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*haq88
writes:ive been going out with this girl 2 and half yrs now.. love her to death.. but for some reason.. i really want to trust her but than i cant.. our sex part was great before but now its like i have to ask her for it.. and sometime i feel i force her to do it.. she doesnt seem interested.. then one day she tells me theres one guy that likes her at her job and her co workers been telling her... i just dont know anymore... she acts weird.. i asked her straight and she flips... last time i had sex with her was a long time ago.. but now.. the other day some how we started giving oral sex.. and her vagina look very llose and she has loose skin..
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 May 2010):
 If a woman's vulva--the labia majora and labia minora (her vaginal lips)--got saggy every time she had sex, and continue to get 'saggier' and 'saggier', we'd be wheeling around our genitalia in wheelbarrows by the time we were in our 60s. That's simply a misconception that needs to be dispelled.
Your scrotum is tighter and looser at certain times, right? I mean sometimes it's all tight and the testicles are as snug as could be, other times, it's loose and things are kind of bouncy, right? Does she accuse you of being unfaithful if it's all kind of baggy that day? Think about it.
If you are unhappy with the state of your sex life and your relationship, I think it's time you learn a way to talk to her about it, without accusing her of infidelity. Maybe she's tired, maybe she's depressed, maybe she doesn't feel connected emotionally to you right now, for whatever reason. Ask her to talk to you, honestly and gently, and be prepared to hear things you won't like, but listen in a calm and loving manner. It takes patience to communicate well, so you might as well start practicing.
Good luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 May 2010):
 I bow to your superior dicking knowledge.
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 May 2010):
She could be dicking the entire Dallas Cowboy team and her "skin" wouldn't loosen. I think you are just letting your imagination run away with you. But if you aren't happy it's time to leave, it's not as if you are married or anything.
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