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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: My best friend is always concerned about herself. She always goes about something wrong with her, and never really listens to my problems. I like her and everything, but she gets annoyed over the stupidest things and it makes me annoyed sometimes because i think its quite pathetic. On the other hand, my other best friend is an amazing friend, we have always been best friends but shes recently changed alot. She drinks and smokes and always wants to get drunk, and has turned into quite a chav. I dont know what to do, help!!
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reader, Use_Somebody_28 +, writes (3 May 2010):
Well i'm the same age as you (15 going on 16 soon) but i've noticed that people our age change DRAMATICALLY. Sometimes it may be for the good but a majority of it is for the bad. Teenagers like us nowadays are wanting to experiment - y'know like drugs/sex/drink and what not. You may not want to hear this but if she is acting like that and the situation doesn't improve soon your friend may have changed. You've got to accept that at this age we cant really take anything seriously a part from our school work. I mean yeah it is nice having friends and everything but people change, they're trying to find themselves and who they are. You can talk to your friend about how you feel about the way she is acting lately and hopefully things get resolved. But if it doesn't you have have to end the friendship if you dont feel like you can carry on with it anymore. It's tough i know but its all part of growing up.
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