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writes:some days back i had asked a question on relationship with a married christian lady with whom i have been working for the last 12 years. now i would like to ask another question in this context. 28th april was my birthday and i offered the christian lady to have lunch with me outside,but she refused to go and told that if someone see both of us either of his husband,s friend or of her. I agreed with her on this but i gave her some sweets which she accepted. on the very next day i told her that i love her very much and i feel uneasiness until she phones me at this she has got angry upon me and told on the very next day that she does not like all these things and she is almost on the verge of breaking up the relationship and told me that she will not phone me until it requres.please reply me so that the ice may melt between us at the easrliest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010): she is married
she now wants to do the right thing - not wanting to have anything with you
let her practice her christian beliefs and let her put an end to this adultery
respect her decision
respect her
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 Let it go! This woman is married and is cheating on her husband. Supposing she were to leave him and get separated and divorced to be with you: what guarantee would you have that she wouldn't at some point down the road, have an affair with another man? Short answer - you don't.
Painful as it may be, just end it for good and all. Let yourself be free to meet a woman who is genuinely able to form, in time, a good relationship with you. You'll be doing the right thing!
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reader, Sakuchanz +, writes (2 May 2010):
If she's married it's wrong because she's cheating on her spouse. It's even more wrong if she calls herself Christian because this is adultery.
She doesn't want to be seen with you because she knows it's possible that she could be caught in the act.
It's better to break off the affair if she's gotten angry at you for loving her. This shows a sign of guilt for cheating and also shows that she doesn't have as strong of feelings as you do.
In other words, to her it's an affair and nothing more.
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