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writes:I've been with my bf for 3 months and im starting to feel like hes looking for an escape route out of the relationship. Hes very friend orientated so will see them most weekends and he also goes on cycling weekends so half the time i feel neglected as our time together is limited. I have mentioned to him before that i dont feel like i see him and wonder if he still is interested and he reassured me he did like me and wouldnt bother coming round if he didnt. But since this things i feel have gone slightly downhill and where we had made plans to go to the cinema it turns into him only coming to see me for an hour. I had a few drinks last night and ended up mentioning i didnt feel like he was that bothered about me anymore. He never text me back so talk about trying to make me feel reassured. What do do know? hes out of town until monday now so should i not text back and wait for him to initiate contact or bite the bullet and txt him?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (2 May 2010):
 You do not seem to be on his priority list.His actions does not show that you are his priority .
Wait for him to initiate the text and if there is no text, you will know where his heart lies.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 May 2010):
You have to remember that this is still early on. The relationship is only 3 months old. I think you need to give this a little more time. If at 6 months he has not changed, then you'll need to move on. As for the texting, let him contact you first.
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