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female
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30-35,
*aurenzobeb
writes:I was with this guy for 10 months and he finished me about 5 months ago because we were arguing. I still love him so much and i've tried to move on, by meeting other guys and stuff-but nothing is working. if anything it's making it 10x harder for me, cos it reminds me just how much i love my ex, and how much i want him and no one else. i've explained all of this to my ex, but he doesn't care. He says that its been 5 months and i need to get over it! In the past, I did cause a lot of petty arguments over nothing, and we still argue now. but i know why i argue with him now- it's because everyday i wake up so angry with him because he won't give it another chance, so if you're angry with someone, more than likely your going to argue with them, right? so i know that if he gave it another chance.. i would be so happy that i couldn't cause an argument even if i tried. My ex just says that it wont happen and that he's never getting back with me, but he gets jealous if i kiss other guys.. i guess anyway, as he always asks me questions about the guy like 'how did it happen?' 'who added who on facebook?' and tries to insult him like 'the guy looks like he wears fake tan' to me this is a clear sign of jealousy. I asked him to meet me a few days ago, and he did. and it was so good! it was just like old times, we were just lay there cuddling but he wouldn't kiss me, as he didn't want to lead me on which i suppose i respect but he said he didn't want a girlfriend, but i keep on thinking he could easily change his mind. It's his birthday in 2 days time, and he's having a bbq, but he's not inviting me even though i invited him to my party last month. He said he doesn't want me there because he thinks I'll wreck his night, yet he's inviting other girls-only about 3 though. It really bothers me, and I just can't get over this guy. I don't want to give up on him as i feel like he's the one, we were perfect for each other, and i know in my heart that if we got back together, it would be so much better. I asked him to meet me tomorrow so i can give him his birthday present, but I don't know what to get him. I was thinking of making him like a little scrapbook of memories of us 2, to try and win him over, like win his heart, but i'm not sure, what do you think?and please help on how i can get this boy back, i love him too much! xxxx
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 No, don't give him anything for his birthday. Quit being so nice to him all the time and instead use the time and energy for yourself. If you already told him, you were giving him something and not he is expecting it, buy him a cheap card and sign it. Nothing more. Stop contacting him for a while and give him a chance to miss you (use the no-contact rule).
Otherwise he'll think that you're nagging and boys don't like that.
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