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anonymous
writes:Please help, i met my partner 3 years ago we worked together and after 7 months of seeing each other we had bought a house and moved in together then two months after that I became pregnant. Our little boy is just amazing and the best thing that has happened to us. However just before our sons first birthday we split up I left him due to arguements being nasty to each other etc we split for 5 months during which point i met someone else whom I was with for a while, however that didnt work out. Me and my partner then decided to get back together and have been living together again for 3 months however I now find that I am not attracted to him in a sexual way I do not want to have sex with him and I cant get that other guy that I was with for a short while out of my head. The other guy has told me that he is the same cant stop thinking about me and wishes we could be together. What do I do stay with my partner hope that it will work and that I will want to be intimate with him again or end it??
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 You're not attracted to him and you're prone to nasty arguments. This house sounds exhausting! You're probably getting drained, and your child is too. I think you need to take a break and take a good, long look at your life, your partners and your child's. Figure out what is actually best for you all. I agree with the first poster: your child will be a lot happier living in a house with happy parents who aren't together than miserable parents who are.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (2 May 2010):
 You shoudl definitely loeave ythe guy you are with and go with your heart.
Your child will be in a more happy place growing up with happy divorced parents than with two married angry parents.
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