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writes: ok so ive been with my bf on and off for four years and i left him before because he got so wrapped up in drugs he seemed to forget about me completely, we had a few breakups last year and just recently got back together and i thought it was for good everything was going great and its been just about 5 months and now hes falling back into the same bulls**t and i just dont know what to do anymore im stuck....
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (3 May 2010):
I agree whole-heartedly with CaringGuy. You can't save him, you can't force him to get better and he'll never give you 100% of himself as long as he's got drugs in his life. If breaking up repeatedly hasn't worked, nothing will. You need to make a clean break for GOOD and find a guy who isn't committed to drugs more than you. Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 May 2010):
I think you need to face facts. This won't work. All you've done is break up and get back together and break up. He's into drugs, and is clearly not bothered about you at all. Quit dating this man. If it didn't work first time around, it's not going to work now that he's on drugs and all you've done is break up and get back together. There is nothing here to stay for you. You have to end it.
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