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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm really confused, I liked this guy who had a girlfriend, then we kissed at the cinema, but when he wanted to again I said no because of his girlfriend. The following week I went round his house and we kissed multiple times and he was telling me he loves me.He broke up with his girlfriend 2 days ago and last night I went round his house again, and we spent the night cuddled up on his bed and kissing loads, but I didn't really feel the spark and started thinking about my ex boyfriend and another crush while making out.I'm have been confused about my sexuality for months, i think I may be a bisexual. Earlier this week I've had dreams about having sex with my ex boyfriend, a guy i used to have a crush on, and a girl. I'm so messed up, I don't know what to do about this guy I'm with, I can't keep this up if I'm no longer feeling the connection with him, but I hurt him once and I don't want to do it again. HELP, what do i do?!
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reader, BunnyTee  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 Ok here's what you do:
A) back away from snogging with cinema guy
B)Why are you still hung up on the ex-Bf? Have you figured that out, yet?
C)Just because you dream about something doesn't mean it's destined for reality, little sister.
Sounds like you're trying to handle far too many things all at once. At more than twice your age bracket, with my vast experience and know-how, I'd have one heck of a time trying to juggle all you're juggling. Slow down, one thing at a time. Prevent yourself from muddying the water further by adding more and more into the mix, (like snogging with cinema guy). You have lots of time to figure yourself out along with your sexuality. Just slow down and work at resolving each matter before going onto the next. Keep your wits about you and be a smart girl about things. Think it through. Good luck and respect yourself above all things!
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