I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???
Q. Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...
A. 16 December 2008: Hey Bugs, you're back! We've missed you!... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to be active in bed, but I am passive and wait for her to ask!!
Q. I have been married for 2 years. My wife has 3 young childfren from a previous relationship, but was never married. The past year and a half we have had no sex life, maybe every 3 or 4 months. She wanted me to be aggressive and go after it, and I ...
A. 16 December 2008: Wow, you sure can see who wears the pants in your family! Buddy, keep going to that counseling and if it isn't helping you then switch to another one until you get the help you need. You need to get that self esteem built up. Your marriage is ... (read in full...)
Does anyone understand why he is now ignoring me?
Q. I need a good, clear, understandable explanation to this puzzling problem Why would a guy I've had a past with and admitted before that he liked me, text me (sometimes 5 times a day), talk to me online, tell me about his life and what he's doing,...
A. 15 December 2008: Who knows, maybe he's busy, maybe he has poor manners, maybe he has decided he doesn't want to be with you and doesn't have the cojones to tell you, could be lots of reasons. You'll have to wait for your answer, but just don't wait too long.... (read in full...)
Can I get with my brother's girlfriend without hurting him?
Q. hello i have this freind who is seeing my brouther the other day i was talking with her and she told me she didnt love my brouther and didnt want to be with him anymore and that she had feelings for me which the feeling is the same here with me as ...
A. 15 December 2008: You can't, not without hurting your brother. Is there a woman in the world worth that? I'm surprised that at your age you would need to ask this.... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to be active in bed, but I am passive and wait for her to ask!!
Q. I have been married for 2 years. My wife has 3 young childfren from a previous relationship, but was never married. The past year and a half we have had no sex life, maybe every 3 or 4 months. She wanted me to be aggressive and go after it, and I ...
A. 15 December 2008: Get more aggressive and ask for it more. You may bring her back more than just experience if you go screwing around. I wonder if she thinks that giving you permission to run amuck means she'll be able to do the same? ... (read in full...)
A baby crazed Christmas!!! Help!
Q. OMG!I need help! I have no clue what to do! I dont know whether my hormones have gone insane or my maternal instincts have overtaken me, but I am baby crazed. I have no idea why, I've always wanted kids but now I think I've just gone crazy lol. My ...
A. 15 December 2008: Why don't you buy a little baby thing when your baby crazies come on. You know, a blanket, a teddy bear, night gown, stuff you can keep until you actually decide to have that baby?... (read in full...)
Why did she write me this email?
Q. Hi Background- boy meets girl in 2003 at college, fancies her like mad, and she seemed to like me too. I heard through the grapevine that she was, well, a slut.. so this put me off. By late 2004 I was still thinking about her despite having been ...
A. 15 December 2008: Send her the money when you can, that will be the closure you need. I don't think you should respond to her in any fashion. Leave it lay, but soon as you can send her the money, and don't include a note or anything. This woman sounds like bad pizza ... (read in full...)
Parents married 36 years, caught dad in bed with another woman!
Q. I caught my dad in bed with another women, he is 60 and been married to my mum for 36 years, should I tell my mum?...
A. 15 December 2008: You definitely need to talk to your Dad. You should tell him that he needs to talk to your Mother. He's the one who should be telling your Mom what's going on. You shouldn't be stuck in the middle of all this. Tell him to come clean with her or you ... (read in full...)
What do men like their woman to do while on top??
Q. what do men like women to do when their woman are on top. or How do you master woman on top...
A. 15 December 2008: Just don't whip out your paperback and start reading...it's a major turn off.... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual - why does my interest for guys last so shortly?
Q. please help me! i am bi and have been attracted to many women, and a few men. recently i found out that the overall attraction i have for any guy would not last more a month. i don't know why this has been happening, but i know those guys who have ...
A. 15 December 2008: Maybe you aren't really bisexual.... (read in full...)
I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???
Q. Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...
A. 15 December 2008: Why are you confused? She's not interested and told you so. Suck it up and move on.... (read in full...)
Does he like me but not realize it
Q. Yes, this is the same old story. I really like my guy friend tom. I think we would be great together, but i can't be sure because i don't know everything about him. I'd like the opportunity to find out. However, he has a girlfriend, Sam....
A. 15 December 2008: If he has a girlfriend then I guess you are going to have to just settle on being friends and waiting until he decides he'd rather be with you instead of the current girlfriend. Meantime, I would still date other guys because putting your life on ... (read in full...)
I like my friend's older brother! How to make him notice me?
Q. so there's this guy i like but i'm not exactly sure if he also likes me, he's really cool around me like he would always hug me n all that, me n him would always have the "eye contact" but then one of my girlfriends he's always joking around with ...
A. 15 December 2008: Ask him out for a cup of coffee, if he accepts take it from there and if he declines you'll have your answer.... (read in full...)
Moved in with boyfriend but strongly attracted to another man - how do I move out of this situation?
Q. What would you do? I have just moved in with my boyfriend of 3 years - with a lease of one year. I had doubts even before we moved in, but went ahead becuase i wanted to give it a go. He has been lovely to me, but i have come to admit t...
A. 15 December 2008: I guess you have no choice but to tell your housemate the truth. Let him decide what he wants to do. Since it is a house it most likely has at least two bedrooms so until you can help him find another housemate you could stay in the other room. If ... (read in full...)
Is my wife lying about her late night cheating?
Q. My wife did not come home one night. She lied about where she was, but finally i found out that she was with someother guy all night long (well until 5 a.m.). She wants to make-up and she tells me they did not do anything except kiss. Should I ...
A. 12 December 2008: Did she say WHY she felt the need to do this to you? ... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?
Q. Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face...
A. 12 December 2008: I think we can all agree that the feet are last...... (read in full...)
How do you make dry humping last longer for him?
Q. My bf doesn't like to dry hump that much because he says its to fast for him. Him comes way faster than with me just giving him a hand job. But i kinida get tired of giving a hand job especially if we do it many times we are together for the nite. ...
A. 12 December 2008: I wonder if he does his own laundry or whether mom does it.... (read in full...)
I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?
Q. I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?...
A. 12 December 2008: Exactly, I live in North Carolina.... (read in full...)
I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?
Q. I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?...
A. 12 December 2008: Thanks Uncle Phil, now I can uncover my ears,
Serenity1, perhaps your state does not allow this kind of suit but I know many states do, she needs to find out what goes in her own state. Of course it will only apply if the man files to divorce his ... (read in full...)
How do you make dry humping last longer for him?
Q. My bf doesn't like to dry hump that much because he says its to fast for him. Him comes way faster than with me just giving him a hand job. But i kinida get tired of giving a hand job especially if we do it many times we are together for the nite. ...
A. 12 December 2008: It's dry humping gone awry...... (read in full...)
His ex keeps butting in and telling me she is sleeping with him
Q. My husband I love very much and I guess what bothers me is that he talks to his ex girlfriend wich they don't have any kids together. But she sticks her nose in our marriage by calling me and saying that she sleeping with him and when I ask my ...
A. 12 December 2008: Your husband has no business talking with his psycho ex especially since she seems to be getting delusional about their relationship...or is she? Tell him to knock it off and that he should tell her to do the same. In the meantime stop answering her ... (read in full...)
His girlfriend cheated and he says he wants to get back at her. Does he love her, or do I have a chance?
Q. There is this boy I like. Me and him are real close and he means everything to me. I'd love to tell him how I feel but he has a gf. Whats confusing is that she cheated on him 3 months into there relationship and he has held a grudge ever since. They ...
A. 12 December 2008: I certainly sounds like he cares for his girlfriend and views you as a good friend (which is better than nothing). Stay friends and see what develops.... (read in full...)
He asked me if I have had sex, and when the answer was yes he stopped texting!
Q. Hello Cupiters! Okay, I started talking to this one guy..he's 26. Just by phone and text..we still haven't met because I think it's still too soon. I want to give it a lil more time since I met him thru an online dating site. Anyways, it's b...
A. 12 December 2008: Either he's looking for a virgin or looking for someone who's easy. You took yourself out of the running, consider yourself lucky, he sound like a wanker.... (read in full...)
How can I increase my sex drive?
Q. How can I increase my sex drive?...
A. 12 December 2008: Talk to your doctor there are a couple new medications.... (read in full...)
Don't I deserve to have a boyfriend? But all I get is rejection!
Q. i think love and romance is for good looking and cute people,ugly people like me get rejected ,and cute guys would never wnat to be seen with me as i was rejected by a guy 3 years who did that me and i am still suffering the effects of rejection no...
A. 12 December 2008: You know I'll bet we'll be getting a posting from some guy real soon. He'll be whining about the fact that girls only like strong, muscular, good looking guys and he never can compete with that and will never find a girlfriend. You should continue ... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?
Q. Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face...
A. 12 December 2008: tongue?... (read in full...)
I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?
Q. I am dating a married man. Can his wife sue me for loss of affection?...
A. 12 December 2008: It depends on which state you live in but most allow a suit against the homewrecker for alienation of affection and it can be very costly, and if you count in the cost for nipple replacement, we are talking big bucks.... (read in full...)
Could someone explain/ go into depth about ther experiences with morning sickness?
Q. Hello all! I was just wondering if anyone could explain a bit more about morning sickness. I know it differs between each individual, so I'm just curious to hear about personal expiriences. I suspect I could be pregnant but probably am not, there ...
A. 12 December 2008: I didn't get any pregnancy symptoms (except lack of periods) until the end of the first trimester. Morning sickness would come on anytime of the day if my stomach was empty. It lasted for about a month along with tiredness. By my fifth month I felt ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my wife's best friend and even my wife thinks we'd be great together!!
Q. I've been married for about 3 years now and the wife and I had female friend and our relationship with her went a little farther than friendship. For my birthday the two of them had a little surprise for me in the pool. It never went as far as ...
A. 12 December 2008: You are never too old for a crush, by the way. However since your wife is so open minded, I think it's time to sit down with her and tell her how you feel. How much do you love your wife? You didn't mention how you feel about her.... (read in full...)
How do I get over this obsession?
Q. well, i was reading another question like this and i noticed another answerer has the same problem as me, although probably not quite as bad. well anyways, i am OBSESSED with Elwood Blues. i think hes just, well.. perfect! and i cant get ...
A. 12 December 2008: Okay, he's aged but he still is pretty funny, most of the time. Is that better Cupid's Own Cowgirl?... (read in full...)
How to break that wall he has against me since we broke up? I want to date him again.
Q. Hi, so I broke up with my boyfriend for about a month and 2 weeks ago (we'd been together for 20 months and most of the time we've been really happy). We go to the same school, so we see each other practically every day. I didn't really wanted to ...
A. 12 December 2008: Wait and see if he takes you up on getting that cup of something. It sounds like you both are very much interested in each other. Just take things slowly, I have a feeling that it will all work out if both of you don't rush into it.... (read in full...)
How do I get over this obsession?
Q. well, i was reading another question like this and i noticed another answerer has the same problem as me, although probably not quite as bad. well anyways, i am OBSESSED with Elwood Blues. i think hes just, well.. perfect! and i cant get ...
A. 12 December 2008: Have you see Dan Akroyd lately? Man has he aged, that should help you get over your obsession!... (read in full...)
Marrying another but having oral sex with my boyfriend
Q. I am involved in oral sex with my boyfriend. After a month i am getting married to someone else. What should i do. Should i continue with him as i have developed emotional bond with him....
A. 12 December 2008: Huh? This is nuts.... (read in full...)
Is it okay that I'm falling for an older man?
Q. Im 27 and dating a 43 year old man? is that ok? i feel like all eyes are on me when we both go into public... what should i do?...
A. 12 December 2008: With big age gaps you have to make sure you have looked at the big picture, what will your life be like 10 years from now, what about 20? Sometimes you have to give up things to be with an older man. Just make sure you both want the same things and ... (read in full...)
The married guy I'm saying has a cheek to say I'm cheating on HIM!!!???
Q. Hey guys I am single but in love with a married man. We have sex once in a month. I am not sure about his feelings. Sometimes he says he has feelings for me and sometimes says he don't have. He has one other girlfriend also which I came to know ...
A. 12 December 2008: hee hee Uncle Phil, well said.... (read in full...)
We just broke up and I want to tell him to tell him off!!! How should I?
Q. My ex (18) and I (almost 19) just broke up a few days ago after exactly two years and one day and I finally feel ready to tell the f*cker off with the perfect amount of rage. But I want to look crazy sexy doing it! Make sure he knows what he just ...
A. 11 December 2008: What's the "perfect amount of rage"? Enraged people generally don't look "crazy sexy", they just look crazy. Instead why don't you go about your life quietly and calmly. Appear to be happy and that you are enjoying your new freedom. That will make ... (read in full...)
She keeps thinking she's pregnant, even though we use protection. What can I do!?
Q. Hi, Me and my girl started having sex about 3-4 months ago. Its always great but the big problem is her. We ALWAYS use protection and throughout the whole month she keeps thinking she is pregnant! I tell her not to worry, but she refuses to liste...
A. 11 December 2008: Maybe she is just using this excuse because she really isn't enjoying the sex all that much. Why doesn't she want to go on the pill? Using the pill and a condom she would be worryfree. Worrying is so exhausting I wonder what her real issue is?... (read in full...)
Will guys call me or do I always have to call?
Q. Should I expect for a boy to call sometimes, not just me calling him all the time?...
A. 11 December 2008: Of course you should expect the boy to call. In fact, back in the day it was considered very forward of a girl to call a boy at all. If a guy is truly interested, he'll call. Stop calling and see what happens.... (read in full...)
Does a man have a higher sex drive if he has hair on his chest??
Q. I heard, man with hairy chest has higher sex drive , than man with no hair on his chest. It seem to work in my relation ship, as my husband lost his drive and has no hair on his chest. But I don't know ,if it is a myth , or real? What do you think?...
A. 11 December 2008: Of course it's a myth.... (read in full...)
Town too small for both of us
Q. I am having a really hard time getting over my boyfriend, as he lives round the corner. I am from a very small town, everyone knows everybody else, his friends are my friends, i know all his family really well. Every advice tells you to move on by ...
A. 11 December 2008: if you can't move, and can't leave your job then you'll just have to cope with the situation until time has helped heal your heartache. Try to avoid him as much as you can and try to stay busy.... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend's brother is controlling him
Q. my ex , dumped me about 2 months ago , and i still love him with all my heart , he is younger me , hes 12 and im 14 , hes older brother is in my year at school , and he controlles my ex like a puppet , so his brother makes him hate me or love me , ...
A. 11 December 2008: Give him about 10 more years, he should be out from under his brother's control by then.... (read in full...)
Is he ashamed of me? He didn't ask me to go!
Q. Right my problem might sound a bit stupid. My bf has a works do next Friday, they are going out for a meal and then on to some clubs. I know that gfs and wives are invited as ive spoke to some of them, and they said that i had been invited but my bf ...
A. 11 December 2008: Is your relationship legal? Can you even get into the clubs?... (read in full...)
My older hubby wants kids but I'm not ready for parenting!
Q. I’m 28 and my husband is 46, The problem is that he desperately wants to have kids but I don’t feel ready, I’m not even sure that I want to have kids at all but I’ve decided that if I do choose to get pregnant I’d rather do it when I’m well int...
A. 11 December 2008: We had a simular question earlier:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-has-ed-and-wants-me-to.html
... (read in full...)
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