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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Let's call my first friend M and my second one V. So M, V and I used to be best friends, but it came to a time where only M and V hung out together. They became really close. But when we got to 8th/9th grade, M started telling me how V was getting on her nerves and talking shit about her. A guy comes along..V gets all into him and M is trying to tell her he's not good for her. V tells M "FUCK YOU" and they stop being friends.I talk to M and try to fix their friendship and M does talk to V. They talk it out..and at first I was happy because M said she would take care of herself and not get close to V again to get hurt like that. Well, she doesn't know how to take care of herself because now they are going to each other's houses and hanging out again like best friends..and once again I'm left out because me and V aren't on good terms.What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): I think that if these two are causing large amounts of drama in each others lives and they have fallen out alot then maybe they're not worth the hassle.
It seems as if they're using you when they fall out with each other and therefore it's unfair on you. If you try and make new best friends maybe M will realise what she had when she was bestfriends with you, and as soon as her and V fall out again you won't be there to catch her and therefore she will realise how much she needs you :)
best of luck :)
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