My boyfriend does not seem to have much time for me amongst the other things in his life.

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for about 4 months now. He is 20 and im 15 [ yes im aware there is an age difference.] He goes clubbing often every either thursday friday and saturday, We started off really happy and he used to call me 6-7 times a day and text me when we werent on the phone now im lucky to get 2 phone calls in a day. When he goes clubbing hes out untill about 3 and he drinks alot and he grinds with other girls, and they touch him but he claims he always tells them to stop, when hes not clubbing hes playing poker or at school or at work he doesnt have time for me and he knows it cause he apoligized for it many times but he doesnt change it. im not aloud out often but if he wanted to see me i could try and go out. He doesnt even try and have sex anymore. I don't want to leave him because i care about him alot. What should i do?

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