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writes:Does this make me heartless?i separated with my boyfriend for six year, two years back..because he was an alcoholic and a womaniser...this left me hurt, used and i got low self esteem issues...for the six years i supported him, financially and emotionally that everything will be okey... however when he got this job that made him famous(news editor)..he got the money and the fame and forgot about us..i tried to make it work..but he could never stop partying, drinking and sleeping with other girls....irrespective of the fact that i had run out financially and i needed his support... .so i threw in the towel..and ended the relationship..however much i loved him...i still do......so loved turned to hate and i never spoke to him ever since...and i secretly hoped he would suffer and lose the job...so that he gets a reality check....so finally last week he was fired for drinking so much ..and his now jobless..what though surprises me is that i dont feel the joy i thought would feel...in fact i now have no feeling for him..of either love or hate..am just empty....do you think its normal.....
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 May 2010):
Perfectly. He hurt you, cheated, took everything and gave nothing, and the only way you'd ever feel that you'd got justice was if he'd lost his job. And now he has becuase he was a drinker and couldn't be trusted. You now know that he's a big an ass as you think, and you know you can do better than him. The empty feeling is the first feeling you've got from moving on. You don't need him in your life at all, you've got your justice that I do think you needed and deserved. Now you cna move on with a big smile and find a better guy out there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): No, your not heartless, he is! And of course you hopes he'd loose his job, anyone would if it did that to someone... If you feel responsible for thinking it just think about how that's not posible!!
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