I'm so confused, I've been seeing him for the past 3 years, but lately contacts are rare. Should I leave it at that? He has a family.
Q. I guess i already know the answer to this question, but i need to hear it from someone else really. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 years, we met online, chatted, then met, and ever since we have been really good friends, he is/was my bes...
A. 14 November 2008: Do not contact him in any form. You make your own closure and move on. It's over and whether you know it or not...that's a good thing.... (read in full...)
Should I hold on in the hope his family come around?
Q. My boyfriend of 11 years family and I don't get along, we were really good for 8 years but we fell out and now they won't even speak to me, because of this we didn't get married. Now we have a baby and we believe that it's only right that we get ...
A. 14 November 2008: What happened to cause this falling out with his family?... (read in full...)
If he didnt want to talk to me anymore why didnt he just say so?
Q. I met a guy online five months ago,we started chatting as friends and after some time we started talking romance to each other.I didn't believe in "long-distance online relationships" because I had bad experience ,but he kept saying that distance is ...
A. 13 November 2008: I guess he figured since you weren't willing to meet face to face he wasn't going to waste anymore time on you. I mean what fun are romances that are only online?... (read in full...)
I'm dating a girl 4 yrs younger than me and everything is fine now, but when I turn 18, will our relationship then turn illegal??
Q. Well I'm dating a 12 year old and I'm currently 16 years old. And I'm always hearing about when I turn 18 it'll be illegal, but I can't find the law that say's this. I just want to make sure I won't get arrested when I turn 18 and what is the law ...
A. 13 November 2008: As a mother of three, two of which are girls, I can state without any qualms that a 12 year old girl, ANY 12 year old girl is not ready for the dating scene. If you are such a good guy you will wait a few years to pursue this romance.... (read in full...)
Should I wait for Mr. Right or get with any number of Mr. Right nows?
Q. Ok,well yeahh im a freshman in 9thgrade and there is quite a few guys that like me, but im waiting for this one guy to get the guts enough to ask me out. he really likes me and i really really like him, like his friends have been doing all the work ...
A. 13 November 2008: Good grief child, get out and date lots of different guys. This is the time in your life to have fun, meet different people and just generally hang loose. This doesn't mean having sex this means having lots of laughs and good times. Man, I had such ... (read in full...)
I ejaculate quickly and there is nothing I can do about it!
Q. I am 20 and I don't know if I will ever get a girlfriend. I ejaculate quickly and there is nothing I can do about it! I don't know what to do anymore I am going crazy! Girls all want sex, but that is nothing I could ever give to a girl! It sucks and ...
A. 13 November 2008: Side note to the aunts: Who else is scared of Baddog's picture?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend really wants a threesome and I'm really not up for it.
Q. okay well my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost three months now and we've had sex a lot but now he's been asking me all the time to have a threesome with him and he just won't understand that i really don't want to. sometimes he says ...
A. 13 November 2008: If you keep going like this you will be sexually burnt out by the time you hit your twenties and a track record that may bother many a prospective husband. Think about it.... (read in full...)
2 and a half years without sex and we're married!!!
Q. I have been married for 8 years and for the past 2 and half years my wife and I have not had sex, or had any kind of physical contact or intimacy. We have 2 boys, 7 and 2. The last time we had sex was when the last child was conceived. I have tried ...
A. 13 November 2008: Listen Chris I think you need to separate from her as soon as possible. It might be a wake up call for her but even if it's not this is no way for you to live. Your children will be fine, kids can feel the tension. And like I said before perhaps ... (read in full...)
Should I teach my roommates a lesson?
Q. I live with 5 other girls and they drive me insane!! They are so immature, loud and gossip non stop. They keep me up all night even when I nicely asked them to keep down. They are so interested in my personal life, since we share a wall, they listen ...
A. 12 November 2008: Be careful, I work at a university and on our campus if alcohol is found in a dorm room or appartment, all the students that live there are held accountable no matter whether they are there at the time of the bust or not. Check out your campus' ... (read in full...)
My loving husband has been seeing a dominator for the past 3 years!
Q. I'm 28, been married to my husband for the past 4 years. I found out off a very close friend last night that he'd been seeing a dominator (I can't use the word dominatrix as it wasn't another woman he'd been seeing). She said that she was driving ...
A. 12 November 2008: Unless your friend was driving by in a horse and buggy I doubt she could have heard this conversation. What you need to ask yourself is what possible reason would your friend have to make up a story like this? What was your husband's demeanor when ... (read in full...)
Lying about my life just so he is interested in me!
Q. i am gonna sound so strange but here we go. Well recently i have made friends with this boy, and we have become really close, but i have been telling him lies, just so he is interested in me :( i told him i have 8 sisters 5 cars and my hair colou...
A. 12 November 2008: This just in from the poster:
do you know what? fuck you
i want a fukin answer that will help me
get the fuk off this site your a waste, your not helping anyone!
Seems our little storyteller doesn't really appreciate a good answer when... (read in full...)
Lying about my life just so he is interested in me!
Q. i am gonna sound so strange but here we go. Well recently i have made friends with this boy, and we have become really close, but i have been telling him lies, just so he is interested in me :( i told him i have 8 sisters 5 cars and my hair colou...
A. 12 November 2008: Tell him there was a tremendous bright light over your mansion last night and when you woke up this morning, your sisters, cars, and mansion had disappeared and your natural hair color changed from the experience. Tell him you suspect a UFO. That ... (read in full...)
How do I make my wife agree to sleep with other men?
Q. How do I make my wife agree to sleep with other men? This is my deepest fantasy and will give me immense pleasure in seeing her having sex with others....
A. 12 November 2008: Ahhh I see you've come back for another round of abuse. How many times are you going to stick that chin out, Bub?... (read in full...)
Christmas is coming up and I don't know what to ask for!
Q. I'm really stuck...everyone keeps asking me what i want for Christmas and i really have no idea what to ask for??? any suggestions for a teenage boy welcome:) Thanks:)...
A. 12 November 2008: How about world peace?... (read in full...)
Does a low sperm count mean he can't have kids?
Q. if a guy is told he has low sperm count does that mean he can't have kids full stop or does it mean that there are ways that he can but not naturally?...
A. 12 November 2008: Does he say he wants to have kids with you? If he's close to 38 then maybe this will something you will have to miss out on because of your age gap.... (read in full...)
I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?
Q. Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...
A. 12 November 2008: If I told you, I'd have to kill you...nuff said.... (read in full...)
He's my teacher and I've fallen pregnant to him!!!!! HELP!
Q. Ok.. here's the thing.. I've been seeing this guy for all of nine and half months now and only recently we both decided we would consumate our relationship. It was my first time and I'm glad it was with him. It was very special and so is he. He...
A. 12 November 2008: How sure are you that your parents aren't going to call the school and inform them about your situation? Will your love change if he has to work at something other than teaching? And if he does manage to keep his job and continue teaching, are you ... (read in full...)
I want my dad out of my life because of the way he treated me and my partner!
Q. i keep worrying about the future. when my father first found out about me and my partners big age gap he was furious with me and told me i was never to see him again. i wasn't happy with this at all as my father has hardly ever been in my life so i ...
A. 12 November 2008: What kind of age gap are we talking about here?... (read in full...)
Are there any laws that state about age gap dating?
Q. Are there any laws that state about age gap dating? person A is 16 person B is 37 can you help?...
A. 12 November 2008: Please explain EXACTLY why a 37 year old man would be interested in dating a 16 year old. I want the details.... (read in full...)
I have a mad crush on my best friend's ex!
Q. I have huge crush on my best friends ex-boyfriend! They are sort of on and off, and he has been flirting with me a bit lately, but I am just really attracted to him and I feel like I connect and appreciate him more than my bestie. I feel really bad ...
A. 12 November 2008: I think you just need to back off a bit, he likes her more and if you come on too strong you will be left in the dirt by both he and your best friend. Some one will come along for you, be patient.... (read in full...)
What are these stomach pains every morning and how can I stop being so paranoid about them?
Q. I have a major problem. Every single morning I get up my stomach always has some kind of pain and every day I feel like I'm gonna get my period but instead it's just like a clear goo like discharge. But every day something is coming out of me ...
A. 12 November 2008: A doctor can help you, go see one. ... (read in full...)
My need for affection from another man...
Q. I am married have one child, she is 6 and has never gotten any love or affiction from my husband. When I see other people kissing I wish I could do that, anyway I met a man at a night club a year and half ago and he told me I am attractive so he ...
A. 12 November 2008: Why not get a divorce from your husband if you are not happy? Then you'll be really be free to find a man who gives you the affection you need. As far as the othe man goes, that's over, deal with it.... (read in full...)
I'd been married for 5 years and I can't stop thinking of other women.
Q. I'd been married for 5 years and I can't stop thinking of other women. Sometimes when I'm making love to my wife start thinking of other women. It's not helping having so many (hot) co-workers flirting with me. Me and my wife went to the mall toge...
A. 12 November 2008: Shy boy your other posting made it very clear that you have some major problems and definitely shouldn't even be married at all...to anyone.... (read in full...)
Are me and my wife over?
Q. A few days ago I went exes (we're just friends now) place had a few beers and was I too wasted to drive home. I called my wife to ask her give ride home. When she got to the house (she wasn't too happy that I was drunk) my ex told her come then it ...
A. 12 November 2008: Boy oh boy, you sure don't know how to make very good decisions do you!Getting drunk with the ex, then fighting with the wife who catches you kissing the ex, then you claiming it's not your fault, then making her cry (it didn't JUST happen either), ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a girl 4 yrs younger than me and everything is fine now, but when I turn 18, will our relationship then turn illegal??
Q. Well I'm dating a 12 year old and I'm currently 16 years old. And I'm always hearing about when I turn 18 it'll be illegal, but I can't find the law that say's this. I just want to make sure I won't get arrested when I turn 18 and what is the law ...
A. 12 November 2008: A parent who allows their 12 year old daughter to date period is way off base, let alone to date a 16 year old. Age certainly matters in this case, her mom is being very irresponsible.... (read in full...)
I'm dating a girl 4 yrs younger than me and everything is fine now, but when I turn 18, will our relationship then turn illegal??
Q. Well I'm dating a 12 year old and I'm currently 16 years old. And I'm always hearing about when I turn 18 it'll be illegal, but I can't find the law that say's this. I just want to make sure I won't get arrested when I turn 18 and what is the law ...
A. 11 November 2008: A 12 year old?!!!! Once again...WHERE ARE THE PARENTS THESE DAYS?????... (read in full...)
Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?
Q. Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?...
A. 11 November 2008: I think your friend is coming on to you and I think you that also. The question is what do you think you should do about that?... (read in full...)
Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?
Q. Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?...
A. 11 November 2008: Is someone putting a finger in my anus or am I just glad to see you?... (read in full...)
Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?
Q. Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?...
A. 11 November 2008: Maybe a toggle?... (read in full...)
If you leave sex for a few days your hymen heals itself and you have to break it all over again. Is this true??
Q. Last Friday, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. It really hurt (me being very nervous probably didn't help) and I bled, but I thought that at least next time it won't hurt as bad. Thing is, my friend told me that if you leave it for a few days ...
A. 11 November 2008: Nope, once it's broken, it's broken. However it can still hurt some women to have sex the first few times but never as much as the first time. And yes being nervous can contribute to the pain.... (read in full...)
Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?
Q. Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?...
A. 11 November 2008: There's a button in there?... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend send a video of him jerking off to his ex!
Q. So last week my boyfriend and I were sitting on the couch and he had his laptop. He signed into his email and plainly let me see his password. To tonight I decide to be nosey and just look in his email. I'm really paranoid about the things his ex ...
A. 11 November 2008: Jeese Louise, how much more crap are you going to take? You certainly are a glutton for punishment. And by the way you would be paranoid if you were only FEARING he was sending naked pictures to his ex, you've seen the proof.... (read in full...)
Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?
Q. Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?...
A. 11 November 2008: I definitely agree with the aunts...these discussions should ONLY be with your husband, a marriage counselor, or both. It is a huge violation of his privacy.... (read in full...)
My husband got his school girl mistriss pregnant
Q. I'm still crying over my husbands affair. He had a six month affair with a school girl. I was pregnant they both knew that. He didn't use precautions and slept with both. I've had councilling but feel my life is tainted by them. I have three lovely ...
A. 11 November 2008: Sorry I got your identity incorrect. We have a school girl who writes us with all sorts of scenarios about her teacher, I thought this was yet just another one. However I still stand by one part of my previous answer, your husband is an idiot for ... (read in full...)
My wife wants a boob job... why does she think I don't find her attractive
Q. My wife wants a boob job because she doesn't think I don't find her attractive not sure where she got that idea. I told she doesn't need one and being a drama queen. I admit do look at other women and I do flirt with other women at work (she caught ...
A. 10 November 2008: Maybe she wants this done so she will get more attention from OTHER men.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said that if I don't do good in school then he will dump me!
Q. hey, Well I had a problem with my boyfriend last night. He said that if I don't do good in school then he will dump me (plus I am trying really hard in school). At that moment I felt like nothing and I felt unsuccessful because it's enough that my ...
A. 10 November 2008: Tell him you get enough negativity from your Dad and what you need from him is his loving encouragement and support. If he can't deliver that then get rid of his critical butt. Keep plugging away with your studies, it's well worth it. And remember ... (read in full...)
IS my ex bf keeping in contact with me because he knows that if he does ask me back I would definitely go back to him and he knows it?
Q. IS my ex bf keeping in contact with me because he knows that if he does ask me back I would definitely go back to him and he knows it? Like friday night in are local pub he was there with his new girlfriend and i was there with some mates, the pub ...
A. 10 November 2008: It does kind of sound like you might be his back up plan. He is doing you no service by stringing you along. There is a reason he has a new girlfriend. I think it's time to move on and to quit wasting your time wondering about the "what ifs".... (read in full...)
My husband got his school girl mistriss pregnant
Q. I'm still crying over my husbands affair. He had a six month affair with a school girl. I was pregnant they both knew that. He didn't use precautions and slept with both. I've had councilling but feel my life is tainted by them. I have three lovely ...
A. 10 November 2008: You know at the risk of totally offending you I think this post was written by our young school girl who has a huge crush on her teacher. If on the off chance that this is a genuine post, your husband must be a total idiot to risk his career for ... (read in full...)
I'm fat, right?
Q. Hey, I'm 16 years old. I'm 6 ft tall and weigh 98 kilograms. I'm F A T, right?...
A. 10 November 2008: At 16 you haven't finished growing, sometimes your body will put on weight just before a growth spurt.... (read in full...)
How to help my friend escape her abusive ex...
Q. My Friend is looking to move because her abusive husband is being realesed from prison he was sent down for battering her and the youngest of her 3 kids now after 8 months he's coming out before christmas and she is petrified he will come after her ...
A. 10 November 2008: Have her get a restraining order against him immediately.... (read in full...)
Why do some guys only want girls for sex?
Q. Do they not know that girls are PEOPLE and not THINGS? What causes them to be like this? Is it in their genes?...
A. 5 November 2008: More like in their pants.... (read in full...)
2 and a half years without sex and we're married!!!
Q. I have been married for 8 years and for the past 2 and half years my wife and I have not had sex, or had any kind of physical contact or intimacy. We have 2 boys, 7 and 2. The last time we had sex was when the last child was conceived. I have tried ...
A. 5 November 2008: I think you are doing the right thing and I hope you find a place real soon. You deserve some happiness especially after what your wife has put you through.... (read in full...)
2 and a half years without sex and we're married!!!
Q. I have been married for 8 years and for the past 2 and half years my wife and I have not had sex, or had any kind of physical contact or intimacy. We have 2 boys, 7 and 2. The last time we had sex was when the last child was conceived. I have tried ...
A. 16 October 2008: Awww Buddy, you are right this is no marriage. That fact that she doesn't even let you discuss it with her is a really bad sign. See if she will agree to go to marriage counseling with you, but if not I'm afraid you will have to split the blanket. ... (read in full...)
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