work on your marriage and get that up to speed?... (read in full...)
Guys, what do you like girls to do with their tounges in your mouth?
Q. ok, i no its lame, but ive never been kissed like all my friends have. when we were 12, they played spin the bottle every weekend at the skating rink (yes, im from a small town in the midwest), while i was/am busy living a sheltered life with the ...
A. 22 October 2008: It's the beginning of cold and flu season, bear that in mind.... (read in full...)
How will I cope with his 16 year-old slob of a son?
Q. i just dont know what to do i met this wonderful man in rehab (imagine that)alittle over 4 years ago his problem was alcohol mine alcohol and meth. When we met i had just got out of prison fresh off the bus. i had been busted for drugs two times ...
A. 22 October 2008: Excellent idea, I did the same with my kid's toys because they didn't pick them up after repeated warnings. Works like a charm. If he's 16 you can also tell him he can't take the car unless he keeps his room clean, they really respond to that at his ... (read in full...)
Husband on the 'down low'!
Q. Apologies if this is long; but it's really worrying me and I need to get it out in the open. I'm 33 and my husband's 36. We have two sons, one aged 12 and the other who's 14. I live down the road from my best friend, and my children are bes...
A. 22 October 2008: Would you want your friend to keep this to herself if she was the one who found out what was going on with your husbands? ... (read in full...)
Should I just accept this situation?
Q. Am I being unreasonable? My partner and I are both widowed,I am 72 she is 65. We have been together for 11 years and are extremly happy.we bought a house together 5 years ago and we have no money problems.I moved north to the area where my partner ...
A. 21 October 2008: I can see her helping out the first few months and occasionally after that...but for a whole year? When my daughters were having their children I'd go stay for a week but I'm still working full time. I think YOU should come first now. Have you told ... (read in full...)
I need married men's advice!
Q. I need married men advice( and wifes also) Ive got people saying(with my last question i am too "motherly" to my husband and that is why he takes me for granted and never shows me any respect. I stay at home with the kids and keep up with all the ...
A. 21 October 2008: See my response to your previous post.... (read in full...)
Husband on the 'down low'!
Q. Apologies if this is long; but it's really worrying me and I need to get it out in the open. I'm 33 and my husband's 36. We have two sons, one aged 12 and the other who's 14. I live down the road from my best friend, and my children are bes...
A. 21 October 2008: Yikes! You must be totally in shock which is a good thing because it numbs you up a bit. I guess I would just treat this as I would a cheating husband situation. Confront him with your information and see what he says, that is when he finally ... (read in full...)
Why don't my feelings matter to him?
Q. Im having a very hard time trying to earn respect or recieve respect from my husband. We are young and we have been married for three years, and i love him,and respect him...but he never shows me respect! If we get into an argument he will yell at ...
A. 21 October 2008: I stayed home when our kids were little, I cooked, cleaned, took care of the bill paying, got up in the middle of the night with a sick kid, even did most of the lawn work. He taught school and did some school extra curricular activities (coached ... (read in full...)
We fight a lot over stupid, petty things, we don't know what to do about this, any insights?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months. Our problem is that we fight a lot. Usually it is petty fighting about stupid things. His main complaint with me is that I am too quick to attack. For example, if he says something I don't ...
A. 21 October 2008: I dated a couple of guys that were really close to my ideal man but just missed the mark so to speak. I think that's what dating is all about, finding the exact right guy/girl for a person. Those relationships were fun most the time and I really ... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to handle my self centered girlfriend?
Q. A lot of my friends (mainly my female friends) hate my girlfriend because shes too self center (she is working on it and trying to be nicer to everyone). My female friends can be really mean maybe even almost disrespectful to her. They even star...
A. 21 October 2008: Your the guy that told all these so called friends about your girlfriend stuffing her bra and hoping to breast enlargement surgery, aren't you. Do you enjoy playing with us? ... (read in full...)
I want to ask my friend to homecoming... Help please!
Q. so my school has homecoming coming up next week and i really want to ask one of my guy friends. well we use to date, but now we are friends and i know he still likes me, well i think he does, but i dont want to be the one to ask cause im scared of ...
A. 21 October 2008: Nothing ventured nothing gained. Say something like,"Since I'm not in a relationship at the moment, and if you haven't already been invited, would you like to go with me as friends?" If he's already going just say " Cool, I wish I had somebody to go ... (read in full...)
My ex from 3 yrs ago says he feels the same but he's ignoring me! What's happening?
Q. i hav just recently split up with my b.f with whom i hav 2 kids with none wer planned but i dnt regret them... i havnt been wnting him for a long wile now... and finally gt the courage to split.. as of my ex boyfriend, whom i got wiv when i was 14 ...
A. 21 October 2008: I think you are coming across as desperate and boy that will turn a guy off faster than a light switch. You'd best slow down here and give him and your new found relationship some air. Let him be the first to call.... (read in full...)
Will he leave his wife after he gets his finances in order? What do you think?
Q. Help!!I am a 40 year old female. I looked up a old love we were 18 we lived together briefly. his parents as well as mine did not like the relationship and eventually he left. i looked him up a few months ago i have never stopped loving him all ...
A. 21 October 2008: Sounds to me that you are destined to be the "other woman" for quite awhile, maybe indefinitely. I'm glad your love is stronger than your shame, I know I wouldn't be able to look at my face in the mirror knowing the horrible pain I will be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps getting hit on by his ex, Should I be worried?
Q. I know I'm probably being paranoid, but should it bother me if my boyfriend keeps getting hit on by his ex? (who happens to be the school slut). He only dated her for a couple weeks and made the mistake of sleeping with her. She cheated on him and ...
A. 21 October 2008: That's "between".... (read in full...)
Does he really like me or am I just a bed partner?
Q. This guy (48) never married and has a girl friend for 15 years, goes over on weekends only and was my ex boyfriend started to email me back in April. He's a great guy and I've always cared for him. I'm married, but it's doomed to come to an end, as ...
A. 21 October 2008: Jeese Louise are you really age 41-50? I hope not or you are surprisingly pathetic. "Do you think he really likes me or I'm just a bed partner?" oh please.......... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps getting hit on by his ex, Should I be worried?
Q. I know I'm probably being paranoid, but should it bother me if my boyfriend keeps getting hit on by his ex? (who happens to be the school slut). He only dated her for a couple weeks and made the mistake of sleeping with her. She cheated on him and ...
A. 21 October 2008: You should keep a nickel bewteen your knees. You don't give up your precious virginity to keep a boyfriend, in fact at your age that's the surest way to LOSE a boyfriend. Trust me.... (read in full...)
Am I being stupid by making all the effort?
Q. Hi me and my boyfriend have been split up for about 8 weeks and hes now involved with someone else anyway we agreed to try and stay mates even tho the girl hes now involved with dosent like me one bit, so he says for me to ring him which i do but t...
A. 21 October 2008: Yep. I'd quit wasting my time and move on.... (read in full...)
How can I make my periods regular?
Q. I think I have irregular periods. I get my period every 2-5 weeks and last from 4-8 days. is that normal? what should I do to make it regular? its irritating because I never know when I'm gonna start and I hate starting when I'm at school!...
A. 21 October 2008: At your age it's quite common to have fluctuating periods. They eventually settle down to a more workable pattern. I would use pantyliners everyday and make sure you have emergency pads/tampons in your locker or book bag at all times. Your doctor ... (read in full...)
I told my girlfriends secrets to my friends, and she's furious!
Q. My girlfriend (Im almost 18 and shes 17) made me promise not to tell that she stuffs her bra and wants breast implants when she finishes high school. To make a long story short, I was hanging out with my friends (most of them are girls who hate m...
A. 21 October 2008: You should be asking what should you do about yourself not your friends. YOU are the one with the big problem. You say your girlfriend can be self-centered, I think YOU are self-centered. You certainly are one of the girls aren't you?! Now we have ... (read in full...)
Help...jealous daughters!!
Q. Okay, I am a 37 year old woman who is engaged to a 47 year old man. We both have been divorced 2wice, so If we marry, it will be our 3rd time. He has 2 daughters, by 2 different mothers. One is 28 and lives far away, married with kids, the other is ...
A. 20 October 2008: I'm afraid you really need to develop a tough skin and be willing to "suck" up quite a bit if you want to keep this relationship viable. Hopefully given enough time his daughters will come around and accept the situation maybe even find a friend in ... (read in full...)
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