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writes:ok i know this guy years but never really talked to him and he was known to be a rude guy.i dont know why but we set up a date and met up. he seemed really nice and all.. after that i saw him again but he had some problems at home and didnt say a word during dinner. later he txt me 'i miss you' when he was drunk. after that i saw him again and he was a bit quiet and annoyed again. after that we went to have a drink with his friends. But he got so drunk he wanted to kiss me when his friends left and he says i dont want him, i dont talk to him,(which is not true) i dont wanna kiss him blabla. i said no! cuz he was drunk! one day after that he drunk dialled me agains saying the same things. when he was sober i told him what he was saying. he claims he doesnt remember saying it and he once said it to his dad when drunk!? and drunk dials a lot of people?? im always the one to call him you know.. he rarely contacts me and i discovered that he blocks and unblocks me on messenger? i dont understand him.. please help.. i do like him but i want him to tell me when hes sober. i unconsciously reject him a few times when he was throwing me signs.. and im sorry.. he also says that hes only like this when hes single. thanks for your help :) i appreciate it!
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reader, lynn1977  +, writes (2 May 2010):
I think that you should let him go. this guy has emotional issues right now and he is depressed. He is turning to alcohol to ease his emotional pain. Speaking from experience, he is only saying these things to you because he is drunk. I hink you deserve better than this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): He's a loser with some serious emotional issues you need, yes need, to walk away. If you think it's bad now then you should consider what will happen in the future.
Nothing good will come of any relationship with this guy he has too much baggage,if he can't remember the things he does and says when he's drunk then you seriously can't trust him, if he's calling his dad and telling him these things then just imagine what he would do if another girl showed him interest while he was drunk.
It's not the sign of a stable or intelligent person that keeps repeating the same mistakes, if you kept doing things to damage yourself and your relationships when drunk on a regular basis would you keep drinking?
He's playing a game with you and not very well at that, seriously move on, you can do nothing to change the person he is or his behaviour, he's just not that into you but gets horny and loved up when he's drunk.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (2 May 2010):
 Do not waste your time on a drunkard. he does not even remeber what he says when he is drunk, so it really means nothing.
And when he is sober he almost never initiates contact,and he blocks you on messenger... Clearly not encouraging.
Let him go. The sooner the better.
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