Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 5 January 2009: That's just fine but if you think you are truly losing control the anti-depressants can really help. You are monitoring yourself very closely and very well so if you see some serious "slippage" get your butt back to the doc's, okay? The holidays can ... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 5 January 2009: Did the doctor prescribe any medications to help you through this?... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 22 December 2008: I know I am....sigh... (read in full...)
My older hubby wants kids but I'm not ready for parenting!
Q. I’m 28 and my husband is 46, The problem is that he desperately wants to have kids but I don’t feel ready, I’m not even sure that I want to have kids at all but I’ve decided that if I do choose to get pregnant I’d rather do it when I’m well int...
A. 11 December 2008: We had a simular question earlier:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-has-ed-and-wants-me-to.html
... (read in full...)
My husband has ED and wants me to have a child with his brother!
Q. my hubbie suffers from ed and cannot get an erection. he has given me permission to find a lover as long as he knows about. i am 32 years of age and i have not had any children and i am desperate to have a child. my hubbie knows i want a child and ...
A. 11 December 2008: I hope every person that says age gaps don't matter reads this post. I often caution young women about the things they may be forced to give up if they marry a man who is a lot older than they. Children may be one of those things, and a active sex ... (read in full...)
What can I do to relieve all this horniness??
Q. I'm 13 years old and I'm sooooooooooo horny all the time. If I ever got caught with a vibrator I'd be dead! What do I do??????!!!!!!!!!...
A. 11 December 2008: Lean against the washing machine while it's on spin cycle, where's a will there's a way. 13...sigh...I think I was still playing with my Barbies not myself.... (read in full...)
We're both married to others but have feelings for each other!
Q. I'm married with a young child but recently i've noticed i have feelings 4 someone else who is also in a relationship he says he feels the same should we just ignore this feelings ...
A. 11 December 2008: Yep, you should just ignore those feelings, but then you already know that don't you.... (read in full...)
Lesbian teen very attracted to my half sister...
Q. Hi, I know this subject is frowned on by some, but I need to know if it can ever be right? Can it be made right? And I need some advice on how to approach my sister in the right way? I am 17 and live with my 15 (almost 16) year old half sister ...
A. 11 December 2008: You know damn well this isn't right nor will it ever be, that's why you are waiting to pounce on her when your mother is away. No one should be advising you on how to sexually assault a underage child, and it doesn't matter one iota whether she is ... (read in full...)
My husband is hitting on men! Is he gay??
Q. I'm 26, my husband's 28. We've been married for 6 months, and are well-liked locally. We like socializing, and do it fairly frequently. However, there's one problem which is affecting our marriage badly. He's flirting. Not with other women t...
A. 10 December 2008: Becky your husband has some major problems here and the worst of it is the fact that he is in total denial. Problems can't be solved if the person doesn't think or know that he has them. I think cutting down on the drinking and socializing would be ... (read in full...)
Are there any other options for me apart from counseling?
Q. I posted the question what should I do now that my life seems worthless, I think was the title anyway, I say thanks to diovan lestat and others for answering, but counseling is not for me, I have tried it and it brought me more down I just could not ...
A. 10 December 2008: I think you just haven't found the right therapist. Couseling gives you ways to cope while the root problems are being addressed. I think a professional, one you can work with, is the ticket out of your private hell.... (read in full...)
I have ulcers and sores in my mouth after cheating on my husband. Is this an STD?
Q. Can anyone help me I am worried sick, I have cheated on husband for a few months now, I have only given the other man oral, he is married too and says he has never had an affair before, but over the last number of weeks I have started getting ...
A. 10 December 2008: Also don't kiss your son until you have been diagnosed.... (read in full...)
I have ulcers and sores in my mouth after cheating on my husband. Is this an STD?
Q. Can anyone help me I am worried sick, I have cheated on husband for a few months now, I have only given the other man oral, he is married too and says he has never had an affair before, but over the last number of weeks I have started getting ...
A. 10 December 2008: By the way oral herpes is treatable but not curable. You'll have to tell your husband if you have contracted this.... (read in full...)
What does it mean if a guy says he 'used to fancy you' and is worried to tempt the friendship?
Q. What does it mean if a guy says he 'used to fancy you' and is worried to tempt the friendship? Also he blows hot and cold, he flirts then acts distant. We have kissed before when drunk.. We don't text for weeks then all of a sudden he rings me ...
A. 10 December 2008: I don't think he's all that into you I'm afraid to say. Especially if he has to be drunk to kiss you and goes for weeks without contact with you. I'd write him off as no more than a casual acquaintance.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend cool one minute, crazy the next!
Q. What do i do about my girlfriend?! She acts real cool one min the crazy angry the next. She just told me she cant trust me but i think the one who feels no trust must feel guilty about something they have done. I don't even question her fake ...
A. 10 December 2008: "I don't even question her fake marriage to get someone to become us citizen." She's married on top of all this? ... (read in full...)
Comfort zone or baby drama torn between the two!
Q. I am in love with two men. The first is the father of my son who I have been with for 5 yrs. Not a very happy 5 yrs. He is currently locked up (minor charge) and has been for 8 months. During that time I met another guy who I have fellen in love ...
A. 10 December 2008: I don't know what state you live in but I do know that you don't get 8+ months in jail for a minor charge. You should decide what is best for your son and move on from there.... (read in full...)
Shouldn't she just get over it?
Q. My best friend moved away and broke up with her boyfriend because of the distance. A little while after she had left, her ex and I started going out. One day after school we were making out in the hall and I felt a tap on my shoulder at first I just ...
A. 10 December 2008: Of course she'll get over it, at your age probably very quickly. I hope she also finds someone who can truly be her best friend as well, cause you sure aren't one.... (read in full...)
How do I stop my crazy ex-girlfriend?
Q. So I have been dating my current girlfriend now for almost 10 months, and i really think i love her, but my crazy ex girlfriend who just likes to mess with guys and stuff keeps making up these awful rumors about me, and she tells them to my ...
A. 9 December 2008: Ignore her, she'll stop this nonsense if you stop reacting to it.... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 9 December 2008: Okay then, where's Irish with the Molson?... (read in full...)
Need legal advice!
Q. I have a felony for cashing fraud checks. It's my first and only offense. I've been sentenced to 5 years of probation. I have only 5 months left. I was told that I can get it expunged. How would I be able to go about that? Also... the main thing ...
A. 9 December 2008: Usually you have to stay on probation until you have paid off your fines. Also the only way you can get this expunged is if the felony occurred when you were a juvenile and to do this you have to go through the courts.... (read in full...)
My wife is an automechanic and it's embarrassing!
Q. My wife is an auto mechanic and she also fixes everything around the house. It's kind of embarrassing because my friends always tease me about it. Like once we when on a rode trip with our friends and the car broke down. My wife repair it on 30 ...
A. 9 December 2008: I think you should take up baking.... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 9 December 2008: Bugs, I said I'd spend it. Guess that makes me evil but then what else do you do with a bag of Spanish ships?... (read in full...)
His ex keeps calling me!
Q. Have been in a relationship for the past four years. My boyfriend has already introduced me to his family, but for the past two months his ex has been bothering me. Have told my boyfriend concerning this issue and he has told her to keep off but ...
A. 9 December 2008: If you can't change you numbers then all you can do is to just hang up on her when she calls, she is psycho.... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 8 December 2008: galleons? Aren't those Spanish ships?... (read in full...)
He didn't tell me he had another child until after I had his!
Q. I've been engaged to my fiance for 2-3 years and we have a 1 year old son together. After I had our son in 07, a few months later, I found out he had another kid that was 11 years old at the time.I still want know why he hasn't told me anything ...
A. 8 December 2008: This is entirely up to you. He should have told you the truth when you first started dating. If this is a deal breaker for you then walk away. However you now have a son to think about as well. I think if I were you I'd tell him you only want the ... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 8 December 2008: I'll buy the ice.... (read in full...)
How do I get over emotional abuse when he blames me for his depression?
Q. I really really need help. I was with my boyfriend for one month when he slipped into a state of depression - for six months. Almost two weeks ago he claimed to have felt like he 'snapped' out of it and I was hesitant to let myself trust tha...
A. 8 December 2008: Depressed people feel extreme fatigue and malaise. They are often just too tired to get out of bed. They certainly don't have the inclination or strength to break chairs and dishes and to shout vicious things at their partners. Like Tish said, he's ... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 8 December 2008: It says I'm a Slytherin. I have no clue what that means, in my day we read Nancy Drew.... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 8 December 2008: Hey Tish you have Champagne cocktails on the veranda of Ravenclaw? Draw me a map, Babycakes.... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 8 December 2008: I hate taking surveys and tests, I tried Bugs, but as much as I love you, it was just too long, so since I'm old like Uncle Phil, I'll be whatever the heck he is.... (read in full...)
I am married man but have an indian lady fetish... And just love wearing their sarees!
Q. Hi. I have been married to an English girl for nearly 10 years now, and even though it has been a happy 10 years, I have always been attracted to women from India, especially women who wear the saree as their main clothing. I have joined various I...
A. 8 December 2008: Wow look at the life span on this post! I'm saree, but I think it might be a record!... (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 8 December 2008: I've been known to knock back a Molson's or 6 in my day, where are we going Irish? Allow me to assist you with that cooler.... (read in full...)
Why do people moan during sex?
Q. Hi...just a question about sex. Do people involuntary moan during sex? Is the thought of being turned on so much that it's completely impossible to resist doing so? And when do people usually moan during it?...
A. 8 December 2008: Not sure whether Mr. Undisclosed's temperature went up or not, but he did something for mine! No wait, just a hot flash........ (read in full...)
Any fans of Harry Potter?
Q. One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious....
A. 8 December 2008: Speaking of wizards, what happen to WAZ?... (read in full...)
Pregnant so soon after getting married???
Q. I'm 38 years old. I just got married this month. My husband and I never had sex until a few days before our wedding. I was supposed to have came on my period the week we made love. My last period was October 30th 2008. I haven't been with ...
A. 8 December 2008: All it takes is one time, my dear. Of course you could be pregnant. Take the test. Aren't you old enough to know the answer to your question?... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 8 December 2008: Sounds like you are getting a handle on the situation. Like I said before it's a good thing you were so on top of things so you didn't let it spiral out of control.... (read in full...)
Who do I pick: the guy I'm dating and starting to like or the mean ex who apparently has changed??
Q. Hello. I just turned 21 and am stuck between two guys. The first one (A) and i were going out for 3 years. He took me for granted, was mean to me, didnt have a job, etc. We broke up and the day we broke up i found the second guy (B). He was ...
A. 8 December 2008: Stay with the new guy, he sounds like winner. Your ex is an ex for a good reason, I doubt if he's changed all that much.... (read in full...)
I am perfectly satisfied being the mistriss and don't want to take him away from his wife.
Q. I am madli in love with a man. But he has family. He is a very responsible husband and a father. He also loves me very much. We have a great sex life.But he told me before starting that he is not powerfull to spoil his wife's life. I also feel the ...
A. 8 December 2008: I wonder how happy you will be years from now, when on a cold Canadian winter's evening, as you sit all alone and lonely, staring out on the snow and ice through your window, wondering when the next time he will be able to spare a few minutes for ... (read in full...)
He has cybersex with women in the Internet! Should I leave him?
Q. i've been married for 6yrs and i always knew that my husband was into porn but i didn't know how bad til i look into his computer.wow i thought he's really into this.but at frist i thought it was just a guy thing that all guys do this.is it?then ...
A. 8 December 2008: Viewing porn and having cybersex are two very different things. Draw the line in the sand immediately, especially since it is affecting your own sex life. Tell him if he crosses the line again, he's looking at the door. And mean it.... (read in full...)
She wants to meet up, but I am worried she is too young?
Q. Ive recently started chatting to a really nice girl online and on webcam and we only live a hour away from eachother and she wants to meet up tonight She's a awesome girl but is she TOO young in your opinion? Im 23 and she is 16...
A. 8 December 2008: Yep too young, you'll be looking for trouble if you meet up with her.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and want to date but parent will not let me. Are they afraid of me growing up?
Q. Im a 13yr old girl...and not allowed to date... I have once but my parents dont know about it. Are they just afraid that im growing up. They freaked out when i started my period... I havent had any contact with guy...close enough to touch....
A. 8 December 2008: Your parents are doing the right thing by you. 13 is too young to begin dating. I didn't allow my daughters to date until they were 15 and then they could only double date until 17. Safety in numbers sort of thing. It's not that your parents don't ... (read in full...)
He wanted to cum in my eye!!!
Q. I was having sex with a guy I've been seeing for a while the other night, when he said he wanted to do something. He didn't want to say what but I made him tell me and he said he wanted to come in my eye! I thought it was a joke at first so I ...
A. 8 December 2008: I'd have to change my name on this one.... (read in full...)
His ex keeps calling me!
Q. Have been in a relationship for the past four years. My boyfriend has already introduced me to his family, but for the past two months his ex has been bothering me. Have told my boyfriend concerning this issue and he has told her to keep off but ...
A. 8 December 2008: What does she say when she calls?... (read in full...)
I want a baby, but I don't know what my parents would say!
Q. hi the thing is im 18 my boyfriend is 21 i have been with him for 3years and i really want a baby with him i understand the responsibility issue and not just the cute baby side. me and him would but we're both worried about what my mum and dad would ...
A. 8 December 2008: I can totally verify what Tish has said. I'm a grandmother of 6 and I know my husband and I totally enjoy being able to spoil the kids but at the end of the visit we love to go home to our nice quiet home. So do you live with your parents or not?... (read in full...)
I love a married man! I don't expect him to leave his wife, but I suffer so much when not being with him, what can I do??
Q. hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have ben seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...
A. 8 December 2008: I just can't believe how many of these homewreckers say nothing about the pain they are causing the innocent wives and children involved in their trysts with married men! All they talk about is their own pain which they have brought on themselves. ... (read in full...)
I want a baby, but I don't know what my parents would say!
Q. hi the thing is im 18 my boyfriend is 21 i have been with him for 3years and i really want a baby with him i understand the responsibility issue and not just the cute baby side. me and him would but we're both worried about what my mum and dad would ...
A. 2 December 2008: So you say you aren't really worried, you know what you want,then why did you ask for advice? Advice on what?... (read in full...)
I want a baby, but I don't know what my parents would say!
Q. hi the thing is im 18 my boyfriend is 21 i have been with him for 3years and i really want a baby with him i understand the responsibility issue and not just the cute baby side. me and him would but we're both worried about what my mum and dad would ...
A. 1 December 2008: I'm sorry but someone who is worried about what "Mum and Dad" would say has no business bringing a baby into this world. Only people who can stand on their own two feet have any business deciding something so serious and important.... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 1 December 2008: Tell your doctor exactly what you have told us, I'm sure most doctors will be able to address your concerns with many viable options for you to consider. You are fortunate that you were able to determine that something was not right early on, ... (read in full...)
Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her???
Q. Why after 15 years of blissful marriage have I just started to look at my wife and ask myself do I fancy her any more. It has just started and driving me crazy, I can't talk to anyone as I don't want to upset her, I love her to bits . I just want to ...
A. 1 December 2008: You have decided to do the correct thing, it really sounds like you are having panic attacks and it just is focused on your wife, but most likely has nothing to do with her or your feelings for her, more likely it's strain at work, your father's ... (read in full...)
I love a married man! I don't expect him to leave his wife, but I suffer so much when not being with him, what can I do??
Q. hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have ben seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...
A. 24 November 2008: You are never going to find happiness with this guy, just misery, and I think you know it. I also think you know exactly what you need to do, for yourself and for his family. He may be truthful to you but he certainly is behaving despicably towards ... (read in full...)
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