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writes:Hi, my name is chey and im 17 years old my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now and we just had sex last night that is saturday the 1st i was nervous about and and didnt really even want to have sex.. He peer pressured me into it so i did it he said he was putting on the condom but before he did he put it in me a couple times when i realized he didnt i yelled at him. I watched him put it on then we started again when he said he was about to cum he pulled out took off the condom and shot me in the face with it. I was pissed off. Then he started treating me like s**t but thats a longer more complicated story. I need to stop hitting around the bush and just say im terrified! And i dont know what to do i think its just because its my first time and im just thinking about it my mom is battling my dad in court so i honestly cant even tell her i had sex she will be even more stressed out my periods are irregular because i was on the seasonigue pill because i needed to transfer to the depo so i cant wait around to see even if i am pregnant im so sick to my stomach even thinking about it because ill be responsible enough to tell you there is no way in hell i can raise a child i have problems doing things for myself can you please give me some advice on what i should do it would be very helpfull
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): 1. If you are 17 y.o. you can walk in to any pharmacy and purchase Plan B without rx. It costs close to $30-50 in chain pharmacy, but could be cheaper in private store.
2. YOu can go to a place like Planned Parenthood and request morning after pill. You do not have to bring a parent or guardian to a place like that. It is not a requirement.
3. The pill will work in first 72 hours (3 days) but the sooner you take it, the more effective it will be (hurry up)
4. Dump your bf
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reader, Chey(: +, writes (2 May 2010):
Chey(: is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI knoe i tried n i cant get the pill and i asked him and he refusefd as much as it hurt me i left him no hes thresting me im so upset and stressed out odk wat to do
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 May 2010):
1 - There is a chance that you could be pregnant. For this reason, you need to go to your doctor and get the emergency pill.
2 - Please dump this guy, unless you already have. He lied to you about using a condom and put your health at risk, then took it off again. He has no respect for you at all.
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reader, Chey(: +, writes (2 May 2010):
Chey(: is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI cant I tried they said I had to get a parent or guardian to sign cause its not my 18th birthday yet. Im scared I dont know what else to do but hope and pray im not... And he doesnt even care hes ignoring my calls and texts because he said i dont knwo when to drop things.. I should have left him when he started this stuff but i was in love.. Now i feel used :(
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (2 May 2010):
 go imediatly to your doctor and get the day after pill this will stop any possibilty of getting pregnant but it only 100% works within 48hrs can work up to longer but less effective that is your best thing to do see your local doctor. good luck
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