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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend of five months has gone away and we had a small argument before he went away but i thought it was all forgiven and forgotten. but i dont think it is. i have a guy who likes me (i used to like him) but then went off him and now am in love with the guy i'm going out with. he makes me so happy. at first when he went away for the first two days he texted me fine, after that i told him that the guy who liked me confessed he couldn't get over me and was still very into me. suddenly the texts started to dwindle and i was getting one sentence texts and for the past two days i have recieved nothing from him. he hasnt texted or called and i'm so worried. i really like him, but the question is am i going to get dumped? sorry it was so long.
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reader, Zoe-louisexx  +, writes (2 May 2010):
 Wait till your bf comes back home and if he is as long away as he said he would be but whilst he is away text him sayin you love him or things like that so he understands you are not with someone else and so he knows you still want to be with him when he comes back and maybe try ringing him. Let him know how you feel and if your not into this other boy anymore, tell your bf that. He should believe you. :)x
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reader, Fornorina +, writes (2 May 2010):
 The answer to your question is, you have to wait and see because there's no way you can get into a man's head. I think it depends how long he is away for for what you should do.
For example, if he's back in the next few days or a week, you just have to wait and arrange to meet up so you can apologise properly and to make sure everything is OK with the both of you.
If he's away longer, I think you should try to text him again, but explain about how you feel about your situation you're both in, apologise as well - that helps.
Other than that there's nothing you can do.
But I really am thinking now that he wants his space - after all - he's away! I think you should respect his distance from you and try to call him within the next 2-3 days. Try texting, but don't expect a text back immediately.
Good luck! :) X
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