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writes:I really need advice on this girl. We've became very close friends this past year, and over the last few weeks I've developed stronger feelings for her. She is so cute, but i love everything about her, she's the girl version of me. We have a good time together, and are always hanging out. She is one of my best friends now, and I don't want to risk not being friends with her, cause she's awesome. Another thing is I have no self esteem, and wouldn't imagine her going for me, but I've had countless people tell me that she's into me. I don't know what to think. I haven't told anyone about it cause like I said, I love being friends with her. Any advice would be great. I'm not very good with girls, only ever been with 4 in my life, but it's more me not doing anything about people who I like. Cheers guys.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 I'm not a guy so I can't say I've been in your shoes as far as asking someone to be with you but I have had to screw up my courage to ask for other things in life like: can I have a pay raise. If other people think she's into you they are probably right because when you're on the outside of something you often see it a lot clearer. Just screw up your courage and say something fairly non threatening like: "I just love hanging out with you would you like to go to the movies and dinner together. Then you can ask if she sees your friendship going any further than friends.
Good luck to you. Have courage, have strength you'll be fine!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 May 2010):
 You ask her out now before someone else does. When she gets attached then you get less chance to be with her. Take the risk and find out what she likes about you. You've been with 4. You are pretty good. Imagine how many you would have if you actually do more.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (2 May 2010):
 If you ahve countles people tellign you that she is into you and that you admit that you have self esteem issues, then you are not a good source of knowing whether or not she likes you.
Your friends are.
She does like you, so ask her out.
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