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We're like sexual ships that pass in the night....how do we get on the same schedule?

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Question - (19 May 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My husband works late and rarely wants sex. When he does it is usually at 2 or 3am, when I am often too tired.

I'm in the mood during the day, but then he's at work!

How do I figure this out?

I don't have a particularly strong sex drive and so waiting around for sex isn't an option.

Thanks!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010):

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Thank you!

Unfortunately he works 2.5 hours away, it is too far to just show up!

I work part time and so I don't always have days off to just drive up there.

It was a lot easier when he worked a little closer to home!

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A male reader, RyanS United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2010):

RyanS agony auntWork stress can be quite damaging/suppressing for a couple's sexual activities. Mornings are usually the best time from a man's perspective and the sleep removes stress and clears the mind. Try it in the mornings whenever you feel like it; your guy is very unlikely to say no. Use weekends if weekdays are very tight. Whatever you do, don't make it look like a duty for the male, and you will get what you want!

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A male reader, isaias15 United States +, writes (19 May 2010):

isaias15 agony auntYou know what you do!!! Go to his job and do him there, it would be so hot, he ofcourse is going to put down that phone and cancel all his meetings because you went out your way to give him some MClovin!!! Im telling you do that and its going to feel like your 18 again. Hope this helped.. Keep me informed :)

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (19 May 2010):

TimmD agony auntYou just said "he's" at work, does that mean you do not? Could you two meet up on some days for a "quicky"?

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