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writes:I don't know where to start here... I'm a 15 year old guy and my life is really messed up. A few years back I was an out going boy, top of my class and loving life. Now my days consist of going to school depressed and hangig out with my friends, none of whom I feel I can trust. I've list all confidence arround girls thanks to pas experience so can hardly muster up the courage to talk to any. No one invites me out anymore so I can home every day and spend every living moment burryed in sencless addication to gaming trying to hide from the truth and lock away my feelings untill night time when I cry myself to sleep, crying out to a god I can't even belive in. Although I'm almost always depressed some times one thing makes me so enthusatic I feel ontop of the world... invincible like I can do anything then one tiny thing will send me into depression or blind rage.
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reader, Niamhy  +, writes (15 May 2010):
You're so so so young and don't need these types of problems in your life. I'd advise that you'd talk to your doctor, like i did when i was depressed and they'll help you. I know it may seem an impossible task to do, but it'll make a huge difference and will lift a huge weight if you tell someone.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 May 2010):
You sound just like I did. In fact, exactly like I did. But I think you sound like you're a bit worse right about now. Somewhere, something in your life will have caused this. And you need to find out what it is. That means going to a counsellor about it. Because of you do lose your temper, you could land yourself in real trouble. And if you don't address this and become even more reclusive, you'll be in trouble in a different way. I think the best thing you can do is think about what has happened to you recently, and try talking to a counsellor or doctor about it. If you don't, it won't go away and you'll not be able to move forward with your life as you'd like to. For what it's worth, if you can get through this like I did, you'll be a much stronger person for it, and even when it's all going wrong (like it is for me right now), it won't matter because you'll know that even when it's all at its worst, it's something you can deal with. Good luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2010): Honey, I honestly think you should seek therapy because, there seems to be a bigger issue than what meets the naked eye. You are so, so, so young, so it's good to start therapy now because, if you don't, your condition is liken to worsen as you get older. I can't pin point what may be your issue, I do think you are suffering from depression (it runs through my family) of some sort. I understand how the world can get you down and the slightest negative or wrong thing can bring your mood down to negative zero. All I can say is that, it will take time for you to overcome this and you need to get all the help you can. Moreover, if you feel in your heart that you do not trust your friends or the women you date, dismiss them from your life. It may be a hard thing to do depending on how long you have known them, but you have to chose between having a healthy mental state, v.s. having friends around to have temp. fun with even though you don't trust them.
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reader, Euphoricpoison  +, writes (2 May 2010):
damn bro, ur young and seem smart. You prob feel u cant trust your friends b/c theyre not good friends. You need to change your attitude now, becaus crying like a woman isnt gonna do no good. Be strong, youre a man, be confident, no lie, fake it, force yourself to be more outgoing, have some friends over, make new ones, go for a run, get outside, join a sport, read, be happy, ur mind can be a heaven and hell. Im also a depresive and always feeling down, but you're in control of your mood, next time you're feeling down, get the eff out the house and go do somthing!!!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (2 May 2010):
 Geeze...okay, something happened to you. What happened to you? People who are outgoing and warm, friendly and happy don't just become super-emo and depressed overnight. Usually, that happens due to trauma, like divorce of parents, sexual assault, physical or mental abuse, or something along that line.
It's also possible that puberty is playing holy havoc with your moods, and if you're feeling out of control, you should see a therapist or psychologist to get help. A brain can get sick or injured like a leg or an arm can.
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