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I already don't trust and then my husband cheats! How can I trust him?

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Question - (2 May 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I really need some advice...Im a married woman who found out a month ago my husband has been having a affair for the past 6 months..just to give you a look at why that bothers me so bad..when i was 10 my father died and my mother passed away 9 yrs ago of cancer and 6 months ago i found out my mother had never told me that my real father lives just twenty mins. away..I did meet him but he did and said inapproiate things like tring to pay me to have sex with him...so needless to say we dont have contact anymore..the reason for me telling this is my husband seemed to never try to understand how heart breaking it is now i see why he was having an affair..all my relationships i have been cheated on abd it seems i cant trust anyone..he also cheated ayear and a half ago...he never had sex with either girl but how do i trust him again..i know he would have had sex with the second girl but she was also married and wouldnt do it...can trust him again?????????????????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010):

Before we go any further, If they weren't having sex, what kind of cheating was it? Was he actually cheating or was it something you classed as cheating due to your understandable insecurities?

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